y’know. I’m thinking about all those times I deleted our simply plural solely because I was fully convinced I was “faking” and “being disrespectful to actual systems”—and then how many times other people fronted and redownloaded it.
if I had one thing to say to people in syscovery even sorta relating to this, seriously, you’re not alone. there is absolutely no wrong way to be plural. there’s no right way to be plural. you exist, so do they, that’s okay.
I’m still kinda struggling as a host too. I’m only so far into discovering that we’re plural. it’s weird. a lot of the time I’m still scared of losing control of the body. but I also acknowledge them. I know that they’re there. I buy stuff for them to personalize being here for them so they can feel more comfortable and safe. I am trying my best, even with limited communication, even with a multitude of factors, it gets better.
