Man, ever since you pointed it out, its been dissapointing me more and more every time I'm reading a good spamtenna fic and then they have spam start the completely unironic "i'm the worst and i abandoned you, please take me back, i know i don't deserve it bc I'm a liar, criminal and a fraud" shtick of tearfully apologizing to tenna while not even bothering to AT LEAST address the fact that tenna also fucked up.
Spamtenna fic authors im begging you; stop making spamton apologize for committing the unforgivable crimes of [checks notes] ...being homeless, disabled, mentally ill, and trapped in a faustian bargain by some higher power that systematically stripped him of his body autonomy and agency!!! Like??? HUH??
I feel you. I haven't been looking for new fanfics/fanarts/animations for a while now because it really bothers me how OOC it is or don't point out the actual characters flaws they have. Everyone is free to write whatever they want, but it's not being enjoyable for me anymore, so I just leave and I'm not looking for it anymore for a while
Sometimes people unironically write something like "[Trash Heap] I'm sorry I had a panic attack and that you chose the phone over me, I'm so sorry I wasn't your first choice, sorry you didn't even show any care about how I was feeling. It's my fault that you were trying to manipulate me with a sweet talk. I'm sorry you didn't even give me a chance to explain myself and just assumed the worst of me. You're a such reliable narrator, you've never mistreated anyone, especially those you consider family, and none of your employees have any complaints about you. You're clearly the one who got hurt the most in the entire relationship, I know I was a bit sad and hurt and without any food and house for years, my body changed, it became a puppet and glitches, something so grotesque that you saw me as a pest and a threat to our little girl (Pipis), thinking that nobody cared about me for 10 years living in a garbage can, where everyone denies my existence... But you were the one more hurt in all this, the one who suffered the most, always with someone to be a shoulder to cry on, some drinks to get drunk and cry, ice cream and fast food still within its expiration date to drown your sorrows, and hot water to shower with. You're the one who got the worst of our relationship. I should have taught you how to use email. It doesn't matter if I was going to start teaching you everything I knew but I was stopped by someone who completely controls me and punished me severely because I tried to share my secret with you. It doesn't matter if I no longer have any agency or control over my life, that's no excuse. I'm sure if you knew how to use email, you could save Asgore and Toriel's marriage, cure Kris's depression, and solve the problem of the reindeer girl's disappearance. I am responsible for everything that went wrong in your life. It's my fault you push everyone away. Everything that happened to me is purely my fault too. There are never victims, and life is never unfair. It was my fault for trying to be vulnerable and trust someone and being betrayed."
This is basically Tenna's wet dream and would only fuel all of his flaws, thinking that he is really always the victim in every situation and has never done anything wrong.
Spamton apologizing for being a liar and a criminal to Tenna is pretty funny to me, because he is canonically also a liar and a criminal! ππ
When sometimes they don't even write Tenna apologizing for the least thing that was calling Spamton a thing, creature and rat. Much less apologize to Spamton for calling him a freak who ripped him off and how he wishes they never brought that laptop home, because yeah Spamton heard all of that.
Even funny fan art sometimes bothers me now because it's 80% of time always Spamton being the literally the punching bag or the punchline, almost never the other way around. I'm feeling a pattern and it's very unfair. As if Tenna hadn't also done several wrong things that Spamton also did, as if he isn't canonically also a comic relief and when he comically falls is willing to be humiliated because someone likes him.
And Spamton has canon flaws, he never warned Tenna about the prophecy when he had the chance! Why not talk about the canon flaws? I know he probably couldn't say much before because he tried and got punished, but I don't know, I still think he could have tried in chapter 3. Spamton Ralsei and Kris just stared at Tenna and knew he was going to die and nobody did anything lmao I love my worsties <3
Like I said before, I feel like lot of shippers love spamtenna, but they don't necessarily *like* Spamton. At least not enough to understand Spamton as a character and his motivations, to recognize that in many situations he was actually the victim and that he is a whole character with fears and flaws and a lot of trauma, with many explanations for him being the way he is.