Yes, hi. It has been awhile indeed. A few days to be exact. Itās already the second week of this online class thingy and I swear to God I havenāt been this exhausted in my entire life.
I donāt normally talk about this in public, especially in blogs, because I personally think that opinions on relationship is something I could just keep to myself(?) However, I guess somehow I feel like talking about this, especially now that we are in this pandemic period.Ā
LDR a.k.a Long Distance Relationship a.k.a worst thing ever to be in during this era of social distancing, and endless video calls as substitution to meeting in real life. Iām not only talking about those who are from different countries, but also those of different States and cities face the same thing as well. Though personally those who are of different countries are the ones facing the most challenges because they have to deal with time zones. You know how annoying time zones can be? Itās noon at where you are and they just woke up. Worse, youāre asleep when they just woke up.Ā
Of course, different people deals with this their own way. They try their hardest to be strong for the sake of the relationship, and their trust game is on another level. Weāre talking about being miles away from each other, and thats the only thing they could do. for now, hopefully!
Literally, they are one of the strongest people I know. So many times theyĀ encounter couples going out for a date, or probably just hanging out at their favourite date spot -- but they still try their best to think positively likeĀ āOne day. One day I will be like them.ā orĀ āJust a little bit more. I just have to be patient for a little bit more. Until this is all over, I will wait.ā
To be in a long distance relationship is to accept the unlimited challenges that one have to face. Communication is V I T A L. It doesnāt have to be a long paragraph everyday on how much you love your partner. It can also be a simple good morning text when you wake up, and a goodnight text before going to bed. When youāre not feeling alright, say it. Donāt say its fine when its not. Miss them? Say it. Want to see them? Ask them. If you keep assuming that they might eventually notice your hints, no. They might take it literally.Ā
That being said, LDR is not for everyone. If youāre a player, or have low level of patience, its better you just focus on yourself rather than wasting your time trying this out, and hurting both in the process.
Lol wow what a long post for tonight. I guess exhaustion does brings out vulnerability of a person.Ā
āTil then, take care, stay safe and God bless.