While this blog is, in part, a response to the transmascvoicesproject, more than that, it's a blog meant to catalogue and store stories of abuse and trauma inflicted by TME individuals, and highlight the power imbalance that looms over TMA individuals in instances of TME lead abuse and trauma. This pertains to ALL TME individuals, be that cis women, trans men, cis men, or otherwise.
An innumerable amount of abuse survivors have their abuse brought on by the hands of TME people, trans or otherwise, and a large number of them are TMA trans individuals often seeing the brunt of this violence and aggression of TMEs and are are silenced, ignored, or told they are being divisive, betraying feminism and perpetuating violence against TME abusers when attempts at speaking up are made. This is, end of the day one of many responses to aggression seen in the face of TMA individuals trying to bring to light the trauma of their community, however anyone with trauma caused by someone that is TME is welcome to share their story.
OP is always ready and willing to hear criticisms and suggestions for this blog, as I know that the subject pretense is sensitive.
Criteria
Perpetrator / Abuser must be TME (e.g., trans men, cis men, cis women, intersex TMEs, or otherwise non-TMA groups.).
Open to survivors of TME violence, with a focus on TMA individuals especially. TME individuals are welcome to submit their instances of abuse, especially trans TME people, but this blog has a primary focus for TMA individuals and their trauma.
Submissions involving Trans women, Trans femmes, or other TMA groups are invalid and will be ignored.
Names and details of how to find individuals in submissions will be blocked out and redacted for the sake of safety for the submitter and to keep this from being used as a target cache.
Answered stories will be tagged with #TMEviolence, other asks will be tagged with #answered asks
Please help spread this around so that the voices who have been victimized by TME violence can be uplifted while others take well earned breaks.
This project was inspired by @mousidy's project, and spurred by that resulting project that is currently being platformed with the clear intent of singling out and painting a target on the back of TMA individuals and further stoke transmisogyny.
#TMEviolence - Answered submissions and asks, and boosting of this project
#helpthedolls - Tag for go-fund-mes or similar such posts
#op talk - Musing and thoughts of the blog moderator
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This blog was inspired by certain goings on I have been witnessing on the sidelines, and felt the need to say or do something, so that something concluded to be this!
Please spread this around so that we can provide a space for victims of TME violence, thank you and have a beautiful day! 💝
Had a tme ask me why I can't be dude in a dress on a dating site instead of nb trans femme. Told her because that would be a lie and she got mad calling me weird and then blocked me.
I was raped by a trans man who got me really fucking high on an edible he lied about the dosage of. When I told our mutual queer friend group about it they basically accused me of being the rapist, because I was the one with the penis. He then went on to rape the only other trans woman in that group.
This blog was inspired by certain goings on I have been witnessing on the sidelines, and felt the need to say or do something, so that something concluded to be this!
Please spread this around so that we can provide a space for victims of TME violence, thank you and have a beautiful day! 💝
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hi, am tme so understand if you don't post but i've been searching for a place to get this all off my chest that isn't horrifically transmisogynistic...
i went to an ""all-girls"" school between 11-18, years before i knew i was trans, and the othering i suffered there has continued to follow me. i was bullied for not wearing makeup, for my clothes. i gave advice to a friend who was curious about masturbation when i was 13 and in response i was groped and treated like a pervert for years. i was groomed by my athletics coach from 14-16, who instilled in me that my only worth came from what i could offer with my body.
from that, i fell into a slew of relationships with cis men where i often allowed myself to be coerced into sex. it made me feel worthless but so did disappointing them.
it wasn't until i became good friends with a couple of trans women that i broke out of that cycle - they both helped me realise that i was trans and have been a source of constant comfort and support for me. i owe so much to them. it abhors me how tma people are scapegoated and rapejacketed when the tma people in my life have brought nothing but light and joy, while so many tme people have treated me so poorly.
I'm agender trans woman and when I started coming out & transitioning I was groped. Was a lesbian night at a chain gay bar & a cis gay dude started telling me I'd make a good boy in his bed. I'm at lesbian night, I'm not a gay guy. He just said my dick fixed all as he tried to force a kiss on me as he grabbed my ass. A butch thankfully saved me. His two cis het woman friends and the trans guy he was hanging with both said what's the big deal. Uh dude was being a perv harasser. 😢
every single one of my tma friends has been abused, raped, or otherwise hurt in some way by a tme, and it sickens me to my core to see other tmes claim it's not an issue.
i wish i could talk about it without identifying information. there's quite a bit to share.
the whole “I was born [thing], so I dont need to read [relevant political theory], I already know it” is a shitty argument for a lot of reasons, but mostly because being born [thing] was also true for most people who WRITE political theory and clearly they didn’t feel as though the people around them innately understood these systems or they wouldn’t have written what they did
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i spent years in a relationship with a cis girl who hated everything i did, saw all of my friends and hobbies as beneath her, who would yell abuse at me when i was depressed around her, and who shoved me back into the closet when i said i was trans (which everyone else had already figured out years earlier)
We don't know each other, and I appreciate what you're trying to do, but I worry that starting this blog to spite tmvp kind of looks like you're using victims instead of wanting to support them. I'm sure you genuinely want to help people, but I know that would prevent me from sharing my own experiences
Thank you, very much for this ask, as well as those that messaged me privately to address these concerns. It's deeply appreciated and urged me to take a step back and consider what I would actually want with this blog, and how to go about it.
I do think that i can have a blog that both proves the point I am wanting to make while also taking the very serious reality of abuse that a large majority of TME people get away with both toward other TME people that are more vunerable than the perpetrator, and especially the violence that is glossed over against TMA people on account of being the word of a TME against a TMA
Do you allow stories of tme on tme violence, or would that flood your inbox? 🥺
While this is definitely a funny haha jab, I do in fact take stories of TME-on-TME violence. I think it's a subject that is glossed over often by TME individuals to continue holding up the idea of being inherent victims, and have in fact witnessed first hand scapegoating and excusing of behavior of TMEs to avoid accountability for their actions.
Cis men get away with it all the time in several different ways, in the form of male privilege and patriarchal upholding, cis women will weaponize this supposed inherence to vulnerability and victimhood, and so will tme trans men and nonbinaries.
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While this blog is, in part, a response to the transmascvoicesproject, more than that, it's a blog meant to catalogue and store stories of abuse and trauma inflicted by TME individuals, and highlight the power imbalance that looms over TMA individuals in instances of TME lead abuse and trauma. This pertains to ALL TME individuals, be that cis women, trans men, cis men, or otherwise.
An innumerable amount of abuse survivors have their abuse brought on by the hands of TME people, trans or otherwise, and a large number of them are TMA trans individuals often seeing the brunt of this violence and aggression of TMEs and are are silenced, ignored, or told they are being divisive, betraying feminism and perpetuating violence against TME abusers when attempts at speaking up are made. This is, end of the day one of many responses to aggression seen in the face of TMA individuals trying to bring to light the trauma of their community, however anyone with trauma caused by someone that is TME is welcome to share their story.
OP is always ready and willing to hear criticisms and suggestions for this blog, as I know that the subject pretense is sensitive.
Criteria
Perpetrator / Abuser must be TME (e.g., trans men, cis men, cis women, intersex TMEs, or otherwise non-TMA groups.).
Open to survivors of TME violence, with a focus on TMA individuals especially. TME individuals are welcome to submit their instances of abuse, especially trans TME people, but this blog has a primary focus for TMA individuals and their trauma.
Submissions involving Trans women, Trans femmes, or other TMA groups are invalid and will be ignored.
Answered asks will be tagged with #TMEviolence
Please help spread this around so that the voices who have been victimized by TME violence can be uplifted while others take well earned breaks.
This project was inspired by @mousidy's project, and spurred by that resulting project that is currently being platformed with the clear intent of singling out and painting a target on the back of TMA individuals and further stoke transmisogyny.
#TMEviolence - Answered submissions and asks, and boosting of this project
#helpthedolls - Tag for go-fund-mes or similar such posts
#op talk - Musing and thoughts of the blog moderator
why transgender voices project / transmasc voices project should not be taken seriously
To anyone who supports transgendervoicesproject (formerly transmascvoicesproject), here she is, presented in her own words...
She talks over, ignores, mocks, or doesn't believe survivors who disclose abuse if they are also criticizing her
When hoveringwatcher criticized the blog's aims and disclosed her own experience, transgendervoicesproject screencapped her comment and posted it as if it was a submission. When hoveringwatcher commented on that post calling her out, transgendervoicesproject never responded.
Here she is mocking and refusing to engage with a rape survivor because the submitter was criticizing her. Update (7/26): and here she is doing the same thing on the same post when mousidy criticized her.
Here she is arguing with and diminishing another survivor. On the same post she misunderstood the submitter's situation and when she got called out for it, she claimed the submitter "literally rewrote [his] own story in real time."
Here she is condescending and arguing with a survivor after the survivor explained that places like transmascvoicesproject are why they struggle to come forward with their story.
She has continuously stolen other people's disclosures off of reddit. Links here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, and here. In many of these threads the OPs specifically mention not wanting to cause harm to the transfem community as a reason they struggled to disclose the abuse. By taking these disclosures and putting them on her blog, transgendervoicesproject is going against the explicit wishes of the survivors she claims to care about. In this thread multiple replies outright state they would never want their abuse used to further an agenda.
An anon saying they are the OP of one of those threads messaged her about it. She claimed the anon was lying just to "shut down a space for survivors." Previously she had said that "survivors deserve to be heard, believed, and protected." Seemingly that's only true when its beneficial to her.
In the comments of that anonymous ask, several people ask directly and indirectly if she got consent to post any of these reddit disclosures. She did not reply to any of them.
Her actions make it clear that she only cares about survivors when it is beneficial to her and her blog. If you criticize her, you are a rape apologist at best, and an abuser at worst. Here she is saying that everyone she has placed on her blocklist is just that. And then here she is denying she ever implied that.
She has no regard for transfems
Despite the blog's name implying that it would be a space to discuss instances of sexual assault targeted toward either transmascs or trans people in general, up until very recently she only allowed submissions where the perpetrator is TMA and the submitter is TME. Currently she does allow submissions from people who are also TMA, but again only if the person who abused them is also TMA. Her blog exists purely to catalogue rape by transfems.
Here she is agreeing with an anon saying that some trans women transition to escape rape allegations. And here she is platforming and agreeing with something that is somehow even more obviously TERF shit.
She has called five different trans women "rapey" or outright rapists. Here she is calling mousidy "insanely rapey" for saying trans women are coerced into topping. And here she is doubling down when she got called out for it. Update (7/26): here she is tripling down and further misinterpreting mousidy's post.
After storyweavingspider criticized transmascvoicesproject for calling mousidy "insanely rapey," transmascvoicesproject reblogged doxxed information about storyweavingspider. She has gone on to call storyweavingspider an abuser.
Here she is calling doyoulovethewayzeylily a "modern, digital-age charles manson" for DMing her and warning her about potential pushback from her blog. In the same post she accuses it of being a gaslighter and an abuser.
Update (7/26): Here she is misinterpreting yay-bunnies-world so she can imply yay-bunnies-world is a rape apologist.
Update (7/26): Here she is implying this trans woman is a rapist because she's critical of the blog.
Update (7/26): Here she is platforming a book created by two well known terfs. Feel free to read the book here and judge for yourself if you don't believe me.
She steals from and obsesses over mousidy to a suspicious degree
The first post on her blog is from July 13, 2026, roughly six hours after Mousidy announced she would be taking a break from Transfem Voices Project.
Her original mission statement was copy and pasted from mousidy's TVP mission statement. She denied this fact, saying she was only "mirroring a format." Here are the two posts side by side by the way. She then denied it again and again.
Following mousidy's post explaining the personal significance of the pink glitter heart emoji used in TVP, transmascvoicesproject changed her icon to a custom made blue version of that emoji.
She lifted the naming convention of her blog from mousidy's Transfem Voices Project. Mousidy stated that she is uncomfortable with people creating projects clearly stylized off of hers, and when transmascvoicesproject decided to rebrand, she continued to use mousidy's formatting and theming.
Following the name change, she started using TVP as her own acronym despite mousidy very explicitly stating that TVP is the acronym for her project. And then here she is arguing semantics and misinterpreting the criticism of her stealing the acronym TVP.
She has routinely accused mousidy of using Transfem Voices Project as a way to "farm donations" and as a way to "prophit" off of survivors. She also claimed that mousidy was using her "targeted harassment campaign" to get more donations.
Oh, and here's a silly one, she has on multiple occasions suggested that this very parody blog is run by mousidy: in this post, this post, and in the tags of this post.
She is now asking her followers to mass report mousidy, falsely claiming she "has repeatedly directed her followers to harass and mass-report me." The timing of which is extra suspicious given that the rebrand seems to exist to co-opt the TVP acronym and mousidy had just announced she was taking another break.
A few interesting oddities
In this post she says she's "old" and that she remembers when the terms transmasc and trasfem were invented, meaning she was around in the 80s to 90s. But then in a recent post she revealed she is 21.
Despite not knowing how to navigate an image board and also not realizing mousidy's comment contained a link, and also not being able to figure out what "HAL-ing" meant, she claims to have enough technological know-how to operate and maintain this pc setup.
She has a fear of being doxxed, but willingly posts her age, and then casually drops that she's related to David Lynch. She's either lying about being related to him so she could one up her criticizer, or she really isn't that worried about being doxxed.
Update (7/26): Here she is agreeing with an anon stating that the people criticizing her "never posit what the right way [to operate the blog] should be." On the day before that ask, here are three instances of people suggesting how to do the project "the right way."
In summary:
I no longer believe transmascvoicesproject was created out of any genuine desire besides to hurt transfems and to target mousidy. Her behavior and her posting being as consistently contradictory and inflammatory as they are, her weird obsession with stealing from mousidy while refusing to acknowledge her rushed copy and paste jobs, and the way she parrots terf talking points while claiming not to be a terf is incredibly suspicious. Even if you disagree with this assessment, it is undeniable that her actions stand in opposition to her stated goal of providing a safe space for survivors. She refuses to listen to criticism, she denies things that are easily fact checked, and she will outright call survivors liars if she can't twist their disclosures into serving her own agenda. Whether she's a troll/terf is irrelevant because the damage she is causing is real no matter what her intentions may be.
I will continue to add on and update this as more things come out. If she truly does care about accountability, then she shouldn't have an issue with someone simply cataloguing her posts. She will almost certainly continue to play the optics card, saying that the transfems (who are probably rapists) are criticizing her for simply "providing a space for survivors." Don't fall for it. She is being criticized for lying, for harassment, and for all her weird transmisogynistic behavior.
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