Venus☆Valentine

Moon in 8th House

Mars in Aries(1st house):

extremely independent and sharp! Had a natural charm about themselves not necessarily in a Casanova way but in a more muddy school boy with a smile of gold type of feeling. Dresses with a sense of the casual but can have a way of looking very earthy on-top of this . Harsh colors like crimson and yellows look amazing on them. Their gaze is often haunting and can leave you feeling undressed. Actually pretty shy about romance and really sweet(like genuinely sweet). Hates authority in any context lol. Extremely good at reading into body signals and even better at sending them out.

Features: hair is often in abundance from what I’ve seen or they have a noticeable trait about their skull/head in general such as a scar or in some cases a different type of curl pattern/growth pattern in the hair itself. Despite rulership by mars they don’t really talk about their groins or how “big” they are as usually they could care less since for them it’s about the sensation and the connection. despite contrary belief they go for any type of girl and actually have a love for women with a more natural and clumsy look about them! Aggressive looking sexual organs with plenty of veins! Aries mars men tend to be modestly sized down their and the women often have beautiful sexual organs both have a natural look to them as if they were met to be nude.

Mars in Taurus(2nd house):

BLUNT. Hates to beat around the bush and prefers you either speak your mind or get out the way. Infatuated with the surroundings! Beautiful things be it men/women/food/clothing they love to comment on it, experience it and live in it for as long as they can until they find the next aroma to romanticize. Very tender at heart and always and I mean always tries to do what’s best for everyone no matter what. Slow to anger—but once you get them going they’ll be at your neck for at least 5 days. Patience is their virtue and let me tell you when they want something? Not even hades himself could stop them. Romance is always thought of in a long term format even if they don’t like to admit it. And love and romance is taken very seriously.

Features: they often have beautiful necks! Some men I’ve noticed have thick ones. The women usually have a soft delicate nature about their throat and voice. Both men and women here have very clear-relaxed tones to their voice. Tend to be slow burn types. Thick and beautiful sexual members for both sexes

Mars in Gemini(3rd house):

they are very dubious, from the jump they have already sized you up before you’ve even opened your mouth. They move quick in every aspect of life and can just as easily juggle the storm without braking a sweat. They are calculated but in a different way from mars in Virgo! They tend to have this dual in and out persona thing where one day or one moment even they’re one person and the next they’re an entirely different entity. The other parts of them come out sporadically and via different moments. One side can be flirting with you whilst the other is holding a conversation with you about bread simultaneously without any correlation. They tend to have very bold voices and don’t bite their tongues! The aqua and Gemini decan tend to stutter a bit when they get excited whilst the libra decan is more passive aggressive than the rest.

Features: the arms for men tend to be very big and well defined!(my venus venus in Gemini LOVES THIS) the eyes have a spark to them and always seem like they’re not really there with you in the current moment. Tend to speak with their hands and are extremely animated. They use their words to express anger and can be very ruthless if they’ve found a weakness. Kind of oblivious to the emotions of others but they don’t mean to be they just don’t always really understand where people are coming from. Skinny sexual organs for both sexes

Mars in cancer(4th house):

warm natured for sure. A very cool and at times somber personality! You can never really read them and even if you think you’ve got it figured out they end up not even really feeling that way. Tend to move in a zig zag line rather than directly at something! Can be hard to open up especially the first two decans and usually has a trouble with expressing anger and or negative emotions in a healthy way. Prone to gossip rather than say it out loud and can have volcanic anger once reached. Men here tend to act “hard” when in the Pluto decan. Women tend to act detached when in third decan and both men and women isolate themselves with the first decan. Comfort is so important to them so if they stay with someone it’s likely this is what would be a requirement for sexual intimacy.

Features: round bellies! And or abs! It’s really strange but they either fluctuate between these periodically through out their lives or they just have one or the other. Extremely intuitive! So when they say something “Listen” the hands are normally soft and child like! And lastly the breast area for men and women tend to be a huge sensitive area! Including the nipples. They also have very unique laughs like the crazy kind aha and the really quiet and adorable kind. The sexual organs or often fat/plump due to the moons influence! Men can be very girthy

Mars in Leo(5th house) :

for starters they’re magnetic! Hate em or love em they have of way of catching your eye at least once. They have a beautiful confidence about them no matter how soft spoken or standoffish they may seem—they just have this immeasurable self reliance about them. The eyes can be very beast like in nature and seem rather curious like a cat. They tend to strut but also pounce when they find something that catches their eye. They are romantics by nature so they are very happy when they have someone to “love” they tend to be hornier when they are with someone than when they’re not. They can manipulate situations so they are the focal point. Sharing can be hard for them when it comes to something they really love!

Features: they have like amazing backs! Very structured.Something about their hair also is rather poofy and glossy! Skin can be rather vibrant and olive in complexion/a orange look to it no matter the color of their skin! They just seem to glow. The smiles can wipe you out man they have BRILLIANT smiles like you wouldn’t believe. For men I’d say the genitalia is either very hairy and raw looking or very hairless and bare looking! Both men and women here have lovely sexual organs that are very plump in nature.

Mars in Virgo(6th house) :

on the more calm and collected side of things! Very good planners with a tendency to occasionally brake out of their routine and do something random from time to time. ALWAYS clean even if they don’t present the OCD archetype many people attribute to Virgo. Men and women here tend to masterbait but more so because they need to relax and blow off steam. They love to help out and you’ll usually catch them doing something sweet at some point because it’s just in their nature to be considerate of others. They don’t really stay mad for long and more so just get “agitated” by incompetence/plans not going the way they should’ve/or you acting like what they do is “forgettable” and or not appreciating their efforts. They are also super picky so I wouldn’t say they like one night stands unless you make one hell of a good impression.

Features: THEY HAVE CUTE TUMMIES OH MY GOD SO SOFT AND ROUND. I’ve noticed men to have a plushy belly and sort of a gut too while women have the cute little belly either way for both i think it’s so sooooo cute. They like having them rubbed too btw! Aha well some. They tend to move in a start and stop/cat and mouse nature when they like someone and aren’t the type to directly make a move! They lure you in and let you chase them and go from there. Men here also have very nice arms. They have a high stamina sexually especially the Taurus and cap decan and tend to really commit to one person sexually and none else! And also seek to please their partner at all cost so will often be gentle and make sure they’re going off of what gets the most moans. Sexual organs for men are petite sized! Normally a nice size and earthy in how it looks! I would say a mixture of thick and lean looking. While women I would say tend to either have thicker to petite looking sexual organs here.

Mars in libra(7th house):

they invented the word passive basically. They either hide discontent or they show it outwardly. Emotions run like the wind! They either don’t know if they care about the issue or if it’s merely just something they feel like they “should” care about. They like to keep a low profile and unlike the sun or even venus for that matter they could care less about the public and actually prefer to be more out of sight. People usually love them too pieces! They have a confused look about them like they don’t know what’s going on or why they’re there. They are huge Day dreamers and love anything that’s artistic and allowing you to express yourself and they’re always talented in it. They tend to have walls up like way up-until they feel more ready to come out of the hole but it takes awhile.

Features: really nice bums! They can have a curvy shape and nice hips. Both men and women! I’ve noticed the aqua decan to have a more cold and dismissive energy about them but they tend to be the ones who are more into photography! Along with the Gemini decan! The libra/libra decan tends to be the most private. They all don’t really talk much about sex unless it’s brought up! Like Taurus mars Genitalia for men can be thick and same for women! Their is a beauty/softness to them.

Mars in Scorpio(8th house):

welp I sound like a broken record but men here are typically pretty intense, they have this risqué factor about them that feels like you shouldn’t deal with them but something about them makes you drawn to the idea. They are pretty sexy and naturally so. A bit on the darker side of things when it comes to life since they seem to be interested in more taboo/night time parts of life. Men and women here are different though! Men think and talk/express their sexual nature A LOT. While women attract it/project it and at times embody it. The cancer decan tend to be the most innocent and warm whilst the other two decans can feel a bit intense at first. They have piercing eyes and seem to move rhythmically to their surroundings like snakes. They tend to scope out people and environments.

Features: this is the 8th signs so as you imagine their genitals tend to the focal point here. Men tend to have aggressive looking members while women can have rather naturalistic and even “Mother Earth” looking sexual organs. Men talk about their crotch like a great deal aha especially when they’re romancing someone they like! Women tend to be uncomfortable with talking about sex out in the open unless they feel the situation if “safe” men and women here can be veiny along the arms and body in general. Size wise? I’d say Scorpio mars have normal sized sexual organs nothing to crazy! Just veiny.

Mars in Sagittarius(9th house):

super bubbly! They lean more towards being optimistic and seeing the the good where most see flames. They have an easy time pulling themselves together more than most and almost never let the world bring them down. They love a good adventure and hate HATE HATTTEEE people who are complaining. They love meeting free spirits and tend to be heavily off put by those who are more interested in keeping things bland so to speak. The energy levels are usually high and most women I’ve met including my aunt with this placement have got to be doing something with themselves be it walking outside/working two jobs/cooking anything that keeps them up and vibrant. Men here are a bit more on the lazy and charismatic side aha they love a good time but a good time can be Chinese and season 4 of the office.

Features: thighs THIGHS THIGHSSS. They can be pretty thic and also have very strong legs. Women tend to avoid commitment unless they feel like they absolutely are sure they can grow with the person in question. Men hold of on it mainly because they are afraid of losing their freedom for the wrong person. When they commit it’s for life and they also have a moderate-high libido depending on their moods. Both men and women here can have sexual organs that are larger than life or small as Jupiter either expands or thickens.

Mars in Capricorn(10th house):

intimidating. They can have an intense energy about them and can feel like someone you have to be on your best behavior around. They don’t really have a hard time staying focused and can easily cut out people when work comes around. Romance and everything else comes second to their goals and aspirations and I mean no harm by saying this but mars in caps tend to be very very very dedicated to the work of their choosing. They have a very secure energy to them but also can make you feel trapped at the same time if you’re not very acquainted with Saturn in your own chart. They have an extremely sensual vibe about them and are extremely attractive in a old wine kind of way. They keep things discreet but also are turned on by the idea of the open public knowing their dirty laundry. Men here can be slightly self destructive as a coping mechanism for the stressors of life! While women can be extremely independently minded to the point of occasionally wording off any potential love interest.

Features: skin tends to be pale and on the more luminescent side. Their is an old vintage look to men and women here! A touch of the windswept noir. The knees are often very neatly structured often looking soft and perfectly etched. The bone structure is often super defined and honestly for some it gives them a very unique look. A sort of domination theme sexually and they can be very aggressive and intense despite their more aloof demeanor so be ready for that. Men can have smaller members than usually due to saturns influence but often they are the most skilled and talented with their members. Women often have petite/reserved looking genitalia.

Mars in Aquarius(11th house):

uninterested types! They seem like they are just passing by. It can be hard to grasp their energies and even when they’re speaking to you it can seem like they’re speaking right past you. The aqua decan tends to be the coldest of them all on a action level while the libra decan is the most emotionally expressed. They can be really disconnected from their actions and sometimes do them completely unrelated from what they’re thinking. They love anything that challenges their mind and can be so sweet when it comes to interacting with others but they do struggle with the intimacy aspect of it. They can be acting out two personalities at once without realizing and often struggle with differing between these two sides of themselves. Very comforting to be around but also a bit confusing to be around.

Features: the calves are often very plump and noticeable. The eyes can seem like there looking for something just out of reach. I’ve noticed sexually that they disconnect and can at times separate the emotional and physical aspects of sex with ease which causes them relationship issues from time to time especially with the men. The women can at times enjoy the sex but may have a hard time truly letting anyone in. Both sexes spend a lot of time integrating mind and heart. Often unique looking sexual organs with a curve to them for men and women as well.

Mars in Pisces(12th house):

sweethearts! But slightly blurry. They can seem hard to see in a way as if you never know what the purpose of their actions are. They go back on their words quite a bit-mainly to please others. They have very mysterious energy to them and can easily draw you in like a mouse to a mouse trap. Their eyes always have this sad and defeated look to them as if the world is on their shoulders and you just want to hug them. The men and women here don’t ever make eye contact unless they absolutely have too and can get stressed by group/crowded situations fast. They can have misplaced anger that comes out at random times but usually from what I’ve noticed it can be anger that was held in for decades even from past lives. They can have some of the most complex drives out of anyone I’ve ever seen. They are so strong like emotionally they can take on things no one else can but because of that they also can have some of the most overwhelming energies out of all the mars signs.

Features: their feet are usually very noticeable and from what I’ve seen they have very tender feet! Often very pretty to look at even for the guys aha. Sexually they are a literally fish out of the water and usually lean towards submissive roles where the partner can guide the direction of the inter course! Much like Virgo mars they aim to please and will ask you “what you want” often. The sexual organs are often translucent! Men can have average to long genitalia here.

•as a side note keep in mind factors such as the 8th house ruler and aspects to it and the house it falls in will giver further information on the genitalia as mars is just a basic overview and keep in mind aspects to mars and the houses involved can also further modify the above mentioned traits!

The short answer is INTJs. Not only are they more introverted than INFJs, but they’re also considered to be the most introverted type in general. But first, I have to explain why Ni-doms are so sensitive.

This phenomenon comes down to the way their cognitive functions work. INxJs are constantly picking up objective information from the environment with their five senses (Se) and then perceiving patterns through that wellspring of information, which they add to their web of similar conclusions (Ni). This is the reason why INxJs are so incredibly sensitive and can become over-stimulated so easily - Ni operates purely beneath the threshold of one’s conscious; it cannot simply be shut off, ignored, or left unused like some other functions can be. And because dominant Ni is constantly interpreting information gathered by inferior Se, it can become overwhelmed very quickly. This is the reason why INxJs are so introverted: because Ni requires complete silence and solitude in order to function properly, to mull over the external information they’ve gathered until patterns can be gleaned from it. If there is anything in its environment that can serve as a distraction to the INxJ, then Se will continue gathering information, Ni will continue trying to interpret the relevance of that information, and the INTJ or INFJ will quickly become frazzled and overwhelmed, and end up completely shutting down both physically and emotionally. (As an INTJ, this has happened to me before several times - and when I am in this state of total emotional or sensory overload, I could not even answer you if you asked me a question as simple as “How are you feeling right now?” or “What country do you live in?”).

Now, to finally answer your question: the reason why INTJs are more introverted than INFJs are.

If you compare the cognitive stack of an INTJ to that of an INFJ, they are as follows:

INTJ: Ni Te Fi Se

INFJ: Ni Fe Ti Se

An INTJ’s second function, Te (extroverted thinking), is a judging function that is primarily concerned with understand and organizing the external world using pragmatic decisions that are based on logic, fact, and efficiency. Strong Te users have a desire to control their environment, and may feel set adrift when they lose the ability to shape the world into their own external reality (as per dominant Ni’s vision for a grander design). Te does not actually require human interaction in order to do this - it is focused on action, not on people.

INFJs, on the other hand, possess an auxiliary function called Fe (extroverted feeling). Fe is a people-oriented function that is primarily concerned with maintaining balance and harmony in the people they are surrounded by - and many strong Fe users, especially xNFJs, have a desire to use their insights and compassion to support and encourage people, and to affect change on a global scale. It is very attentive to the moods, motives, body language, cultural standards, and needs of others. Strong Fe users also tend to have a deep-seeded need to be liked by groups.

SUBMITTED by Steve

Simply put, healthy function use = healthy type. But many of us struggle with our tertiary and inferior function, especially under stress, which can pave the way for behaviors that other people hate or that we even hate ourselves for it. That’s normal, granted you try to self-improve.

An unhealthy type however has this distinction of using their dominant and/or auxiliary function in a counter-productive manner. Since these functions take precedence in our psyche, that means you’re stuck with an individual who’s often naturally unbearable most of the time, not just when things go wrong. 

With this in mind…

An unhealthy Si user is that person who never changes their mind about anything, who always shoots down any kind of alternatives and proposals and will make it their pleasure to criticize anything that they’ve never even tried. Some will go as far as seeing progress as an enemy. It seems like it’ll take a bulldozer to move them away from their comfort zone. Just try not to punch them in the face when they call you all excited about a new discovery that you spent 5 years telling them about. 

An unhealthy Se user is that person who always seems to be in trouble. Financial, legal, professional, you name it. Seems like being around them means cleaning up one mess after another. You’ll scratch your head as to how they say they need to borrow money for the rent and the next week they buy themselves neat new designer clothes or something along those lines. They’re fun for a night out on the town, but otherwise, you probably avoid them like the plague. 

An unhealthy Ni user is that person who always think they understand stuff better than you and that their word is gospel. They effortlessly exude arrogance and somewhat of a superiority complex without even realizing it. Despite their depth of thought, you would still never trade places with them as they never seem to have had one minute of fun during their lifetime and their only ounce of contentment is when you tell them they were right about something.

An unhealthy Ne user is that person who will have 2 hours discussions with you, that are usually more monologues and yet they never seem to make a point. They get excited about everything and anything, only to never offer you follow-ups. They’ll not only contradict themselves in a span of a few days, but sometimes within the same statement. They’ll often think of themselves as knowledgeable on just about every issue, only to realize they merely scratched said issue on the surface based on something they heard about it on the fly. 

An unhealthy Fi user is that person who just says and does whatever they want without with total disregard as to whether it’s appropriate or not. They are masters at twisting around and justifying everything they say and do. And if all else fails, play the victim, because they’re convinced no one understands them. Their lives are often a mess on an organizational level and please don’t offer them sound and logical advice because that might actually anger them even more. They’ll gladly self-destruct even more if it means telling you to piss off. 

An unhealthy Fe user is that person who knows what everyone is up to, but also criticizes what everyone is doing as if they wrote book on acceptable social norms and behaviors. They have an uncanny ability to think they know what’s best for everyone. You’ll often find them raising themselves up by knocking other people down, often in the form of gossip. And yet for all of this, they never seem to realize that they can’t take care of themselves without any kind of assistance from others which is actually the first issue they should address before meddling in other people’s business. 

An unhealthy Ti user is that person who thinks they’ve got it all figured out, yet the results show something quite different. They are often cynical and smartasses but not in a fun way as they’ll shun and criticize everything that makes us human like feelings, unity, spirituality etc. We’re all just monkeys destined to be worm food, you know. Ti can also be aggressively manipulative and disregard people’s feelings when it goes into “as long as I get when I want” mode. 

I love all the submissions we receive, but sometimes we have to turn down or delete posts with wrong information in them and/or show that the typist doesn’t really understand a function yet. =)

Examples of this can be Ni-dom sections that start off with “So and so is extremely driven and wants power, they are totally focused on their goals.” First, power can be associated with many functions, but why they want it and how they go about it is related to the judging functional axis (TeFi and FeTi); second, any type can have goals, and third, Ni is not a judging function; it’s a perceiving function.

Since functions can be extremely complicated, and hard to remember, I’ve created a print out sheet for when I take notes on a character, both so I can be more specific / concrete in pointing out cognition in the future and to ensure I’m not interpreting the characters’ motives / thought process wrong.

If you click to the full size, you can save each image file (there are two), put it on two pages, and print it out with room below the lower functions to list examples as you watch or read something. (I plan to print out one copy and use post it notes; less ink.)

Have an awesome weekend and fun typing!

ESTJ: Paula Cole - Where Have All The Cowboys Gone?

ISTJ: Edwin McCain - I’ll Be

ESTP: Chumbawamba - Tubthumping

ISTP: Eminem - Sing for the Moment 

ESFJ: Aqua - Barbie Girl 

ISFJ: Joan Osborne - One of Us 

ESFP: Pink - Get the Party Started 

ISFP: Goo Goo Dolls - Iris 

ENTJ: Mark Morrison - Return of the Mack

INTJ: Soundgarden - Black Hole Sun 

ENTP: System of a Down - Chop Suey!

INTP: Bush - Machinehead 

ENFJ: Tal Bachman - She’s So High 

INFJ: Jewel - You Were Meant For Me 

ENFP: Wish You Were Here - Incubus