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hi guys
hi everyone. my name is Kay. i wanted to make this blog as a safe space for everyone. this blog is a space for anyone and everyone to vent about their circumstances.

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are you doing ok?
hey, thanks for asking, i really appreciate it :)
overall, i'm doing alright. i got confirmation from the person who sent that particular ask that theyre doing alright now, though turns out i know them irl.
i'm going through some stuff at the moment, thinking of changing schools and a bit worried how it might impact my current friendships.
i haven't had much time to answer any asks in my inbox and i am so so sorry for delaying those.
but yeah, thanks for asking. thanks for checking in on me. i really appreciate it :)
ADVICE FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT HAVING A GOOD DAY:
wait until it gets dark and make tea or coffee or hot chocolate, or if it’s too hot outside make yourself a healthy smoothie with your favorite things in it at any point during the day
put on your favorite underwear, it helps, trust me, it’s an old family secret (i’m not kidding)
if you have a pet, play the “how many things can i stick on you until you move or get mad” game (bonus points if they fall asleep, extra bonus points if a family member sees you and tells you to quit it, extra double ultra points if they join in)
rip a peice of paper into as many little pieces as you can
go to animeseason.com and click “random anime” until you see one that looks completely ridiculous (or actually good) and watch the first episode. repeat if it sucked or if you get bored halfway through
spend at least an hour making a music playlist for how you feel right now and save it for now or when you feel a bad mood rise again
curl up in bed and cover yourself with blankets and pillows and put in music and just lay there for a while (sleeping is also good)
eat everything
drink lots of water
it’s okay bad moods don’t last forever!!!!!! i promise!!! you will be yourself soon and there are people who love you very much, don’t be afraid to reach out to them
you are lovely
eat lots of bananas
here are some more friends
i bet there is still a box of crayons in your house somewhere (if not you can get them cheap during back-to-school sales); find them and use them (maybe while watching ridiculous anime)
sunshine if you can manage it or just a sun lamp trust me it matters more than you think especially in winter
hugs even if they are stuffed animals or your pet or your pillow whatever is on hand
if you’ve got a favorite lotion/soap/thing that is scented use it liberally
cry if you need, if it doesn’t start by itself or if you don’t want to attract attention put on a sad movie so you have an excuse
write this down to pull out on future bad days:
it is okay to have a day where you don’t get things done
it is okay not to have a reason for feeling bad
taking care of yourself is a worthwhile use of time
if you still don’t feel better it is not your fault (and it is okay to ask for help)
@daysleftofsecondterm
And may I say, before the crowd of “self care isn’t always fun” crowd rolls in… not with that attitude it’s not.
hello i realize it probably is incredible rough to have a relentlessly sad ask box so no need to answer this but:
i have a girlfriend and i love them a lot
the mars rover sang happy birthday
penguins propose by giving each other silly little rocks that are pretty
sea otters hold hands when they sleep
red squirrels adopt baby red squirrels
one of my close friends just joined tumblr and he’s having a lot of fun
my brothers favourite anime (jjk) has a trans girl and that’s his favourite character
at least a few people found their lost pets today
elio mei (an alt pop artist i really like) recently changed their name on spotify to his preferred name
i found blackout poetry in a tea tin in the forrest yesterday which means someone made it and left it there just for me
daisies are real flowers and people have been making crowns out of them for thousands of years
ao3 <3
and more if you ever want it!! i will also send you cute animal photos randomly because sad inbox sounds like no fun
anyway, i hope you’ve had a nice break (i know it’s not over yet but almost) and consider this my welcome back gift (no pressure to answer, you can just keep it if you want) <3
thank you so much for the little reminders, it quite genuinely made me smile :)
i really appreciate what you're doing for me and i'm extremely thankful for it, so yeah, thank you :)
hii, it's anon that was being cyberstalked about half a month ago. i took a break from posting for a while because they kept trying to message me, telling me to quit posting. part of me feels like i gave in, but the other part of me knows that it had to have helped somewhat, as i've finally had a couple of weeks where they haven't tried talking to me. at least not where i can see.
i'm still terribly scared that they'll find another way to contact me, or try and 'cancel' me. i know they can't do that but.. it's still a fear of mine. i've been trying to collect as much evidence of what they've done as i can, as well as journal about it too. i've recently found out a lot about what had happened. veils over situations being lifted and i can see the harm they've caused. it's still tough moving on because of how attached i was and how long it had been, but their true colors have shown.
i wish i had someone offline i could tell about it, but im not in that kind of space right now. i do have maybe two online friends i can tell though. well. i know one is my friend. recently ive been finding it difficult to know my relationships with people. i suppose that's the reason i really came here today.
im so scared of being too much for people. i don't wanna be that person who's just venting all the time, cuz im not! i have a personality and interests and i interact with other people's interests a lot too. because of my past relationship though, i kinda never got to talk about my own feelings, and now having a ton MORE feelings.. its so tough to not overwhelm people.
recently i made a personal vent account, kinda like an online diary. it's not entirely private, but it isn't tagged, i have limited discoverability. it's a way for me to be disconnected enough that people don't know who i am if they ever saw me, but also it's public enough for me to wanna keep myself in check. sometimes i guess the pressure of having a possible audience is a good thing?
but there's so much to that blog that i feel i cant show to my incredibly small circle. and i've been finding it so so hard to make new friends. im almost out of highschool, people already have their circles both irl and online. i feel excluded from a lot, even if people don't mean to. i feel so needy, finally wanting attention for myself instead of trying to be a people pleaser. it felt easier that way but i know it's wrong and i was letting myself be walked all over
sorry this is all over the place. but you're a good person and you gave good advice last time. i trust you with this too.
thank you for sharing this, i really appreciate it :)
it sounds like the last few weeks have been really heavy, and it makes sense that you’d still feel uneasy even after things have gone quiet. when someone invades your space like that, your brain stays on alert for a while. that fear of them coming back or trying something new is a normal reaction to what you went through, not a sign that you’re weak or overreacting. taking a break from posting wasn’t “giving in.” it was you protecting your peace. sometimes the healthiest response to someone who wants attention or control is to remove the thing they’re targeting. the fact that things have been quieter since then suggests it probably did help, even if it didn’t feel empowering at the time. collecting evidence and journaling are both very solid moves. evidence gives you protection if you ever need to report them, and journaling helps you process the emotions instead of letting them build up. both are practical, steady steps forward. about feeling like “too much” for people: most healthy friendships have space for both fun and difficult conversations. you don’t have to be either the constant entertainer or the constant venter. you can be both, in balance. a good rule is to check in with the other person, like asking “hey, is it okay if i talk about something heavy for a bit?” that shows respect for their energy and usually makes people feel more comfortable supporting you. it also makes sense that you’re still learning how to talk about your feelings after a relationship where you couldn’t. that takes time. it’s like using a muscle that hasn’t been used much before. it might feel awkward or intense at first, but it gets easier and more natural with practice. the vent account idea isn’t inherently bad. it gives you an outlet, some distance from your main identity, and a sense of structure. just make sure it stays safe: no personal details, no identifying photos, and keep your privacy settings tight. treat it like a controlled space rather than a place to pour everything out without boundaries. feeling left out socially, especially near the end of school, is very common. friend groups can look very “closed” from the outside, but that doesn’t mean there’s no space for new connections. sometimes it’s less about finding a whole group and more about building one or two solid individual friendships. those tend to last longer anyway. you’re not needy for wanting attention, care, or space to talk about your feelings. that’s part of being human. the difference now is that you’re trying to advocate for yourself instead of shrinking to make others comfortable. that’s actually a sign of growth, even if it feels uncomfortable.
again, thank you for sharing this with my, i really appreciate it and feel free to talk to me again if you ever need advice or just want to chat again (also sorry for the very long paragraph but i hope it helped) :)

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Hi
I'm 90% sure I'm the anon who wrote the 3 weeks clean ask (like, yes it was me but also I was kind of out of it, I think?). I'm very happy to be able to tell you that in 2 days I will be 1 full month clean! That's the longest I've been clean, ever. I've also been getting the urge to relapse less and gotten better at managing it. I don't know if this will last forever, but I'm happy for the first time in a while and I wanted to send you something happy for you to find in your inbox <3
Also, I'm not sure if you allow anon tags but if you'd let me I'd like to use music notes. I think it would be pretty great to be able to look back on my journey later 🎶 It's perfectly fine if you don't, I would understand due to the nature of your blog :)
congratulations on your milestone, you should be extremely proud!!
i'm so glad to hear you've come so far and i'm so so proud of you! also, the music notes signature is completely fine, it would be nice to be able to identify some of my anons :)
again, congratulations and i'm so proud of you!!!
Hey, i know your being supportive to people and that is absolutely amazing, ur an amazing person, but just make sure ur ok :)
(Also i saw a few of your posts you really do help people good job :) )
thank you so much, i really appreciate it! :)
don't worry, i make sure to take care of myself and take breaks when i need to, as i have done recently and thank you again for your kind words, i really do appreciate it.
i think now is also a good time to make my return announcement, so here it is. i'm back everyone! i hope you're all doing well and that you all made sure to take of yourselves while i was on break :)
@lightsabersandbluecookies @minute-maid-offical @sw0ape4ter @karasubooks @crescentmoonsandroses @lovely-little-lethe @someone-official @the-random-ovibovini
I just wanna do what I want. Too many voices of reason, which is fortunate because they stop me from doing stupid things but now I can’t do anything at all. I’m a teenager (below 16) so I feel like since I’m not fully developed any big decision I make is going to be a stupid one and any small decision I make doesn’t matter and only causes me stress that I’m not equipped to deal with.
thank you for sharing this with me, i really appreciate it :)
i get what you mean, being a teenager can feel extremely frustrating (coming from someone who is also still a teenager). when voices of reason or adults tell us to do things, they're giving us advice in order to better us from making mistakes that they might've made. it's advice and it doesn't mean that the decisions we make don't matter. though we're not fully developed yet, we each have a sense of reason and the decisions we make are validated by our own set of beliefs. the small decisions may seem insignificant but they build up to a collective reasoning system that we can then use to make other, larger decisions, so no, they do matter. even if you do something stupid, you shouldn't regret it. mistakes are what help us to learn and grow.
thank you again for sharing this with me and i hope this managed to help you, even just a bit :)
star anon again again I realize the butter ask does not fit this blog at all really so feel free to ignore that one
don't worry, there's nothing that doesn't fit this blog :) my asks don't necessarily have to be vents, that's a suggestion and an offer to those who do need to vent :)
Star anon here again, I would just like to say I am eating butter right now straight from the butter knife. Didn’t think about it and didn’t question it. “I want a snack” and suddenly I am nibbling on straight butter. I’m not even hungry. This is why normies don’t talk to me. I’ve never used that word unironically wtf
thank you for sharing this with me, i really appreciate it :)
eating butter is completely alright, as long as it's a small amount or as long as its served with another item of food. as for the "normies", don't worry about them. there are better people to surround yourself with rather than those that would judge you and that's what you should want for yourself.
again, thanks for sharing this with me and feel free to talk to me again :)

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⚠️TW: themes of SH and self-destructive behavior⚠️
for the past few days I have been thinking about whatever comes to mind- my mental health especially.
I keep wanting to do minor self-destructive things? Not necessarily just cutting, but things like avoiding sleep and food.
Possibly attention-seeking behavior, in fact it probably is considering I’m sending this ask right now :/
anyways a few minutes ago I grabbed a sharp knife and carved two stars into my skin. I’m bleeding a bit, though not too much since I didnt cut too deep.
I don’t think I really did it much for self-harming purposes? Moreso just because I wanted stars :)
I dunno why I did that? Or why I feel like I want to get worse. Odd. I’m not really sure of any of this, as far as I know I don’t have any issues?
thank you for sharing this with me, i really appreciate it :)
first off, i need to say that i can't support you in this behaviour, even if it wasn't with self-harming intention. the next time you feel the want to have stars or something on your skin, please just draw it with a pen or a marker. additionally, even if you want to engage in these minor self-destructive behaviours, such as not eating or sleeping, i want you to try push against it and make yourself eat regularly and sleep regularly rather than avoid them.
if you want attention, that completely ok but i advise you to please seek for such attention in a manner that doesn't harm yourself, such as give compliments to others as the general reaction to that is to generally give a compliment back.
if you ever feel the need to, you can always talk to me again and thank you again for sharing this with me :)
there's been this weird noise in my ear for the past... i don't even know how long, but i started really noticing it lately and it's annoying. it's like how electricity sounds, except i don't know if it's an actual noise or just in my head. i'm kinda worried i'm getting tinnitus or something but idk and i don't know how to tell anyone or what to do about it or if it's even important so i've just been kinda ignoring it.
thank you for sharing this with me, i really appreciate it :)
so sorry for the late response, and i can understand how annoying that would be. my advice is to reduce your exposure to loud noises, make sure to stay hydrated and try to level your stress by taking breaks and doing activities you enjoy.
again, thank you for sharing this with me and i hope this helped or that the ringing has stopped by now :)
Hey, I just want to check in on you after that… certain ask. Are you doing okay, Kay?
thanks for checking in on me, i really appreciate it :)
after that ask, i haven't since received a response from the anon. i'm assuming that this means that they have now passed to a better place. i am currently taking some time off in order to process this and allow myself to come to terms with what has happened.
don't worry, i'm not in a bad place, i just feel it right that i allow myself to take a break after that ask.
i hope you all understand and thank you so much for your continuing support. i will return next wednesday :)
@lightsabersandbluecookies @minute-maid-offical @sw0ape4ter @karasubooks @someone-official @the-random-ovibovini @lovely-little-lethe
I'm three weeks clean today and I'm doing so so well and I'm so proud but what that means is scrolling tumblr for hours to distract myself which is not good for my mental health either ):
thank you for sharing this with me, i appreciate the trust that you've placed in me by telling me this :)
first, congratulations! three weeks clean (more like 4 weeks now due to my break) is a massive achievement that you should be exponentially proud of! congratulations again, and i'm so proud of you!
scrolling through tumblr, while, yes, it provides a distraction, i agree, is not necessarily good for your mental health. i suggest that rather than continue this pattern, which could possibly cause another spiral downwards, find a hobby that you enjoy, like drawing or reading or painting or writing.
again, congratulations on your milestone and if you ever need to, i'm always here for you to talk to :)
kay sorry if you're seeing this when you get back
feel free to not answer i'm so sorry i'm sending thisin im proving the anons right but i have to tell someone
im going to kms
im so fucking hateful to everything
i am such as bad fucking friend to the like 2 i have
i secretely am so jealous of them and hate them
god the colors of my soul are fucking red and black
sorry for getting poetic
who knows i might not do it, im just spewing shit
hi there, anon, thank you for sharing this with me, i'm glad you felt comfortable enough to do so :)
i don't know if you took part on what you said and i don't know if you're still here to see this but if you are i want to say a couple things.
being jealous is a normal part of life. we envy those around us. we want to be more like them. that's just human nature. if you aren't comfortable with these friends, if you don't like them as friends, that's ok. you don't have to like everyone, let alone anyone. that's your choice and no one gets to decide whether that's ok or not. i'm so sorry that you have to go through this, with what seems like, being alone. you don't deserve to feel this way. no one does. you didn't do anything wrong. the colours of your soul don't define the ways it can change. it doesn't define the vast shades that paint it. there are so many dimensions to a soul, including yours. you are not a bad person. you don't deserve to feel like this. you're allowed to be mad or jealous or sad or whatever you're feeling. but that doesn't mean that you're deserving of a death. you are worth so much more than that. you have so much potential and so much that you can accomplish and so many people in your life that you've either met or will meet you will move the world for you if it means you get to be happy. you deserve happiness and i'm sorry that you don't feel as if you've found it yet. but that keyword, yet, that's what i want you to remember. yet. you will find it. you are not limited to what the present tells you you are limited to.
if you see this, i want you to know that i am so proud of you for having had the courage to tell me about this. i really, really appreciate the amount of trust you put in me.
if you don't see this, i'm sorry i couldn't be there for you earlier. you deserve so much better.
i hope that if you saw this, it helped at least a bit and that you feel confident enough to keep going. if you feel the need or if you even just feel lonely, i'm always here for you to talk to :)

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hi guys :)
hi everyone, i'm back :)
i hope that while i was away, you all made sure to take care of yourselves, eat some proper food, drink some water and rest :)
@lightsabersandbluecookies @minute-maid-offical @karasubooks @sw0ape4ter @the-random-ovibovini @lovely-little-lethe @satan-offical @laciffo-natas @someone-official @no-one-offical
hi everyone :)
hi guys, just a notice that i will be taking the next couple days off for personal reasons (studying and just taking a break), so i won't be active much.
feel free to continue sending asks, i'll answer them when i come back and i wish you all very well in my absence. please make sure to drink water, eat food, take care of yourselves and give yourself a break when you need it :)
-Kay