mal : aus

“I’m homesick for a place that no longer exists”

I don’t know if you ever did love me; all I do know is that it doesn’t matter anymore.

Because seeing you with somebody else hurts more than you could ever imagine..

just trying to be okay with the fact that you are happy without me.

Be a better you, for you.

Some names will always taste bitter.

Women find themselves more attracted to someone with the ability to make them laugh. Laughter strengthens relationships.

Let it go. Whatever it is that you should’ve let go long ago. Let it go. The freedom that comes next is something wild and true.

You don’t know anyone at the party, so you don’t want to go. You don’t like cottage cheese, so you haven’t eaten it in years. This is your choice, of course, but don’t kid yourself: it’s also the flinch. Your personality is not set in stone. You may think a morning coffee is the most enjoyable thing in the world, but it’s really just a habit. Thirty days without it, and you would be fine. You think you have a soul mate, but in fact you could have had any number of spouses. You would have evolved differently, but been just as happy. You can change what you want about yourself at any time. You see yourself as someone who can’t write or play an instrument, who gives in to temptation or makes bad decisions, but that’s really not you. It’s not ingrained. It’s not your personality. Your personality is something else, something deeper than just preferences, and these details on the surface, you can change anytime you like. If it is useful to do so, you must abandon your identity and start again. Sometimes, it’s the only way.

No relationship is ever a waste of your time. If it didn’t bring you what you want, it taught you what you didn’t want.

Whatever makes my soul feel good in 2016, that’s what I’m chasing.

So, do it. Decide. Is this the life you want to live? Is this the person you want to love? Is this the best you can be? Can you be stronger? Kinder? More compassionate? Decide. Breathe in. Breathe out and decide.