Any publicity on the matter is not good publicity. Some went through men bullying players because of the publicity of the period tracker and being called a gooner game on the same level of a porn game. There were even people stealing pics of MCs and making fun of them, calling the players lonely ugly women. We do not need the gamer guy crowds speaking for us because it often invites hate and mockery from people that do not fully understand what is happening.
I was WAITING for this ask. Thank you for sending this.
I hear where you’re coming from, and I’m not dismissing the reality of what happened. The misogyny in the broader gaming sphere is a massive issue, and dealing with trolls who reduce players to "lonely ugly women" while hypocritically calling it a "gooner game" is entirely unfair and disgusting, yes.
But you are conflating the social comfort of our fandom space with the actual mechanics of corporate leverage.
If we want Papergames/Infold to take the our complaints seriously, the outrage cannot stay contained inside our own echo chamber. When a controversy is strictly localized to the existing player base, gaming companies routinely sweep it under the rug. They view it as standard fandom infighting, run the numbers, and decide they can simply wait it out until the core audience gets distracted by the next banner.
To force a developer’s hand, you have to threaten their broader market reputation. That requires massive numbers, and it requires the algorithm pushing the controversy outside of our designated containment zone.
No one is asking Mujin, or the broader "gamer guy" demographic, to be our designated spokespeople. They don't need to understand the nuances of lads and they certainly don't need to respect us, for their coverage to be tactically useful. This is about utilizing a megaphone. A figure with a large reach making a video turns a niche community complaint into a loud, highly visible PR liability and forces the issue onto the radar of people who monitor the company's public standing.
Yes, external visibility invites these people. The people mocking the game and its players are the same individuals who despise women occupying any space in the gaming industry.
But they will hate us ANYWAY, it doesn't have anything to do with lads as a game, it's something you have to accept you will live with for your entire life as a woman. If we let the fear of their mockery dictate how we protest, we are effectively doing the developers' PR work for them. Shielding the game's issues from outside eyes to protect ourselves from greasy men just gives the company a free pass to ignore legitimate consumer grievances.
We are fighting for a specific resolution. That requires maximum noise. It absolutely does not matter if the person holding the microphone is controversial or if their audience is abrasive. What matters is the pressure that sheer volume creates on the bottom line. So yes, any publicity is good publicity, regardless of the behavior from the red pilled neckbeards. We have to STAND THE FUCK UP.