carte blanche

i want to see more ACCURATE representation of people who suffer of borderline personality disorder. i’m tired of seeing us portrayed as psycho bitches who either want to ruin someone’s life or do crazy shit for attention. we’re human?? we have a heart and we have feelings??? we’re not villains???? we’re just regular people who feel too much and yes we can be too much at times but we’re literally doing the best we can?????? 

no one wants to hear it but love is earned after the initial infatuation. commitment is something u both mutually agree to and then from there it’s work. it’s not work like it’s a chore it’s jus work like it takes effort. to get good at these things takes practice. it takes practice to learn to communicate better and it takes practice to learn to love each other in the ways u need to be loved.