🖤🖤🖤

*** Warning: Only try this with the sugardaddies you actually like and feel some attachment too. And definitely trust ***

Please heed the warning or you will crash and burn if you attempt the following.

PREPARE YOUR MEETING PLACE: If you’re regularly meeting at a hotel room, get daddy to get you a prepaid card so that you can go ahead and rent the room ahead of your visit. This will save him the trouble of doing it and allow you a chance to control your interaction. A lot of escorts do this for that very same reason: control.  For him, the businessman or exec who’s dealing with all kinds of shit this takes some pressure off him. What you have to understand about a successful man is that he’s always under pressure. He’s getting beat to shit daily from work, life, and home and he’s probably middle-aged meaning half of daddy’s life is already gone. Daunting. You need to be the calming voice in his life. When he gets there, of course be in your best lingerie, smelling good, etc, with the sheets pulled back on the bed. Or, answer the door naked, in a pair of red bottoms, etc. Or, ask to keep one of his ties for a souvenir on a previous date and when your next visit at the room arrived, have it on and nothing else.

If you host your visits at your residence, then ask daddy what kind of snack he likes. Fruit? Have some strawberries or grapes waiting for him when he comes over. He likes wine, etc.,? Have a glass poured. You can enjoy glass too. Its ok. If you have a problem drinking with daddy, refer to my warning above. :)

RELAX HIM: Give daddy a massage. Not an hour, just 10 minutes to break him down. This is a good time to ask for shit. If he has dry skin, bring some oil in your purse. First rub his back, making sure you’re getting in between those shoulder blades, etc. Skip the legs, lower torso etc. Unnecessary. He’s tense from meetings and conference calls all day. Turn him over and rub him briefly on his chest before you work your way down to his love zone. Rub his dick and don’t forget the boys. When he’s nice hard, start fellatio (if you do fellatio).  If he doesn’t want a massage or doesn’t have time that’s cool. You need to put it out there anyway. 

Time taken: 7 - 10 minutes

LAY YOUR HEAD ON HIS CHEST: After sex, cuddle up next to him and lay your head on his chest. If he has little or no hair this will be easy. If he’s a hairy bastard you might find another place to lay your head but the goal is to cuddle him. Use the hair to your advantage and play with it as you lie there. Twist it in your fingers or some shit. Make him feel like he just pleased you in every way possible. He probably didn’t, but it’s all about the fantasy. This is easy to do if you like him. Refer to my warning above! Say something meaningful like, “That was good daddy.”  If you have psychological hang-ups about calling him daddy then say “That was good baby..”  or “Mmmm I needed that.” All too often chicks are just lying there side by side with him in her own world. You can remain in your own world just do it cuddling him. This is also a good habit to have when you get married. :) 

Time taken: Not applicable

CLEAN HIM UP: Grab a warm damp warm towel, and remove the condom. Wipe up his penis and go put the condom in the toilet. If no condom was used, you can still clean him up if his penis is about stick to his leg. If  he’s caught off your guard, or ask what you’re doing, tell him “I’m just taking care of you daddy…” I got this one from several Escorts I’ve seen over the years. Trust me. You want some brownie points? Try it a few times. You can even be cute about it and say, “Gosh, you had a lot in there.” Or my FAVORITE “….I see you’ve been saving up for me. You had a lot!” The latter is perfect for you babies seeing daddy once a week. When you’re done cleaning him up, lay back on him. This is also another good time to ask for shit. 

Time taken: 30 - 45 seconds

TASTE IT: Now I might lose a few of you here but it’s my duty to put it out there anyway.  While you cleaning him up, put a forefinger in your mouth and say, “Mmm you taste good.” He might pass the hell out. If you’re good at this he won’t know you don’t actually have some cum on your finger. Hopefully, some of you catch what I mean on the latter. :) Or, if you swallow anyway then nothing is wrong with a little protein on your finger and tasting it.

Time taken:  2 seconds

PUT HIS SHIRT ON: If you’re going to be in the hotel room awhile, try this one out. This will kill him. If he wears good smelling cologne capitalize on it. With the shirt on, pull the collar up to your nose and say, “Mmm I love your smell daddy…” You won’t be lying if he wears good cologne. Chances are you already noticed his cologne but you were too much of a bitch to say you smell good. This is the sexiest shit EVER though. Nothing cuter than your 110, 120, 150 lbs ass in his big ass shirt. One of my previous sugarbabies used to do this. Drove me crazy.

Oh and congratulations!!!! Now he’s going to be thinking about you the rest of the day. You’ve inadvertently left your perfume on his shirt. Now he’s gonna be smelling your pretty little ass the rest of the day. Just don’t leave any lipstick!

Take a selfie with the shirt on. Send it to him days later in between your visits.

Time taken: 10 seconds to put on his shirt. Time elapsed before he wants to take it back off and fuck again: 60 seconds. Likelihood of you getting that Celine purse: High.

HELP HIM GET DRESSED: This one is especially important for the busy executive, businessman or man that works in a professional setting and he’s on his lunch break, or on his way home to his vanilla life. No, don’t help him pull his trousers up. But you can help with the belt as you kiss him on the chest. I’m saying as he buttons his shirt, go help him. Help him button the ones on his sleeves as well. And most important help put his tie back on and straighten it and his collar afterwards. Then finish it with a kiss. If you don’t get a chance to do all that, then collect his shoes and socks and bring them to him. Don’t’ try and put those on - that’s just corny. You’ll love his reaction I promise.

Time taken: 30 – 45 seconds

CUDDLE HIM: Recently, I learned something about myself. I read somewhere that one of the reasons why I cheat is because I as a man want to be cuddled and held. I thought this was bullshit but it’s quite true.  I know this is contrary to all the SD advice you’ve been getting but take it from a long standing member of the sugar community its true. I’ll explain this one better by giving a real life example. Now when I would first come over, Nebraska and I would sit on her bed and talk and she’d find some way to wrap her legs around and hug me like I was her long lost boyfriend. I was going through some things and it felt good for somebody in this world to seemingly take an interest in my plight. Then, she’d just sit there and stare at me like I was a big piece of steak. Staring at my mouth. When I’d talk too long she’d start taking off my clothes. While she was getting me undressed, she was always say one of these 3 things:  “ I know you didn’t’ come here to do all that talking…” or “You just gonna talk?” or my favorite “Or we gonna fuck or not daddy?” One day, after sex I was sitting on the bed and she climbed on the bed, sat down behind me so that I was in between her legs. As I was talking so she kissed me gingerly on my back and also laid her head on my back as we talked.  This shit made me feel like a king. When Nebraska and I ended our arrangement she said, “Well I was actually genuinely interested in you…” This is why I mentioned only try these techniques when you have some type of genuine attraction to daddy. Its easier to do and you won’t be faking which will speak volumes.

Time taken: none. You were going to be doing all this talking anyway, just on one side of the bed or side by side as you sat on the bed. The difference here is you’re cuddling him while you do it.  

Now, I’m about to drop half of you right here.

LET HIM CUM TWICE: You’re laying there in his arms, listening to his bullshit. Reach down and play with his love while he’s talking. After a moment ask, “You got another round in you daddy?” Regardless of his answer, go down and start blowing him again. It should be cleaned if you followed my advice earlier – clean him up. Anyway, if he said no, he’ll appreciate your dedication and let you try and revive him before he stops you. If he says yes, then its self explanatory.  Relax though. Your middle-aged daddy most likely won’t have a second round in him anyway. This METHOD is extremely effective with the sugarbabies that only see their daddy once a week.  But, for other arrangements its works quite well too.  

A lot of chicks are jumping up, cleaning up and rushing out the door, saying how you have so much to do today. Nothing kills a relationship like feeling like you’re being used (even though you actually are!). But remember, you want him around awhile. This is definitely a powerful tool to make that happen. Sends a clear signal that you’re all about pleasing him. (I hope the latter doesn’t get me in trouble). Trust me. An extra several minutes is cheap time to spend if you knew you’d be getting another 4 - 6 months out of daddy.

Time taken: 5 – 7 minutes

FINISHING TOUCHES: Put the finishing touches on it. When you’ve helped him finish getting dressed, and you know he’s on his way back to work or back to business, when he heads out the door say something encouraging like, “Go get’em baby.“ Or if he told you about some crap going on at work, take the opp to regurgitate it. “Fuck Bob. He’s an asshole. You should have got the promotion.” blah blah. You get the point. The latter can be applied even as you both do a last kiss before you head out the door. Again, it’s all about the finishing touches.

Time taken: 2 seconds

I know some of you are saying, “I ain’t doing all that shit.” But remember you are selling a fantasy. You’re giving the most precious part of your body away. Only to have your average sugardaddy relationship end in 2 to 3 months? All because he’s had his fill of your kitty. I assure you incorporating these techniques into your visits with daddy will go a long way and add months onto your relationship. This will help keep him coming back for more and more. Another way to put it, why not hook daddy for several months or even a few years and milk him dry (no pun intended) with just a few extra things?

I put the time on the end of these sections to show how long these little techniques actually take. Like I always say just a little extra goes a LONG way. These simple yet EXTREMELY effective techniques WILL prolong your sugar relationship. So why not incorporate them into your experience? I GUARANTEE daddy will respond to this stuff. I know because I’ve had it all done to me before and it blew me away then and it blows me away now as I type!

Damn I’m horny now. And my visit with sugarbaby isn’t for a few days.

hello, my sweet babies!! here’s a post that hopefully will turn into a flourishing thread because it needs to be addressed! for any of my minors out there, BE MINDFUL that by law you aren’t supposed to consume alcohol under the age of 21 (but who’s stopping you amiright?!)…let alone lift it (even better lol)!! regardless, take all of this info with a grain of salt and stay safe, lovely’s!!

🍷Knowing your advatanges/disadvantages:🍷

It’s no secret that alcohol is constantly being watched by LP. Even in “low security” stores that appear to have little/no surveillance, there is usually at least one camera ALWAYS pointing toward the booze because they expect you to steal it. So, you should first really look at yourself and check for any of the following:

❌RED FLAGS (Disadvantages):

- being under 21 yrs (duh)

- LOOKING like your under 21 yrs… ^these first 2 disadvantages are HUGE and should not be looked over. pls be careful

- Having a bad habit of leaving/returning constantly to the same area very quickly

- Having a large, black bag OR BACKPACK (don’t fkin do this bro your ass will get watched like a hawk)

- Picking up too many other things

- Being Sus before even getting to the booze isle

- Being a suspect from previous lifting trips (if you’ve been hella sussed before and you think they’ll remember your face, bag, liscense plate, or if they took and hung a picture of you in the back blah blah blah)

If any of the above might be of concern to you, try your best to change these red flag or avoid lifting alcohol all together. better safe than sorry, ESPECIALLY MINORS.

✔️That being said, here are some POINTERS (Advantages):

- Appearing older or having a more professional physique (look mature, but not overly standoutish)

- WALKING WITH PURPOSE. if you walk shy and timid, they will watch you more closely oml

- Get in the habit: Check prices, Read Labels, Dont act skiddish, Seem like a shopper

- Very experienced with: walking and concealing, lighting concealing, recognizing VERY GOOD blind spots

🍷Knowing your booze🍷

This might seem redundant, but it’s actually very important: different kinds of alcohol will be much harder to lift compared to others. For example, the next time you visit your local grocery store or whatever, take a look at the placement of not only the cameras, but also the alcohol!!! Wines and Wine Coolers tend to be or appear to be less directly watched (eg. they’re on the end of the isle, on a display that’s not being seen by the camera from one side, or on a display in a main isle that’s not near a camera). Here are some things I’ve picked up:

***GENERALLY**** Less Surveillance On:

- WINE (mf NUT)

- Wine Coolers

- Boxed Wine

- Cheaper beers

- Alcohol “accessories” (Marg mix, mixers, ect)

***HIGH SURVEILLANCE***** (i have not even tried these)

- Hard Liquor

- Expensive Wines/Beer Cases

- Champaign

- Rums (sigh)

My general rules of thumb when determining MY PERSONAL OPINION of what’s high or lower surveillance:

- is it available at a common grocery store?? WINE: duh, therefore it’s less “rare” and in my experience, less watched HARD LIQUOR: no, sadly; therefore, it’s a high budget item sold at special stores almost exclusively and will be highly surveiled

- how many are available? Again, wine is legit everywhere

- in less surveilled stores, is this item directly monitored by a camera?? In A FEW** of my local grocery stores AND gas stations, wine has been out of the way of cameras and sometimes even the liquor isle all together

** DO NOT visit one store and assume that because a certain drink is directly surveilled or not, it’s like that everywhere; scope out many locations (grocery stores, gas stations, convenience stores, ect) and try to figure out some rules specifically for you and your local boozey drinks!!

🍷BEFORE🍷

Before you go over to that isle for the LOVE OF ALL THATS GOOD AND HOLY, identify ALL cameras, ALL SAs or customers that may be near the area, ALL blind spots, ect. this part is crucial, babies

🍷CONCEALING🍷

After considering all of the above and really taking your time with it, it’s time to get to work!! Like we’ve said a million times, booze is hard to lift but it’s possible. You may have to tweak some of your own concealing techniques because of alcohols difficulty to get away with. Here are a few of my personal favorite ways to conceal:

- Grab a bottle very discretely. While walking away from the camera, slowly and carefully move your arms in from of your body and quickly put the bottle in your purse without large movements. The camera will more than likely just see you walking away harmlessly with your bottle!! Be sure to walk to an area without a camera so it won’t see your empty hands after immediately leaving the isle.

- Scope out some bottles and look very interested in reading and pricing. With your body facing away from the camera and your purse by your side, either pop one bottle in very smoothly with one hand while “digging for a bottle at the back of the shelf”; OR grab a few in your basket and conceal one while walking away

- IF YOU LOOK OLDER, grab a few in your basket and shop around, them pop some in your bag in isles with no cameras (if you are/ look young, they will wonder why you have that much alcohol in the first place)

- If the bottles are on a display table, walk past the table with your back to the camera and grab one VERY DISCRETELY while walking if you’re sure that no customers are coming toward you. Conceal in from of your body to block from camera (personal fave)

- You can plop them in a reusable grocery bag too… i prefer that over a purse sometimes

In Conclusion: Be fast, Be smooth, Be Discrete, BE CONFIDENT

🍷TIPS🍷

Alright guys, things to from this post and my personal tips and tricks:

- smaller (NOT MA & PA STORES) grocery stores, gas stations, and convenience stores in your area are safer bets. Wáłmârt, târgêt, çvś, Ect. will be harder to lift from because of their technology and $$. they can afford more LP and more surveillance in alcohol so I honestly wouldn’t mess with them at all (although my local CVš is easy for me because of its setup). Stick with more run down and smaller stores, but pls don’t take from personal businesses guys!

- Hard liquor is going to be hard regardless. Liquor stores are nuts yo

- BEST TIP: go to a grocery store WITHOUT TOWERS. Yes, they exist. That’s another reason I love smaller chain grocery stores. That way you don’t have to stress about tags or stickers… one less thing to worry about! **BE AWARE some places may have hidden towers, but smaller chain grocery stores and gas stations probably don’t js. That’s why we scope places out multiple times before we lift! just use your noggin, think about it a store could really afford hidden towers, cams, ect… be smart!

- GLASS MAKES HELLA LOUD SOUNDS. Either only take one glass bottle or be sure to bring a shirt or so

thing to wrap/separate the bottles so they don’t clink (id do this in the bathroom tbh)

- DO. NOT. DROP. THE BOTTLE.

- DO. NOT. DROP. YOUR BAG.

- Don’t so this frequently please!! be safe y’all

- Minors: being caught with alcohol is another offense on its own. Especially in your car. Please, do not have alcohol or anything like that in your car because you will get fucked up if police find it. Try to get it off your person as fast as you can when you get home!!

- OVERCONSUMING ALCOHOL IS DANGEROUS TO THE BODY & CAN INFERFER WITH SOME MEDICATIONS & DONT DRINK N DRIVE & DONT DRINK IF YOUR PREGNARANT ECT (i had to put the warning)

🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷

This is not for everyone, but for those who are interested/ capable… I hope this helps!! Remember, alcohol is high theft and will be watched, but we’re smart!! leave more tips & comments below!!

brain: i have 5 of this exact shade of eyeshadow already

crow brain: steal the pretty shiny

—

brain: i have at least 30 sweaters i never wear and have to keep in a trash bag under my bed

when someone walks past you as you’re about to conceal

Here, guys. Let’s temporarily extinguish the controversy. Whether you’re anti-Selma or pro black bag, whether you stuff that magnet in your bra or up your ass, we can all bond over the fact that NONE of us are stupid enough to go lifting with this bag. There ya go. We’re all super smart!

-cute bikinis

-tinted sunglasses

-soft beach towel (my current one is super scratchy🙄)

-white pleated skirt

-pink water bottle

-big tote

-white birks

-tye dye kits

-silky robes

-big floppy hat

-loose flowy camisoles

-adorable matching pj sets

-light wash ripped jeans

-cute summer themed ballerina socks

-vs pink spring break undies (bitch they are cute as FUCK)

-gladiator sandals

-more flowy shorts!!!

-nice beach cover ups

- bug repellant

- bandaids

- Nail polish

- Hand cream

- blister patches

- hair bows

- dainty necklaces

- room decor

- snacks

- gum

- lip balm

- Strapless bras

•flowy AF dresses.

•a good overall sunscreen! Reapply yalllll

•SPF chapstick lol

•bright pink high end lipsticks!

•exfoliating scrubs and razors (if you choose to use them)

•finger nail decal stickers

•disposable cameras (to develop the pics it usually costs about $20, but you can always take the pics and wait to develop them until you have some money!)

•tasty drinks and fruit.

•silky sleep shorts