have u tried mdma/ what's your experience w drugs and do u have any advice? i saw your ig story
I was not partaking last weekend, mostly because I have a broken foot and didn't want to end up in a situation where I had to be medievaced from upstate New York back to the city (a surefire way to ruin a wedding). I do think there's something incredibly chic about having MDMA lychee martini gummies on the half shell at your wedding, though. For some reason I've always found the idea of putting drugs in food to be very indulgent and opulent.
I feel like I've been doing this long enough and I'm old enough now to say that my experience with drugs is that I've done most of them at one point or another because I'm always interested in what different ways of interacting with the world feel like, but I actually don't do them that frequently. I find it to be a very vulnerable experience and I just don't love that feeling.
In terms of advice, first things first, I want to make it clear that Iâm not advocating doing drugs. But I also understand that people are curious about them and Iâd rather you have the information necessary to make better choices if you do decide to try them. Â So many drug-related deaths are the result of misinformation, and I think itâs important to change that as much as possible.Â
So a few harm reduction type things you should keep in mind when doing any drugs:
There are some situations where you should avoid drugs entirely. If youâre interested in trying drugs as a way to escape a problem in your life (including, but not limited to, anxiety and depression), youâre at a much higher risk for addiction than if youâre doing drugs recreationally at a party. If you find yourself engaging in perfectionistic, compulsive, or addictive behavior when it comes to other things (school/work, video games, food, caffeine), youâre at a higher risk for addiction. If you have family members who struggle with addiction, youâre at a higher risk for addiction. If you have any type of heart of vascular condition, cocaine, MDMA, and amphetamines are ones to skip, since they increase heart rate and blood pressure. If you have family members who experience mental health issues, especially schizophrenia or psychosis, you may also be at a higher risk of developing those conditions, and it's a good idea to avoid risky substances.
Know how recreational drugs interact with anything else you take. For example, taking MDMA while you're on an antidepressant (especially an MAOI, but also an SSRI) can increase the likelihood that you'll develop Serotonin Syndrome, and taking cocaine while on an antidepressant can increase the risk of high blood pressure or a brain bleed. Combining two substances that are depressants (such as vicodin and xanax, oxycontin and ambien, valium and alcohol, etc.) can make it more likely that you'll go into respiratory depression and stop breathing. ADHD medications combined with a depressant alcohol or opiates can dull the effects of the depressant, increasing the risk of overconsumption or overdose. All this is just to illustrate that if you take a prescription medication, you want to make sure you know how any recreational drugs will interact with it before you take them. This also includes any supplements you might be taking (such as HTP-5 or St John's Wort).
-Â Know what youâre getting. Â Some drugs look like one thing but turn out to be another or turn out to be laced with something else. Â You can get testing kits online that can help you figure out if the drug you were sold is what you think it is or not.
- Have a sober companion. Having someone around whoâs in a sober state can help to prevent anything really bad from happening.
- Donât mix. As with mixing prescription and recreational drus, combining recreational drugs can increase risk to your system, and so can mixing drugs with alcohol.  In this case, âcombiningâ is taking any drug/medication/alcohol up to 24 hours before another drug.
- Go slow and know your dose. Make sure to research the correct dosing for any drug you might be thinking about taking, and then take less of it than is recommended.  You can always take more if youâre not feeling an effect, but you canât take less.  Also make sure that youâre taking the right dose for you.  Body weight, height, and gender can impact how drugs are metabolized in our systems, and so what works for your friend may be too much for you (although some drugs, like hallucinogens, are not bodyweight dependent).  Donât try to compete with other people to see who can do the most.  Along with that, itâs important to know how long the drug takes to âhitâ.  Sometimes people fall into the trap of waiting a few minutes, deciding the dose they took isnât going to do anything, and then take more, which results in them having too much of the drug in their system.  Again, itâs important to go slow.  Take more time than you think you might need before taking another dose.
- Write everything youâve taken down and never lie to paramedics. In the event that things do go south, you want to be able to tell the paramedics everything youâve taken, in what doses, and how long ago so that they can treat you.  Paramedics will not report you to the authorities for taking illegal drugs; they just want to treat you.  If youâre ever in a situation where someone is having a bad reaction to a drug or overdosing, call the paramedics. You wonât get in trouble and you can save a life. Â
-Â Do it somewhere safe, and give yourself time. Preferably in a house, without a ton of dangerous items around, where you are unlikely to encounter the police or other people who may cause a problem. Â Whether or not you agree with it, in most countries doing drugs is illegal, and you donât want a court case on your hands. Â Drug addiction ruins lives, but so does being arrested for drug possession (in the US, at least), and being arrested happens more frequently. Â You also want this environment to be one in which you feel relaxed and where nothing disturbing or scary is likely to happen. Â You also want to make sure that there are no time pressures on you for more than the duration of the drug- clear at least your entire day just in case.
-Â Know the signs of overdose. These include blue or extremely pale face, difficulty breathing, vomiting, foaming at the mouth, seizures, cold and clammy skin, dizziness and confusion, extreme drowsiness, choking, gurgling or snoring sounds, and chest pain.
Other than that, how to reduce harm will depend on the drug.
- For drugs that are snorted, take care of your nose. Dilute it with water before snorting and rinse your nose with water after, insert the straw deeper into your nasal passage so that the powder doesnât get stuck in your nose hairs, alternate nostrils, and make sure that the drug is chopped into a fine powder. Use a straw instead of a dollar bill, and donât share it with others. With too much usage, cocaine can create damage to your nasal tissue, so you want to be careful.Â
For amphetamines, MDMA, cocaine, and other stimulants:Â Â Make sure that youâre drinking plenty of water or a sports drink, and that youâre regularly going to the bathroom, since stimulants can stop you from urinating. Itâs a good idea to avoid anything that might make you more dehydrated, like alcohol. Â A guideline is to drink up to 1 cup per hour (250 ml) of electrolyte containing fluids, or up to 2 cups (500 ml) if you are dancing or in a hot environment. Popsicles are also excellent for this, since theyâre mostly water but also help the oral fixation some people get when theyâre on a stimulant.
If you have any other questions or questions about particular drugs, I'm happy to answer. In general, if you're interested in trying psychoactive substances, hallucinogenic mushrooms will be your safest bet, followed by LSD and MDMA: