Uber coolness

What I really loved from Lemonade were the quotes and scenes before the song Daddy Lessons which emphasizes how a person can be a great father, but a horrible husband. What Beyonce remembers from her childhood are different memories that Tina Knowles holds, which she dealt with behind close doors so her children could have a loving home but her father was a cheater also. Lemonade greatly shows how deeply we’re influenced and are shaped by bad family cycles growing up. For example, a lot of women grow up just wanting to be with anyone because they came from a family of all the women in their family being single or seeing everyone around them in failed marriages so they gain a sense that they have to accept whatever in a relationship so they changed themselves to break the cycle. All of these experiences shape and create a tone when we’re in relationships. Similar to Beyonce, her father was a cheater so when Jay cheated, the memories and the cheating redirected her to a fear which is why at the beginning she thought it was a ‘horrible curse’. But at the end, Beyonce shows that to reform a broken relationship you have to find the things holding on to and making a reformation to find freedom. You don’t stay because that person has money or because of things they bought for you;you stay because there is love still there and you have more room to grow with that person but never think that cheating again will make that person stay, which is why in her song Freedom she said “a winner doesn’t quit on themselves” (somewhat a metaphor of her life, career, and marriage).