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I feel like we sometimes get way too caught up in all the different intricacies of natal charts, draconic charts, and persona charts etc etc. And we forget that at our core, we are our Sun signs. Everything else in astrology is just a modification of that Sun sign. Think of it like this, the natal chart really is just the Sun’s persona chart. And just like you don’t go around saying you are your moon persona moon, you shouldn’t exactly go around saying “I’m a Virgo moon so I feel just like a Virgo moon and nothing else.” Because really rather that Virgo moon is just a modification to your sun sign in the realm of emotions. So for example I, a Gemini sun with a Virgo moon, feel like a Gemini in that I have a lot of mood swings and a put on a lighthearted smile on the outside no matter what, but then that is slightly modified by my Virgo moon to be a bit more in-touch with my feelings like a earth sign would more so than most airy Gemini would. But as you see, it’s just a modification of the Sun sign. Just the same, a Sagittarius may generally not like commitment, but a Scorpio Venus could modify this so that even the commitment despising Sagittarius would find themselves being loyal once they really find someone they love. But I digress. My point is everything in astrology is just a modification of the sun sign, and the deeper you dig the more minute the modification. So do study your sun sign a lot, not the stupid general shit they put in magazines, but the real facts of your sun sign. Because that’s the centre of everything in your personality. Not to say that you shouldn’t study the rest of your chart, because you definitely should. Especially your rising and moon sign. But always remember that if you’re a Leo, nothing in your chart is going to override that. You’ll always have Leo traits. 

So that was a long introduction to this post, I apologize I’m a Gemini so I talk a lot lmao. Anyway, I’m just going to do some (brief) descriptions of the Sun signs so you can maybe reconnect with it a bit?

Aries: Think of Aries like The Fool in tarot (although I’d think most Aries would get a bit annoyed with that description, they can, at their worst, be a bit aggressive and blindly arrogant.) they’re about to step off the cliff, they are brave out of lack of thoughts of the consequences. They can be quite reckless and sometimes this can lead to them making poor decisions. They’re the fearless leaders, and inner children. They aren’t afraid to get what they need, and they can be very assertive. They may also be a bit stubborn and bossy, but also passionate and they make good leaders. Aries enjoy physical activity, whether that be of the more Martian sexual kind, or sports, or simply working very hard etc. Aries are the kind to always pretend to be happy and to be unable to be hurt, even if that obviously isn’t always true. They also have this “I’d love to be your friend but cross me and you’re dead” persona. In friends and partners, they need excitement in all of there relationships. They’ll get bored otherwise, and they also need to have more of the control, because Aries can actually be quite controlling. As previously mentioned, physical touch is also of importance. Aries would often like to think of themselves as independent, but really it is that they need to be in charge, they need to be the leader of their clique or workplace etc. It’s really hard to tell an Aries “no.” without them getting extremely upset, maybe even immaturely so. When Aries feel things, they feel them passionately and strongly, but as previously mentioned, they feel that they need to only show their best emotions in order to keep up their persona. At their best, Aries are confident, optimistic, honest, goal achievers. At their worst, Aries are selfish, childish, short-tempered, and impulsive. 

Taurus: A fixed earth sign? Definitely the most stubborn out of the zodiac. Taurus can be very stubborn and headstrong, also somewhat selfish like Aries. Although the difference is that Taurus are selfish when it comes to material things. Of course this headstrong aspect can make it so if you tell them to do something, they’ll do the opposite. Same goes with if you tell them they can’t do something, they’ll do it. Taurus can be very materialistic, since they desire and need comfort and possession related security. They like nice things, comfortable things, etc. A Taurus will be very upset if they’re running low on money, and they may feel at their happiest when somewhere with a lot of material comforts or things they are familiar with, such as their home. Taurus dislikes change, it stresses them out a lot because they don’t know what to expect of if things will be as good as they were before. As stated, they love the feeling of security. Taurus is also very in touch with the senses, that plus their Venusian archetype of indulgence is probably where the stereotype of them loving food comes from. Although many Taureans do actually love food, they may also indulge in shopping and/or sleep. But of course with Taurus being a Venusian earth sign, they are very sensual, and thus are likely to also indulge in sex. That being said, physical contact is important in relationships to a Taurus. Taurus also, as previously mentioned, do not like change or inconsistency and thus need a long and loyal relationship, because they need that feeling of consistency and security, and they can be quite possessive and protective. Taurus feel things very deeply and they can also be very romantic, they’re emotions are beautiful yet dark like those of their sister sign Scorpio. They can also be very intimidating when angered and they can hold a long grudge. At their best, Taurus is reliable, patient, attractive, romantic, stable, and one of the most loyal signs. At their worst, Taurus are selfish, stubborn, possessive, lazy, and insensitive. 

Gemini: This sign is the extroverted expression of Mercury. They love communication, even the shy Geminis get a excited when someone speaks to them. Gemini’s have quick minds, and they need mental stimulation. They often are doing many things at once and they do things quickly. Speaking of doing things quickly, they learn very quickly and they love learning and studying new things. Geminis hate being bored more than anything, they always need something to do, thus why multitasking is a common Gemini activity. Geminis love socializing and interacting with others. But, they like to keep things lighthearted and most if not all of their friendships are very surface-level. Geminis, like they’re sister sign Sagittarius, can also be described as very noncommittal in one way or another. For some this means it is very difficult for them to commit to a relationship, for other’s this means they are very indecisive and maybe unreliable. Gemini are able to adapt to new situations or people very easily, this likely is the origin of their two-faced stereotype because they don’t really have one fixed personality, they change who they are to get along with different people more. So if they’re trying to be friends with a Scorpio they may ask more deep questions for more interesting conversation, or if they’re trying to socialize with a Aries they may be more lighthearted and adventurous than usual. Speaking of which Gemini is the sign of short journeys so day trips are very common for them and make them very happy. Geminis in relationships need someone who isn’t too clingy, and someone who can match them on a mental level. They love and need much communication in relationships, and a lot of this communication can be quite flirty and affectionate because Gemini is just a very flirtatious sign in general. Geminis can be quite moody in their emotions and they’ll be really sad one minute then excited and energetic the next. At their best, Gemini are curious, intelligent, fun, adaptable, and friendly. At their worst, Gemini are inconsistent, unreliable, liars, and can be very nervous. 

Cancer: The crab, Cancer is a very emotional and sensitive sign that has a hard outer shell. They may seem very cold and uncaring at first with that hard outer shell, but really they are quite the opposite. They are very caring and protective of those close to them, especially their family. This shell of the crab may also be expressed as being shy rather than cold, these people don’t enjoy talking too much about their personal life. These are very private people, but it’s often because they are easily hurt. Cancer has this stereotype of being kind of a crybaby, but really they’d only ever actually cry in front of those they are very close to otherwise they’ll hold it all in, even if they are feeling very emotional. Like Taurus, Cancer desires security. The difference is here it is more about emotional security. So while a Taurus may find they’re sense of security it the home, it’s slightly different fro Cancer as in they find their sense of security with their family and loved ones. Cancer is very, very protective of those they love, they are a cardinal sign after all. I feel like Cancer really embodies the idea of being the kind of person who’d die for those they love. Cancer individuals are very kind and loving, and in a very deep way. So in a relationship a Cancer would need someone who’d loyal and sympathetic, someone they can really talk to a trust. A Cancer wouldn’t do well in a on again off again relationship or a relationship with someone who’d more distant because Cancer doesn’t like having to put up their hard shell for those they love. Cancer feels a lot, it is the sign of the moon and they are no strangers to emotions. They feel things and understand them, but they keep them to themselves. At their best, Cancer is sympathetic, understanding, loyal, persuasive, and can be very helpful out of love. At their worst, Cancer can be cold, manipulative, moody, insecure, and very untrusting and closed off.

Leo: Leo is the lion. They are very prideful and often feel like royalty (as opposed to their sister sign Aquarius who feels like a god). But just like the Lion, they tend to follow what other’s are doing. So they aren’t exactly trend setters, more like trend followers. This is because Leo, as much as they put on a facade of being very confident, actually cares a lot about what other people think of them and a lot of their self esteem relies on it. So they could be scared that if they do something not in the norm or currently trending, they’ll be disliked which is practically a Leo’s worst fear. Even so, Leo is certainly not “fake.” They are very loving and generous, of course they do expect something in return for this and usually what they’re looking for is attention. Because if being disliked is a Leo’s worst fear, getting attention is a Leo’s favorite thing. Of course there are still those rare once-in-a-blue-moon shy Leos, but even they will yearn for the attention of those close to them. Leo is a very expressive sign, and thus are very creative. They love to have fun with their creation to so they love things such as dance and art. Leo, being ruled by the sun, radiates a warm and friendly energy. Leo is also arguable the most loyal sign, being the fixed lion. Thus, a Leo needs a loyal and very affectionate relationship. They need to know thy are loved, this can be shown through actual acts of love such as y’know even just giving a small gift or showing appreciation for whatever the Leo gives to you (gifts are a big theme in relationships for a Leo, that’s one of their preferred ways of showing love). When it comes to feelings, Leo can feel very insecure when they are feeling more negative emotions, so they only really show their more positive ones. But they do feel everything very passionately, as a fire sign would. At their best, Leos are generous, confident, friendly, humorous and cheerful, and they have a big and warm heart with lots of love to give. At their worst, Leos are attention-whores, self-centered, stubborn and selfish, and can be a bit arrogant. 

Virgo: Virgo is the introverted expression of Mercury. Virgos do like to keep themselves very busy and they do a lot of the little tasks most other people do not want to do. They are extremely hard working and pay a lot of attention to detail. But this can make them perfectionists, and that can cause them a lot of stress. Virgo is a very nervous and anxious sign, and their perfectionist trait can make them a little critical and they’re never quite satisfied with the way things are. Virgo is kind of contradictory in a way as in they’re the mutable sign of routine. They need routine in order to calm down their nerves, but they also are very subject to change of personality on the daily. Virgos are very practical in that they are always trying to come up with realistic solutions to improve something, but this is often to try and achieve something that is more idealistic and not a possible reality. This also applies to their relationships and they’re very loyal for a mutable sign, so they need to be with someone who is also loyal and who is also striving to constantly improve their relationship.They wouldn’t do well in a relationships with someone irresponsible or someone who becomes fine with just the way things are. Virgos generally like reading or math, those kind of “nerdy” things, and they like to really get things done but as previously mentioned they are the introverted expression of Mercury so they tend to like work on their own and do their own thing. Virgos do like communication as a Mercurian sign would, but they’re generally more quiet about it and are less likely to initiate conversation than a Gemini, but I can assure you they have tons of conversation going on in their head. When it come to feeling things Virgo can be very self-critical and anxious leading to a lot of negative emotions, but at their best Virgo can use this to feel a lot of motivation. At their best, Virgos are practical, helpful, loyal, and are very intelligent. At their worst, Virgos are critical, anxious, they overwork and can be very shy. 

Libra: Libra is a very social and friendly sign. Like Leo, they are a trend follow, they like to fit in and be liked. When I say Libra is a friendly sign, I really mean it. Libras hate confrontation and arguments more than anything. So in order to avoid such things they may be very friendly and cooperative, but they could also be passive-aggressive. Also in their attempts to be liked, and for other reasons like being the scales and thus being balanced in both side, they are one of the most indecisive signs. While Taurus is the more introverted expression of Venus, Libra is the more social and extroverted expression of Venus. They love socializing and love having many close connections. This may make it so Libras have a lot of different romantic relationships, because they can be distance like an air sign but they long for romance and love, but they fear to go too deep. Libras are also often found to be attractive by most people and they flirt a lot, and they love indulging in beauty products and fashion. Libras are also very diplomatic, they don’t like things to be fair they like things to be just. After confrontation, injustice is a Libras least favorite thing. Libras at first can be a bit “fake.” They try to make themselves as desirable as possible, even if it isn’t who they really are. In order to keep a Libra in a relationships you have to be very romantic, they love romance. Make yourself visually appealing, and give them their distance. Treat them with words of love such as “I love you”’s and compliments. When it comes to their feelings Libra’s will repress any sort of anger or aggression in favor of trying to be logical in situations. They can be very easily hurt, actually. They’re quite soft. At their best, Libras are diplomatic, friendly and social, beautiful and romantic, and charming and gentle. At their worst, Libras are superficial, passive-aggressive, indecisive, and fake. 

Scorpio: Scorpio is the sign of Mars and Pluto, thus it’s safe to say that they are very intense. They take things very seriously, life isn’t all fun to them. They don’t open up and trust people easily, so they can actually seem a bit superficial and fake at first. But really they are quite deep, and they take things very seriously. They’re also very passionate about whatever interests them. For many Scorpios things that interest them are mysteries of the world, or the taboo. Scorpios can also be very passionate physically, being ruled by both Mars and Pluto makes them interested in both physical and emotional intimacy. In relationships, Scorpio is extremely loyal and loving. They need a deep and bonded connection, they need someone who will be there through everything and anything. Thus a Gemini or some other more lighthearted sign or sign that needs space like Aquarius may be ill fit for a Scorpio. They also need a lot of physical contact in their relationships, so they aren’t likely to end up in a relationship with someone who doesn’t enjoy that as well. In relationships and close friendships Scorpios can be very possessive and jealous, they sometimes even feel that they don’t really love someone if they don’t feel that way. Scorpio is a very strong sign, but this is from pain. They feel things very deeply but hardly ever share these feelings, and a lot of these feelings may either be used to tear themselves down or to motivate themselves. By motivation I mean in this way Scorpio is actually more like a phoenix than a scorpion, they tear themselves and their lives completely down, intentionally or not, to build themselves completely back up again, but stronger. Scorpio is very much about death and rebirth. Scorpio is also an extremely hardworking sign, and once they get focused on something they dive into it completely. At their best Scorpios are caring, understanding, hardworking, resourceful, and brave. At their worst Scorpios are jealous, obsessive, possessive, vengeful, controlling, secretive, and overbearing.

Sagittarius: This sign is very adventurous. They love to experience new things and to be spontaneous and to travel. Experience is the most valuable thing to a Sagittarius. This includes experiences while travelling but also having experience to gain knowledge and to be intelligent. Sagittarius is a very intelligent sign in a very book-smart way. While being very skeptical, many Sagittarius individuals can be spiritual and/or philisophical. Also, while being very honest many Sagittarius people are quite unreliable. This is because Sagittarius needs a lot of space, and needs a lot of freedom. They love to just chill mentally and have fun, they’re very optimistic and outgoing. Like Gemini, Sagittarius can be very noncommittal. They’re always wanting to try something new so it’s hard for them to settle in to one relationship or one project. Like Leo, Sagittarius are very generous. Being ruled by Jupiter, Sagittarius individuals generally have a good sense of humor. Sagittarius individuals need to be in a relationship with someone who shares their morals and beliefs, they also need to be with someone who allows them to have their freedom and someone who really loves experiences over things. Because Sagittarius does value experiences way more than material things. When it comes to emotions Sagittarius people feel a need to only show positive emotions, they need to put a smile on and be cheerful. They feel things very passionately, and they may use their emotions to gain energy, as motivation. They may tend to intellectualize some of their more negative emotions. At their best, Sagittarius is optimistic, humorous, adventurous, a teacher to all, intelligent, honest and idealistic. At their worst, Sagittarius can be unreliable as in they’ll promise more than they can deliver, impatient, blunt, unable to commit. 

Capricorn: These individuals are very hardworking and traditional individuals. By hardworking I mean that they are constantly working to improve themselves. Being ruled by Saturn they come up with a lot of restrictions which they need to work around, giving them a good work ethic. By traditional I mean they really value traditions, such as family traditions. They also care a lot about appearances and what others think of them. They want to be seen as if they have they’re shit together and want to be seen as very mature and respectable. Capricorn’s can be blamed for being stuck up or not fun, this may be because they like to be a sense of security for others and thus would not want to do things that would either disrupt that reputation or things that may be risky. Many Capricorn’s may find themselves having a low self esteem even if for no real reason, they’re very harsh on themselves. Capricorns also tend to be very pessimistic, and they may be very unforgiving. But they also have good impulse control and have good manners. In relationships a Capricorn needs a reliable and committed partner, and they need a relationship with a lot of the “cliché” ways to show love. When it comes to their emotions Capricorn tend to either intellectualize them or use them for motivation. Surprisingly, they also can often be found using (usually sarcastic or self deprecating) humor as a defense mechanism. They may feel very restricted by their emotions in one way or another. At their best, Capricorn’s are reliable, responsible, hardworking, caring, and very trustworthy individuals. At their worst, Capricorn’s are mean, sarcastic, shy, anti-social, stuck up, and/or “boring.”

Aquarius: No sign is as independent as Aquarius. They march to the beat of their own drum, which can cause a lot of people to think of Aquarius individuals as weird or eccentric. While Aquarius loves socializing and having many friendships, they also need to be very distant and to have their space. This can make them seem cold or aloof, even if that isn’t the case. Aquarius is a very humanitarian sign and is very innovative and progressive. But as progressive as they are, they aren’t as accepting as a sign such as Sagittarius is and Aquarius can’t stand it when people disagree with their opinions or views. Aquarius can also seem to have a God complex, and to an extent many Aquarius do feel like a god. Aquarius are very intelligent, as air signs are, and this helps with their innovative mind. When it comes to romance, Aquarius isn’t so psyched about the idea of being tied down to one person. They like having their multiple connections, so they really wouldn’t do well with someone who requires to be the centre of their attention. This can also make it hard for Aquarius to really find someone they want to be with, because most relationships do require more depth and attention than an Aquarius would by hyped about. Although Aquarius is a fixed sign, so once they do find someone they want to be with they are very loyal and caring, even if they may struggle to show anything beyond friendliness, and it is hard for them to really get into a serious relationship. Once they are in a relationship they need a lot of space, they don’t like the idea of becoming “we/us” they’d rather still be “you and I.” If that gets my point across, they’re independent. When it comes to emotions, Aquarius can really detach from them or run away from them. It’s not that they don’t feel per se, it’s more that they run away from it and ignore the fact that they are feeling emotions. At their best Aquarius are friendly, humanitarian, helpful, original, fun, and spontaneous. At their worst, Aquarius are unpredictable, distant, aloof, uncompromising, and can have a God Complex™.

Venus is my best friend so here we go…

Sun - Venus Aspects (I’ve done these ones before, but I want to include it again in this Venus aspect master post)

In a person’s chart, the Sun and Venus are never further than 48 degrees apart; the only possible aspects it can have are a conjunction, semi-sextile, or a semi-square.

Sun conjunct Venus This creates a strong connection to Venus’ energy and carries over Venusian traits. These people are in tune with the beauty of life. They are charming and easy-going. They are very romantic, but they too often get tied up into the thought that a prince or princess will come for them rather than they find a lover themselves. With that being said though, they do possess a magnetic attraction and a lot of people will fall for their charms. This aspect softens the masculinity parts of you into feminine and gentle pursuit.  

Sun semi-sextile Venus When the Sun and Venus are 30 degrees apart (2 degree orb) it creates a semi-sextile. A weaker aspect, but still have some influence on the individual. These people are cheerful, good humoured, and optimistic. Semi-sextile is a 12th harmonic aspect, so with that vibe you can imagine that the influence this aspect creates will almost go unnoticed. 

Sun semi-square Venus When the Sun and Venus are 45 degrees apart (4 degree orb, but the closer, the stronger) it creates the semi-square. This is another weaker aspect, but it does create a strong pursuit for talent in music and dance. These people also seem to be strongly inclined to female offspring. These people are sensitive and somewhat shy (still keeping in mind that this is a minor aspect so major aspects elsewhere in the chart can say something else). Since this is technically a discordant aspect, the shyness is rooted from insecurity. Semi-squares being an 8th harmonic will give off some Scorpio/8th House vibes to this person’s romantic character. 

Mercury - Venus Aspects When I think of Mercury-Venus aspects, I picture a poet writing, dancing his pencil across the paper. Again, Mercury and Venus can only be so far apart, that is, never more than 76 degrees apart. So with that being said, the possible aspects that can be made are the conjunction, semi-sextile, semi-square, sextile, quintile, decile, and semi-decile. I will exclude quintiles, deciles, and semi-deciles, but you can sort of get an idea on how to interpret a Mercury-Venus decile/semi-decile by acknowledging a decile/semidecile’s Capricorn/Saturn/10th House energy. And for hints on how to interpret a quintile/biquintile, I talk about this aspect here. 

Mercury conjunct Venus The mind is very refined and artistic. Soft and charming. Ideas and voice can be almost hypnotizing. Very friendly when unafflicted. Speaks beauty so effortlessly. According to C.E.O. Carter, people with this aspect are typically fond of youth and may even act juvenile… This could create a wide range of motives to why someone might act this way; to attract young people or to just stay “hip.” This is very true when Saturn isn’t very pronounced in the chart. You can imagine people with this aspect being quite proficient in writing, music, or speaking, especially when this aspect is in the 3rd or 5th house. 

Mercury sextile Venus Great placement for musicians; it combines the mind with artistic abilities. Very artistic. Friendly, charming, and social, may come off a little fake though (unless of course, the rest of the chart says otherwise). Like all harmonious Venus-Mercury aspects, you have a way with words; a great conversationalist. 

Mercury semi-sextile Venus Very minor aspect so again, it may go unnoticed, but because it is harmonious, it still has its intellect and charm to it. Like the sextile, the individual can be a good speaker. I would consider this another good placement for musicians just because semi-sextiles are 12th harmonics so therefore there could be some Neptune vibes drawing in there. Artistic ability is definitely there, but will need to seek it out even harder than the sextile. 

Mercury semi-square Venus The 8th harmonic sprouting from a semi-square could potentially make the individual possessive, perceptive, seductive, and manipulative. An alluring charm to the way they communicate to others. Can sometimes be negative for relationships if the controlling aspects to this placement are indeed prominent. 

Moon - Venus Aspects Moon conjunct Venus If prominent in the native chart, they have a calm and gentle presence. There is a strong appreciation for love, beauty, and art. Generally all around affectionate, charming, and trusting. This sensitivity might make the person prone to people using them because they are sort of a “Yes-man” type person. Strong motherly character to them. A very good placement for people who wish to have children as it symbolizes harmonious family life. 

Moon sextile or trine Venus Quite similar to the conjunction in the sense that they are very artistic. Blessed with charm and attractiveness. Financially a good placement as well, money is hardly an issue unless badly afflicted somewhere else in the chart. The trine comes more naturally than the sextile.

Moon square Venus Difficult and afflicted position for Venus. The individual feels a sense of melancholy around the idea of love and beauty, there may be some insecurities around that as well. Unless Venus shares a stronger, more positive aspect some where else in the person’s chart, this is not a very good aspect for money. There are strong insecurities to bring the effeminate side of the person out, they hide it through aggressiveness and toughness. To overcome this hard aspect, the person needs to accept genuine love where it is given, do not shut it out. Financially, the individual should look to earthy aspects in their chart to handle money better and for stability. Work on being more loving unconditionally.

Moon opposite Venus This aspect is not as difficult to handle as the square, but there is work involved. There are fears of being unloved and difficulties with handling finances. Again, accept genuine love where it is given and give love where it is deserved. I feel this aspect can also be overcome by a strong relationship between them and their lover or them and the mother. Disconnection of the mother through this aspect tends to have very negative affects on the individual. 

Venus - Mars Aspects

Venus conjunct Mars While conjunctions are commonly seen as harmonious, they are actually in fact neutral and in this case, the powerful combination of Venus and Mars can actually be quite difficult. Depending on where Venus and Mars are positioned will depict just how this aspect will act (the Venus side of this aspect may smother Mars if Venus is in an empowering sign and vice versa). An overpowering Venus will weaken Mars’ abilities therefore the individual could lack qualities Mars typically provides (such as, drive towards passions…). The overpowering Venus will favour fairness, love, and harmony, but will also be lazy, superficial, etc. On the other spectrum, we have an overpowering Mars which could make the individual lack Venus’ gentle and loving traits. Lust and power could be a big thing for Mars placed here. Can make the individual moody and reckless, but brave. Both extremes can be balanced by focusing on the one that is being weakened. 

Venus sextile or trine Mars Harmony between the spirit and animal self. Makes a strong, enthusiastic, courageous character. Very good placement for health, makes for a generally robust and healthy body. Great love of life and they tend to just effortlessly tread through life like a warrior. Affectionate and kind. Makes the individual magnetically attractive to the opposite sex. Mars will put any sort of Venus related talents to work and may prefer Venus related activities, but can also do well in athletic fields as well. 

Venus square Mars Quite a difficult aspect that needs taming and it can manifest in different ways. From what some astrologers have observed, this aspect can create conflict with family life; this could range anywhere from quarrels or unfortunate family events. It does not doom romantic relationships, but it does stir up drama. Romantic life has quite a bit of flare; passion, heartbreak, tears, kiss-and-makeup sort of situations… It’s very extra. Creates a jealous and possessive character and should try to work on eliminating this trait. In masculine individuals, it can make them harsh, unloving, or unruly; this must be tamed in order to find a healthy, happy, permanent mate. Careful who you marry or dedicate your life to; avoid marrying young or marry wisely. Sex drive is either too much or very little with this aspect. Usually impatient and many unfulfilled desires. Look to what houses are involved with this aspect because what this aspect comes down to is conflict between passion and harmony to whichever houses are involved. Harmonious aspects to Saturn can calm this position down. Aside from the negativity this aspect gives off, it can create an extremely passionate and driven character.

Venus opposite Mars Oppositions represent outer forces creating conflict. This aspect has many of the same difficulties and tendencies as the square, but it is much easier to escape its framework with conscious movements away from its negative energy. People who are more feminine ruled will develop overly sensitive traits and attract men who are aggressive and licentious. People who are masculine ruled likely have aggressive and touchy traits and attract overly sensitive and submissive women into their lives. Either way, both characters come on too strong. This aspect also represents conflict with the opposite sex; that can be manifested in many ways like oppression, difficult parents, etc. Just like the square, it can create a very passionate and driven character.

Venus - Jupiter Aspects

Venus conjunct Jupiter Considered the “lucky” aspect as Venus and Jupiter endlessly compliment each other, but there can be too much cheese and wine if you know what I mean (indulgence… Laziness… Self-centredness… Impulsive…). But yes, this is considered one of the best aspects a natal chart can have as it represents a very artistically developed character with great appreciation for beauty and absolute gracefulness. Popularity and prosperity also come from this aspect. Jupiter expands all that Venus has to offer, Jupiter gives Venus a huge heart to just love all of life’s virtues. 

Venus sextile or trine Jupiter Many of the same benefits as the conjunctions, less of the negative traits as they are more controlled with these aspects. The sextile needs to actually be put to work to achieve the benefits whereas the trine makes them come naturally to the individual. There is also a strong interest in religion and attunement to the Higher Self. 

Venus square Jupiter What’s great about Jupiter aspects is that the negative aspects often get same benefits as the positive aspects (trine, conjunction, sextile, etc.); it is the case for Venus squaring Jupiter, but on top of that, there are some negatives that need to be controlled and overcome. Typically problems routed from this aspect are over-indulgence, bad judgement, vanity, laziness, and doing things without purpose; the individual usually overdoes it or doesn’t do enough. May be foolish with money; if this is controlled, the individual can be quite prosperous though. Individuals with this placement should be wary of the consumption of alcohol and fatty, rich foods as the liver is sensitive with this aspect.

Venus opposite Jupiter Again, like I mentioned in the square, negative Jupiter aspects can still possess the same benefits as the trine or sextile. It does also possess the same troubles as the square, but often times the problems come from outer forces and aren’t caused by the individual themselves. Often times the issues, whether they be financial, or romantic, or etc. issues, can come from foreigners, travelling, or just justice. It’s best to also see what houses are involved with this aspect to get a better idea where the excess and trouble comes from. 

Venus - Saturn Aspects

Venus conjunct Saturn In this case, the intense energy coming from the conjunction can be a bit discordant; here we have love being smothered by Saturn’s restriction. So yes, there is a lack of lovingness from this aspect, but it is because Saturn is making Venus cautious in love and considerate of their own feelings. Saturn will restrict the use of money as well; an individual with this aspect can be quite stingy, even possibly to the point of being a Ebenezer Scrooge. It is, however, perfectly okay to be careful with finances, but it is the selfishness that could create a problem; it will attract equally selfish people. Insecurity is another issue with this aspect as it restricts Venus’ ability to appreciate one’s own beauty. An individual with this aspect may not even see what is described above as an issue to them; they may think that ultimately, their duty to serve on in this life is more important than beauty, love, etc. If however, what is described sounds troubling to a Venus conjunct Saturn individual, the best way to overcome these issues is sacrifice. There is no love without sacrifice, especially in the case of Venus conjunct Saturn, but the sacrifice itself could very well be a very small price to pay.

Venus sextile or trine Saturn Creates a character of absolute loyalty and dependability. Takes love very seriously and will not waste time with careless people; they value commitment. Is patient with love; one of the most important factors in love is to know that love is patient, therefore you must be patient with love. It is quite possible that insecurity is also routed from this aspect, but it really depends on the houses and signs that are involved (A detrimental Venus in aspect to the first house definitely screams insecurity). Like the conjunction, the individual can be quite careful with finances, but not to the point of being stingy. A great amount of spiritual strength and survival skills is developed with this aspect from either past-life hardships or early-life hardships. 

Venus square Saturn This aspect is what many astrologers consider karmic debt. Saturn freezes Venus when the aspect is tight on this one. It reaps disappointment through love. Loneliness is inflicted on themselves. An individual with this placement may cut themselves off from opportunities in love to avoid disappointment (or may feel they don’t deserve love) or may make foolish decisions in love which can cause obvious disappointment. The first case would be especially true if this aspect is connected to the fourth house or even the first house. The second case would be true if this aspect is connected to one of the houses involving relationships (like the seventh house). Venus - Saturn aspects also hint to greed which may be true with the square. Ultimately this aspect if trying to teach the individual to have some balance; knowing what you truly deserve and don’t deserve; to give love to receive love; to share to be shared. Like the conjunction, a person with this aspect may feel like they don’t need love because they devote that energy towards their ambition or duty… They sacrifice comfort… 

Venus opposite Saturn Some of the same negative encounters with this aspect as the square, but the problems arise mostly through outer forces like the people they meet; the outer forces are reflecting past-life behaviours. The houses involved with this aspect can tell a lot about where the problems will arise (seventh house could symbolize a difficult relationship or the tenth/fourth house could symbolize a parent, usually the father, that is a burden, distant, unloving or cold; quite possibly also the need to assimilate for the parent, the need, but often resulting in inability, to impress them. Saturn in the second house opposite to Venus may symbolize financial conflict… Saturn in the eighth house opposite Venus may symbolize conflict with inheritance..). The possible conflict with this aspect is vast and needs to be inspected carefully to really know exactly what it may represent in an individual’s chart, but to put it simply, Saturn is inflicting dread and misfortune on Venus and it is often due to the individual’s choice in environment. The effects of this aspect are easily avoidable by consciousness and choice; you can choose to be happy, you can choose what people or things effect you. 

Venus - Uranus Aspects

Venus conjunct Uranus Eccentricity draws people to this individual; it is creative, dynamic, unique, and ultimately attractive to others. Unless earth or Saturn gives some commitment and stability in the individual’s chart, this placement can make a person hard to tie down and dislikes responsibility. They never really know what they like or admire because it’s always changing! There can definitely be “a sudden change in heart” with this placement for the individual. Funny enough, if they aren’t the one to break things off, they’re often extremely upset by separation. Great independence; the individual’s freedom comes before love, especially true if there is a lack of water or earth in the chart. The trick to tying one down with this aspect is to be a valuable friend before a lover as one of their morals is usually something like “Lovers come and go, but friends remain forever.” Being able to speak on a friend level gives a person with this aspect room to breathe. Artistic talent is strong with this placement as Venus combines her eye for beauty with Uranus’ unique ideas to create an artistic genius. 

Venus trine or sextile Uranus These individuals could easily be described as fascinating. Has the same magnetism and artistic genius as the conjunction. In every thing that Venus entails, Uranus is going to put some surprise twists in there; brings love, prosperity, and events from unexpected places. The sudden events and changes will always be in favour of the individual. The trine aspect brings all of these traits more easily than the sextile. 

Venus square or opposite Uranus An individual with this aspect may need to seek stability in himself before seeking a successful and stable romantic relationship for emotional instability is common with this aspect. Fickle behaviour is common. Magnetism is just as strong as the trine aspect, but it may attract the wrong type of person for this individual. Has unconventional ideas around love and sex, but this aspect won’t cause promiscuousness. Strong will to be independent to the point where the individual may forget just how much he/she relies on certain people. Demands freedom, but also needs to realize that they must give freedom to others to be, well, ultimately free. 

Venus - Neptune Aspects

Venus conjunct Neptune This has got to be the most favourable aspect among artists and musicians as it blesses a chart with immense inspiration, imagination, and romantic traits. Attractive and angelic. May be psychically sensitive. Interest in mystical or metaphysical fields can also be strong; anything of divinity. This interest in the unknown can also result in a negative direction such as escapism, but a more developed individual with this aspect will know that the path to enlightenment includes a raw and sober mind. Romantically compassionate, usually has a great understanding of the laws of love and has a lot of love to give. Nerves are sensitive in love. An individual with this placement may romanticize toxic behaviours, people, ideology, etc. 

Venus trine or sextile Neptune Like the conjunction, this is an extremely favourable aspect for artistic and musicians as it denotes great imagination, inspiration, and talent. An individual with this aspect will have a great eye for beauty and some level of refinement. Great understanding of love and values love on a spiritual level. Compassionate and is the type of person to “always be there for you.” Not super attached to the material world and just like the conjunction, there is interest in the metaphysical fields; may be psychically sensitive, if not, intuition is definitely still strong. Sensitive type. 

Venus square Neptune Neptune is creating self-deception in Venusian realms and whichever houses that are involved is where it will often take place. The most common self-deception created from this aspect is in the area of love; individuals with this aspect often create an image of how a person is when they’re clearly not like that at all; they try to fit their partner into a framework that isn’t them; a square block into a circular hole. This ultimately will bring the individual some disappointment in love when they finally realize they cannot change a person no matter how much they wish upon it. So while commonly it is that the expectations are too high in love, they can also be too low; the individual needs to find a balance in order to be happy. There is also a strong desire to seek true enlightenment and the divine, but is often unable to fully achieve this desire. The square does not affect artist ability in a negative way like some may associate with a negative Venus/Neptune aspect, in fact, it could create a positive influence on the individual’s artistic ability as squares often provide motivation and drive.

Venus opposite Neptune I mentioned in the square description that there is self-deception, but in the case of the opposition, there is deception coming from outer forces, most often people and even more specific, romantic affairs. A person with this aspect is likely to encounter someone like described in the square, but with selfish and controlling motives also. The easiest way to opt out of this experience is to simply just avoid these people; you don’t need to sacrifice your interests to fit someone else’s needs. Be wise with who you allow into your life romantically. This aspect can also manifest in other ways, not just romantic ones, but also be aware of possible deception and schemes through other Venusian realms such as money and beauty. Again, just like the square, artistic ability is not negatively affected by this aspect.

Venus - Pluto Aspects

Venus conjunct Pluto There is a great deal of lust, magnetism, and sensuality with this aspect. This aspect has the potential of making a person a master at seduction. What’s also great about this aspect is that Pluto, a planet that sees right through all there is in its rawest form, will break some of Venus’ superficialness and social barriers that Venus often entails. Romantic endeavours are far from lacking steaminess thanks to Pluto. Your artistic projects will usually have an intimate connection to you. 

Venus trine or sextile Pluto There isn’t the same amount of magnetism as the conjunction, but the people who do get caught by your allure REALLY get pulled in by you. Romantic feelings are intense and leave great emotional impact. Great value for intimacy. Eye for beauty is intense and raw. Has the same amount of empathy as a personal planet aspected to Neptune, but holds their ground and doesn’t sacrifice who they are. Looks for the good in every person. 

Venus square Pluto An individual with this aspect may have held deep grudges and indulged too much in lust and selfishness to the point where they must redeem themselves and change their behaviour in order to seek peace and happiness in this life. One way an individual can fix this behaviour is by teaching others to love and to give because teaching someone something is actually a very strategic way of teaching yourself as well. 

Anyone with a name that starts with a “Z”, ends with an “i”, and isn’t some kind of Italian pasta, IS SERIOUS

-personal planets in somebody else’s 8th house (especially mars or venus) can make the 8th house person obsessive over the planet person

-those with venus/mars aspects have a lot of sexual chemistry

-with many mercury aspects comes good communication and deep/stimulating conversations

-having positive sun to venus aspects creates mutual attraction and a supportive relationship

-moon conjunct ascendant causes hypersensitivity and the ability to affect each others moods drastically

-negative mercury to mars aspects can lead to arguments. the mars person may be impatient and force opinions onto the mercury person

-having moon in the 2nd house will base the relationship on emotional satisfaction rather than romance. the 2nd house person could be possessive of the moon person

-mercury in the 11th house will bring open communication and a sense of companionship

-sun conjunct jupiter indicates generosity and sharing. you both tend to hype each other up

-having sun in the 1st house brings infatuation. the 1st house person sees the sun person as the best thing that’s ever happened to them

-venus/moon conjunct saturn aspects can cause the saturn person to be controlling of the venus/moon person

air

air moon/air mars: cool yet approachable; keeps things light; rarely really resorts to anger as much as they get irritable and are quick to annoy; when they do get angry it’s colder than the mesosphere, but they forgive the easiest; unpredictable, great at friendship, too happy to be mad, cares about others yet at the same time dgaf; hippies; anything goes/go with the flow/hakuna matata; tends to always come out on top; and they’re quick, cut a person off so don’t get comfortable…the coolest in love and in sex; will be the most experimental in bed and loves gadgets; THE BEST at a fwb situation; no grudges, no worries air moon/earth mars: comes off aloof; slower to annoy yet will think about their response to anger; but will bring the heat if you test them, quick to lose their head but quicker to get it back again; rarely acts the way others expect, and may appear to be disinterested in intimacy and commitment, however, once involved, they make loyal, devoted partners; may be lively and socially acceptable to others, but deep down they’re anything but frivolous; their lovers should get as much pleasure from debating and sharing ideas as from lovemaking; when their minds are freed and loosened up with provocative language and witty erotic banter, their asses swiftly follow air moon/fire mars: childlike, talkative, social, friendly, optimistic and adventurous; absolute FUN in the club; quick to anger, but quick to let it go; physically sensual and passionate, but emotionally cooler than others; will not hesitate to light your ass up if you fuck with their friends, their good time, or whatever they feel like doing for the moment; not practical or sentimental in the slightest; very snappy and blunt yet are interested in others; gets the party started, will do wild and crazy shit but will still keep their head; won’t hold grudges; will start shit but has a heart of gold and isn’t malicious; an icelandic volcano; undercover sweethearts air moon/water mars: thinking head but a feeling heart, playful and sensual; wild in the darkest places in your mind; can be unrealistic and idealistic; instead of dealing with disappointment head on, their inclination is to don rose-colored glasses and tell themselves everything is okay, even when it isn’t; outwardly acts as if romance is all fun and games, but in matters of the heart they play for keeps; they blow hot and cold and their moods swings can be just as extreme as any water sign in general; secret romantics

fire

fire moon/air mars: quick to anger but even quicker to get over it; the ones who hold the least grudges; easily excited, gregarious and outgoing; wildly social and endlessly curious; not sentimental at all; can be insensitive; future-oriented, when something is over, they move on without regrets and without looking back; also very snappy and blunt yet are interested in others; sees the good in everything at the end of the day; very exciting and very spontaneous; probably the most interested in bdsm; need to keep up with them mentally and physically if you want to hold their interest fire moon/earth mars: self controlled yet fiercely passionate; persistent and dynamic; keeps their composure but ultimately lives by the demands of their wild hearts. might have conflict caused by their yearning for independence and freedom to explore their passions, as well as a committed relationship; intense and has amazing stamina when it comes to sex fire moon/fire mars: quick to fight, quick to fuck; the quickest to anger out of all moon/mars combos; extremely volatile, excitable, might as well be a mars dom because they’re always looking for a fight, despises sentiment; the most passionate and direct about their feelings and emotions; all-consuming lust and incendiary passion expressed in a guileless way; headstrong, rash, and impulsive about sex as they are about everything else. enjoys the chase and relishes the role of playful pursuer, and seizes the initiative; fire moon/water mars: very demanding, all-or-nothing, will say the most hurtful and immature things that come to their minds when in a bad mood; quick to anger and quick to get offended and hurt; can be vengeful; might carry anger for a long time but will eventually forgive, gets sloppy drunk in the club but then cries about their ex in the bathroom; forceful but sensitive, sensual and wildly romantic; mango con chile y limon

earth

earth moon/air mars: a bit quicker to anger; the most logical and reasonable about their feelings and emotions, outspoken and has no trouble asserting yourself and usually do so in a cool, detached way that drives more emotionally expressive folks crazy; rebellious and non-conformist; can be incredibly stubborn and set in their views (progressive though they may be); craves affection and understanding, yet prefers to avoid overt displays of emotion; intimacy is not their strong point, but loyalty and dependability is; good with fwb since they’re led by their dick/pussy wherever it leads them but paradoxically they’re extremely particular about who they get seriously involved with earth moon/earth mars:  very aloof and cold emotionally; cool under pressure; the slowest to anger; calm and patient, the most controlled and mature about their feelings and emotions; always seems to come out on top in the end; warm and loving physically but emotionally inhibited; superficial air of detachment masks their deep devotion to those they love; stylish, sophisticated, and a slow burn; indulges in all the senses; very dirty and primal when it comes to sex, earthy lust and feral desires lurking beneath the facade of practicality and responsibility; can deal with a fwb situation but would prefer a stable and committed relationship; sweet honey in the rock earth moon/fire mars: big time sensuality; aggressive yet controlled; determined to have things their own way; very much their way or the highway types; quick to anger but will rein themselves in and present a more composed nature afterwards; has wildness and bravado but is stable; can be bossy and fiery; gets shit done better than anyone else because they have drive and tenacity; wants to be singular and be the star but can be secretly insecure; the BEST lovers; will turn you on and turn you out; combines fire and staying power and can go all night earth moon/water mars: a dark undertow of suppressed emotion; naturally sanguine and passive; hides their feelings under a crusty and moody exterior; romantic idealists who don’t give their hearts away easily and the intensity of their sexuality is closely connected to the depth of their feelings; won’t do well with a fwb/casual situation and needs a committed relationship; very loyal, caring, and considerate; between craggy mountains, a raging river runs through it

water

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And Lilith overlays:

Lilith in the 1st house overlay: Primal feelings for one another, you feel enticed and even more aware of your body in the presence of one another-the Lilith person is deeply enthralled by the sight of the house person and vice versa! There can be an added dose of instinctual and lustful sexuality for the two involved. Sex is often aggressive and intense. Domination can be a running gag as one of you may try to be in charge as a means to establish a sort of status quo or grounding to the attraction but for the most part it points to a very in your face sort of feeling of intensity.

Lilith in the 2nd house overlay:As you’d imagine sensuality and physical touch is the focal point! You love to be physical with one another, be it cuddling or long kisses-the passion generated here can be geared to security and both parties can feel like they are out of the cold when they’re not around each other! Since this is Lilith, possessiveness runs wild and rampant here! Loyalty is absolutely mandatory and both of you can easily sniff out dishonesty. Total devotion and sexual fidelity is important here and sex is very loving and slow Bruin. For the most part long sessions are seen here and you guys cannot have enough of each other in and out of the bedroom.

Lilith in the 3rd house overlay: Dirty talk and sexting even if it’s not something you’d normally indulge in is normal here! Both partners can be turned on by just communicating and can easily become very reckless with one another! The need to play mental games, and cat and mouse with one another is common ground here! This can be a couple that brakes up and makes up over and over again like ring around the rosey. There can be a huge appetite for oral and fallacio here! Sex can be versatile and very handsy. Both parties can grow clingy here.

Lilith in the 4th house overlay: Emotions run like a moving train here, these two don’t play games at all lmao. Sex is lead up to and usually involves eye contact and hugging lots of it. The two of them have a very nurturing and protective energy and can easily get swept up in one another, that being said the Lilith person can often switch their emotions on and or off and gaslight the house person unknowingly in some cases while the house person can resort to emotional and mental abuse to establish some sort of security. There is a lot of love here but sometimes it can be suffocating if both parties aren’t emotionally mature. Sex can be INTENSE, it can literally feel like death over and over and over again.

Lilith in the 5th house overlay: Man—this placement can mean that these two cannot stay away from one another, there is an authentic and dynamic level of love and romance that exist here but it’s kinda kookie aha. They love each other but it comes out in crazy ways, that of the dramatic variety especially since this is Leo’s house. They can be very energetic and vibrant with one another but behind closed doors they can have an insatiable appetite for each other that if not tempered could border on obsession and addiction. They live for the drama and the sex is almost like a rush, the give each other so much life but sometimes it can be too much! So practicing self control is big here.

Lilith in the 6th house overlay: This can cause a “perfection” theme here! Neither of the people involved feel like they’re good enough for the other which can lead to a lot of nervous, jittery energy around one another. Over time this tension decreases but the more they develop feelings and the more they have sex the more and more they will strive to be their idea of “perfect” for the other. Anal sex is common here and respectively this can show inequality themes during sex where on or the other partner is in charge while the other is submissive. Very sensual sexuality and a very deep need to physically touch and be on one another! Actually really cute and a lot of cuddles.

Lilith in the 7th house overlay: This can be a very passionate link up! The two identify with the darkness in one another and are completely floored by one another. They can easily fit into one another’s life and compliment the missing sides that they’re missing. Sexually they are almost made for each other and have a very passionate and intimate sex life! That being said chaos and tension can exist from time to time since this is the house of union and Lilith isn’t a huge fan of traditional unions so this can show an argumentative nature in the union when sex is lacking and can also show that you both may project the darkness of the other unknowingly into the relationship.

Lilith in the 8th house overlay: Lilith is at home here so this usually plays out as a karmic and deep chemistry between two people! You find each other sexy and deeply mysterious even a bit of an enigma! The house person feels at the whim of Lilith but Lilith feels lost at the hands of the house person! There is an equal give and take of passion here and a lot of promised security. That being said obsessiveness and even controlling tendencies on behalf of both parties is to be looked out for especially since things can get quite out of hand in this house.

Lilith in the 9th house overlay: A huge appetite for one another can exist here due to the nature of this house! You both can find that you’ve either met whilst away from home or share vastly different backgrounds! The sexual energy can be very pronounced especially when vacationing or out in the wilderness. There is a very free and youthful energy about this connection and both of you can feel In the clouds when together albeit lacking in restraint. The sex is often bountiful and fun! It can easily be come over indulged though so once more practice a bit of restraint from time to time.

Lilith in the 10th house overlay: There is a pronounced earthiness here but a very somber and even heavy energy. The intimacy here is very serious but reliable! The display of sexual desire is often very aloof and cold but deeply secure and even tender in some ways. There is still a emotional side to this but often in brief displays here in there. Both parties can feel the need to hide pieces of themselves from the other in the beginning as to shield themselves of the connection but once they surrender they’ll open there world to a deep and depth filled romance! Sex is often domination themed and extremely erotic.

Lilith in the 11th house overlay: There is often a wild theme here, the energies flow disharmoniously like an overflowing electric current. Both parties can be magnetically drawn to each other but partake in a game of tag your it as far as intimacy goes! It can seem like they’re endlessly provoking one another and getting of on the idea that they can’t immediately satisfy those desires. The whole thing is like a game, yet there is a lot of sexual respect and freedom here where both are open to whatever the desires of the other are! Sexually they’re like kids in a laboratory! They endlessly explore one another’s bodies never tiring.

Lilith in the 12th house overlay: There is a spiritual intertwine here, like two endlessly dancing fishes gently buzzing noses as they twist and squirm across the cool sea. These two have dreams about each other a lot and may even fantasize about fucking a million times before it ever happens! Truth is they’ve met before in another life and carried that intense sexual chemistry over into this life. They crave each other indefinitely but may always feel like the other is out of reach! It’s long wait but it always seems to fade away into nothing the moment they’re in bed.

in a reading, if you have mostly…

…WANDS 🔥

conditions are primarily in the realm of thought

situation is in the very early stages of development 

you are being provided insight into the core of who you are 

they represent intention and consciousness 

you are being inspired to take action 

element: fire 

key words: ideas, growth, ambition, expansion

…CUPS 🌊

conditions are primarily felt in the realm of emotion or spirit 

you need to pay attention to your intuition for this situation 

thoughts and feelings are blending together 

things may not be manifesting outwardly yet 

element: water 

key words: emotion, desire, inner experience, spirit

…SWORDS ⚔️

conditions are in the realm of action 

there is a lot of activity, acceleration, and/or agitation 

associated with power and conflict 

you’re in the last stages of effort and/or difficulty before the final result 

swords do have a double edge - be cognizant of your thoughts/ambitions/actions 

element: air 

key words: action, movement, struggle, keenness 

…PENTACLES 🏅

conditions are taking form, you’re in the realm of manifestation 

dealing with the physical plane of life 

situations surrounding work, health, finances, material possessions 

you are being presented with the end result - what’s come to fruition 

element: earth 

venus in aries: don’t be clingy

venus in taurus: don’t be unfaithful to me

venus in gemini: don’t bore me

venus in cancer: don’t hurt me

venus in leo: don’t bring me down

venus in virgo: don’t embarrass me

venus in libra: don’t ignore me

venus in scorpio: don’t betray me

venus in sagittarius: don’t fence me in

venus in capricorn: don’t disrespect me

venus in aquarius: don’t control me