The Species' Perspective

Where cars are parked orderly and in reverse

Where fruits can be cubes

Where people keep left

And lamps have different brightness for double beds

People queue up in lines

Applies to stickers too

Where what you get is the same as the poster

you get waved goodbye..?

Relieving both mind and body

Yup.

Smooth train operator

No embarrassing knocking or barging into rooms to check out if they are occupied

When you need an extra hand

For the selfiestas

Brolly holders

Because normal manhole covers are too mainstream

Think diagonal

And anytime u need to soak your feet

Where you raise responsible adults, not brats

And luggage is organised in color codes

When you need help after the condom broke

Instant sanitary gratification

Why they are so welcome at football matches

Where water is that clean in the drains

Nuff said

Dear guys (and girls, I’m not going to be exclusive here), sometimes you need to learn to take ‘no’ for an answer. Not everyone who is single wants to date, and – sorry, but someone has to say it- not everyone you meet is going to be interested in you. It’s most likely nothing personal. Even if it is, you should respect that rejection no matter how much it might hurt. If a girl isn’t interested, it’s not the end of the world.

Rejection can hurt even more when there’ve been mixed signals. Sometimes a girl’s behavior can be flirty without her even realizing it, or she may be in the market for a different type of relationship than you’re asking her for.  If you’re confused, don’t worry; plenty of others are in the same boat. For all anyone knows, the girls who don’t want a relationship may be just as confused as you are.

Luckily, I can help provide some insight. I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum between wanting a boyfriend in the worst way and never wanting to see a man ever again. I’ve been rejected, and I’ve rejected others for a variety of reasons. Nine times out of ten, it’s nothing personal and the two of us have moved on and been just fine. Sometimes, though, there’s that one person that just can’t let it go. It’s not an easy thing to reject somebody, especially for the second or third time, but the hardest part about being pursued after an attempted rejection is the lack of respect that can develop between the two parties.

Oftentimes, respect comes out of understanding. Especially if there’s been mixed messages in the past, it can be tough to understand why a girl may not want a relationship. There could be a lot gong on in her life, or she may just prefer the life of a bachelorette. Here are seven reasons why some girls don’t want a relationship.

1. They’re Prioritizing Other Aspects Of Their Life

Relationships can be time consuming and energy draining. Some ladies need their time and energy to focus on something, like her career or a passion project…

Most of how our lives unfold is determined by the actions we take. For people pleasers, their nightmares are often created by the actions they don’t take. So, if action is the simple answer, then why is people pleasing still being practiced today? Because most of our decision-making is determined by the urges we possess. If you identify as a people pleaser, you may have grown up in a household where conflict drove most of your decisions. As a result, you’ve developed a strong urge to relieve others’ discomfort around you, even if it often places you in a position of discomfort. So, how can we break free from these self-destructive habits? Psych2Go shares with you 7 ways that can help you stop being people pleaser:

1. Express your individuality.

Your parents may not have been the most supportive people in regards to nourishing your individuality, but there are people out there who do respect your opinions for what they are, regardless if they agree or disagree…