the thing about being "good with kids" is all it takes is literally just not trying to control and mould them with every interaction. it's just being a normal person and engaging with them through normal interactions like having conversations and playing games. it's just being genuine and friendly and not perceiving them as lumps of wet clay you are there to shape. "oh you're so good with kids" thanks it's because I think they are people

god's weakest soldier is scrolling tumblr instead of being productive or participating in any of their hobbies

this too shall pass but the fuck was that for

this isn’t a “blog” we are having tea together. do you take sugar

alright im done put me in the heart locket

my hips don't lie but they will exaggerate details, misrepresent the facts, and on occasion deceive via omission of crucial information

Hate the stomach's occasional tendency to respond to hunger with nausea. Like babygirl you are NOT helping your case right now by threatening to push the emergency "eject all food now" button!!!

I love thinking I'm a hater and then meeting a real hater and going wow that does not look fun actually. Going back to my lukewarm hater ways. Performative haterdom. I couldn't name five hater bands.

tiktok self-censorship is bad all around, but shit like “unalive” and “sewerslide” piss me off so much more because we already have so many euphemisms for death and suicide. “passed away” “no longer with us” “left us” are all common euphemisms for death. if you want to be harsher you can say “kicked the bucket” or “they’re six feet under”. for suicide there’s “took/ended their own life”. not only are all of these familiar in everyday language, they’re also way more respectful than meme-speak. i hate this shit so much.

ok I endured it. now what!!!!!!!!!

“freedom of speech is under attack by the libs because a single fascist debater who had been speaking freely for 12+ years was assassinated yesterday. don’t think too hard about us redacting much of American history from the museums or threatening to hold back funding from the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children if they didn’t remove parts of their website discussing LGBTQ issues effecting children and edit their articles to deadname missing trans children.”

just saw a Reddit post from a woman who had a memorial tattoo dedicated to her childhood friend turned high school sweetheart who died unexpectedly at the age of 20. her new boyfriend said that it’s weird and makes him feel “disrespected” and makes him feel like she’s not over her ex and suggested she should get it removed. the top comment said “it’s fine that it bothers him but he shouldn’t demand you remove it” I just want to say no, it’s not fine that it bothers him and if you find yourself jealous of your new girlfriend’s dead longterm boyfriend, you should get a fucking grip. got beef with a dead kid? mad that your girlfriend still thinks about her prom date who died a tragic premature death? loserrrrrr.

The expectation that you will refer to a trans person by their preferred pronouns and name is not them ‘forcing you to accept them’ it is basic respect. You don’t have to like trans people, you don’t have to ‘believe’ our identities or whatever. You do have an obligation to treat us like people, though. If you had a 40 something cis male coworker named Bill and you repeatedly, pointedly and aggressively called him ‘Shirley’ and exclusively used she/her pronouns to refer to him, that would be a major HR problem. It is not persecution to have to show basic human decency.

no i don’t hold onto resentment ever. Hope they die though however