practice what redpill spaces call hypergamy, what pinkpill spaces call the "sprinkle sprinkle mindset", and what rappers call gold-digging. there's many words for it, but the principle is the same: they do not date for love, but rather because they want someone to provide material goods for them. when choosing their partners, they prioritize partners who are able to provide them with the most material things: gifts, paid bills, food, shelter, vacations, etc. when they brag about their cis male partners, they often brag about the spoils their cis male partners provide to them. this makes them have far more in common with straight women than with actual gay men.
refuse to unlearn their female socialization, as they directly benefit from it when it comes to dating cis men. they take the role of Diet Woman in their relationships, acting as a compliant passenger princess who cooks, cleans and sucks dick. they won't pay for dates nor plan them, that's the Real Man's responsibility.
have an overwhelmingly negative view of their fellow trans men, which is encouraged by their partners. trans men don't satisfy them because they see other trans men as whiny, helpless, fembrained little children who can't fend for themselves. often they lambast their previous trans partners for factors beyond their control and factors that overwhelmingly affect trans men, such as low income and poor mental health. they do not see us as equals, why should we?
date trans men to fulfill a fetish. a Girl Who's One Of The Boys. a Bro With A Hole. all the coolness of your guy friends, but you can still get her "him" pregnant! they will seldom date trans men who have had bottom surgery; they're reluctant to even date trans men who are on HRT.
date trans men because they're easier to impress with material goods. as mentioned before, trans men usually don't have the best financial background and are easy to woo with luxurious gifts.
do not truly see trans men as their equals, and thus will never encourage their trans partner to man up, or lend their knowledge as cis men to help their trans partners actually pass. they fully embrace the Diet Woman performance their trans partners put on for them, because deep down that's how they see their partners.
oftentimes go into relationships with trans men with the sole purpose of getting them to detransition.
will never fully be able to understand the trans experience, as they have not lived it.
date for love and companionship rather than dating depending on how their partner can provide for them. when they praise their partners, they praise the unique qualities their partners have that make them so special, not just what their partners are able to do for them.
care about more than just material things.
do not treat their partners as a burden for factors beyond their control.
are more capable of being real men, because they do not have to hold onto their female socialization to please their partners.
are the only ones who truly have solidarity with their fellow trans men. unlike t4c trans men, they wouldn't turn one of their own men in to the Gestapo for the chance to suck the cock of a cis male dressed in uniform.
see their partners as equals and not a vessel to fulfill a fetish.
will never make their partner detransition to satisfy themselves.
are the only partners you will ever have who will ever fully understand your lived experience as a trans man.
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