Cishet Bullshit™

fuck dude idk

Pansexuals have uncontrollable sex drives, Google told me so.

gender and sex are the same thing, Google told me so

Also that literally doesn’t mention them having uncontrollable sex drives, it says that they don’t limit themselves in who they like based on gender, sex, etc. No where does it state anything about their sex drive.

Also that doesn’t say gender and sex are the same, it says someone’s who’s GENDER doesn’t align with their SEX. Which, in fact, is the exact opposite of what you are claiming it says.

And yes, bi means “two”, where is the shock?

Also these definitions of asexual are the exact definitions used by the people of this site. “Someone who doesn’t experience sexual attraction”. This definition can also be found on websites that are ENTIRELY dedicated to sexuality and related topics. I’m not sure what YOU think it means but by general consensus this is the correct definition.

At least you tried though.

Translation: They are attracted to more than one gender and/or sex and open to being with men, women, or otherwise.

Sexual choice means sexual preference or in a more common term, someone’s sexuality. It means that they aren’t restricted to any specific sexual preference or that their sexuality doesn’t restrict them by gender or sex. They have more than one option and aren’t confined to choosing just one or the other and gender/sexuality doesn’t factor into the choice.

Reposting this because TERFs were being shit to someone over the old list.

The flags for some of them can be found here [Link]

Systemgender: A gender which is defined as a sum of all the genders within a multiple or median system.

A nonbinary gender experienced by members of a multiple and/or median system. Other systems can also come up with names. (i.e. headmates all have different nonbinary genders but are looking for something to describe the gender of the system as a whole.)

Note: only for those in multiple and/or median systems.

Systemfluid: Genders that change depending on who’s fronting, for DID/multiples.

Illusogender: When you know you’re a certain gender, but there’s still the feeling of ‘fakeness’ there, either due to neurodivergency and/or due to outside pressure from parents, society, etc. These feelings and/or pressures can be part of the gender experience. (It’s illusogender, just to make things clear because apparently capitalized i looks the same as lower case L here)

Vaguegender or Gendervague: A gender being mostly or around a certain gender (or mostly around a certain gender), but is only approximate on account of difficulty defining it due to one’s neurodivergence.

Pendogender: “Never being satisfied with your gender no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better. Gender perfectionism.

This term is exclusive to neurodivergent people only, specifically coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind.

Xumgender: Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible–to find “the gender” or “the one truth”–though one will never be found due to one’s neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual.

Narkissisgender or Narkissigender: An egotistical gender, viewing itself in a high position and wanting and/or needing praise. Should only be used by those who have narcissistic personality disorder. Can be combined with relevant genders (boy, girl, xirl, boi, nonbinary, enby, nb, etc).

Corugender or Flashgender: A gender identity that changes during and around flashbacks. For use by people with PTSD or other mental illnesses causing flashbacks only.

Commogender: When you know you aren’t cis, but you settle with boy or girl for the time being.

or

A feeling that one is definitely not cis, but is unable to define what their gender is due to mental exhaustion. May be used as commoboy/commogirl if the person identifies with a binary gender for convenience.

Cyclogender:

1) A gender identity that changes with one’s menstrual cycle.

2) Describes a bipolar person whose gender identity is tied to what type of episode (manic, hypomanic, depressive, mixed, etc.) they are experiencing at that moment.

Cloudgender: A gender which can’t be fully realized or seen clearly due to depersonalization/ derealization disorder. A Neurodivergent gender.

Caedogender or Caedgender: A gender which has been “cut away” by a traumatic event.

Bordergender, or Borderfluid: A fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender one keeps questioning because one keeps second guessing one’s sense of self and, consequentially, one’s sense of gender.

Autigender: A gender which can only be understood in the context of being autistic.

Fascigender: A gender experience largely related to a special interest; for autistic folk.

Affectugender: A gender that is affected by one’s neurodivergency especially fluctuating moods, e.g. feeling like a boy during depressive episodes and feeling more like a demigirl during happy episodes. Note: for people with mood disorders and personality disorders only. From the latin affectus (to feel).

Angegender: A gender where you can’t describe it with any word but hatred or anger. Usable only by neurodivergent people with mental illnesses that cause anger or hate.

C-Gender, O-Gender, and OC-Gender: A set of gender identities that are heavily influenced or defined by one’s OCD. The variations describe a feeling that one’s gender is influenced or defined by obsessions only (O-Gender), by compulsions only (C-Gender), or by both obsessions and compulsions (OC-Gender).

Cavusgender: For people with depression. You feel one gender when not depressed and another when depressed. The gender felt whilst depressed can be attached as a suffix (eg cavusboy, cavusgirl, cavusnonbinary, cavusace.)

Divigender: A feeling that one’s gender is split or divided due to a dissociative disorder. For neurodivergent people who experience dissociation only.

Foggender: A gender which is close to a certain gender, but cannot be directly pinpointed due to brainfog (a lack of concentration or wakefulness associated with ADHD, fibromyalgia, depression, etc.) Can be combined with relevant genders. See also: Vaguegender.

Genderanxious: A gender that is undefined because the act of finding a label, or of having a gender, is a trigger for anxiety.

Genderdisordered: A gender that is heavily influenced by, or unable to be defined because of disorganized thinking or a thought disorder.

Genderfake: Feeling that your gender is part of your hallucinations or delusions. For people who experience delusions or hallucinations as part of their mental illness or neurodivergence only.

Gendermute: A label for selectively mute people, which describes a gender that can only be expressed at certain times, in safe environments.

Genderwhat: Being unable to understand the concept of gender or of having a gender due to neurodivergence.

Imnigender: A gender defined by anxiety. Not “your gender makes you anxious” so much as “anxiety is your gender”. Note: only to be used by people with anxiety disorders.

Kynigender: A gender which is not able to be pinpointed due to the stress of the questioning process causing anxiety. See also: Anxiegender, Genderanxious, Imnigender.

Lipsigender: A gender which, when thought about, triggers bouts of depression. From greek “katathlipsi” meaning depression. For use only by those with depression/depressive disorders.

Ludogender: A gender which has a core, but the individual mirrors (copies) the genders of other individuals. A neurodivergent only gender.

Maestusgender: In which the individual’s brain chemical imbalance obscures, masks, or otherwise distorts their self perception and stunts their ability to determine gender identity. This term is exclusive to neurodivergent people.

Malagender: A gender which is created or influenced by maladaptive daydreaming or fantasy prone personalities. For example a malagender person might feel male usually but their gender may feel more nonbinary during a maladaptive daydreaming episode. A gender specific to people who experience maladaptive daydreaming due to a neurodivergence such as: schizotypal personality disorder, schizoid personality disorder, schizophrenia or similar.

Mimicnull: A gender that is purely mimicry and reaction to outside stimuli. You have no real baseline gender, just an absence where your gender would be. (Designed for neurodivergent folks but anyone can use it).

Monstergender: Someone who has a weak or even no sense of gender with feelings of inhumanity replacing the missing sense of gender identity. Mostly intended for neurodivergent people.

Nesciogender or Nesciōgender: A gender one is not completely sure of due to one’s neurotype disallowing a clear understanding of the concept, but has a vague sense of what it could be; i.e. nescioboy, nescioagender, etc. Latin nesciō “I do not know”

Nōlōgender: A term for neurodivergent people who have difficulty grasping the concept of gender. Distinct from nesciōgender in that the individual has no particular desire to investigate their gender, as doing so is overly difficult due to their inability to understand the concept of gender. From latin nōlō, ((i) do not want).

Posigender and Negagender: A feeling that one’s gender is defined by or influenced by positive (posigender) or negative (negagender) symptoms of their schizophrenia.

Skhizeingender: A gender that is strongly connected to schizophrenia, or having a gender that is difficult to describe or communicate because of being schizophrenic. This term is exclusive to individuals with schizophrenia or schizophrenia related symptoms. Pronounced: sk-heez-ein-gender

Technogender: Only comfortable with one’s gender when using technology/online, usually because of social anxiety (Specialized for people with anxiety disorders).

Traumatgender , Traumatagender, Trautgender or Trauatgender: A gender that varies; it can change a lot, it could be unknown, it could just be there, it could be nonexistent, etc. whatever it is, it was based from intense trauma. should only be used by those who have experienced or are going through what they consider intense trauma. Derived from the word “trauma”

Virgender: A gender identity that feels weakened by stress, to the point where one is nearly genderless. Based on the zodiac sign Virgo.