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… when she needs it…

... I'm finally alone, too...

... so...

Sorry... but calling bullshit on this.

And that goes for both men and women. I will not make this bias towards one gender, as it happens both ways.

YOU have the power. You should ALWAYS have the power.

Free choice. The power to be who you are, and who you want to be.

Why would you give that to someone else? Why would you let them have it, or take it?

If you GIVE AWAY that power... and LET them change you... that's on you.

I know.

Because I've been there too.

You know what I don't do?

Blame women.

I blamed her. SHE did it to me... and I let it happen.

So I changed the situation.

I learned from that experience.

I moved on.

I don't let it define me.

I don't let it interfere with all the other amazing relationships I've had with the women in my life.

I sincerely hope anyone else that has experienced this situation can do the same.

My 2 cents spent.

… just you…