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i truly think i found my person and the feeling of knowing that i am truly loved is such a new feeling.

as a daughter i know i shouldn't go over all the time but at least i should go and show face once in a while and kind of get to know them and so i won't be a total stranger to them when the day comes.

like i get that it won't be "good" but that was back in the day when it was a impolite thing to do but now in this modern day, its different. in fact they invited me to come to join them. even if it's not a HUGE event, it's still good to show face even at small events.

i can't be known as the future daugher-in-law who never showed up to family events in the past, i don't want that title on me.

short story, so my bf’s ex accused him of cheating during their relationship and he even explained to her that he didn’t, he was mainly working and going to college at the time so he didn’t have time to talk to other girls. he stayed loyal but she just kept accusing him of cheating and other things. they came to a agreement to break it off but she was the one that ended up crying (frm what i heard). my bf was over it bc he had to deal with her negative abusive ass for 2 years.

anyways, a few days ago she send him a video of this couple getting into a fight bc one cheated on the other was caught, the person was begging and asking to stay and not break up.

so how my bf saw it (he showed me the video too) she was still being petty about it after not talking or seeing each other for 4 years.

i told him to not text her and just block her bc there’s no point but he was like “no i have to put her in her place because if she wanna be petty and accuse me of something that i didn’t do 4 years ago, imma be petty back.”

i understood why he did what he did but as his current gf i don’t like it, yes it’s a jealousy thing but it’s also a sign of respect for me if asked him to just block the person and not text them back.

he did show me what he texted and what she texted back so i know and am aware of the situation but still, it bugs me. i’m over it but not really over it yk? anyways rant over.

MY MAIN ISSUE is the amount of ppl complaining that the dance was too “inappropriate” for Eunchae.😒 like what?? i watched the performance and to me, yes there was some booty shaking but it wasn’t like the choreo had them doing anything more obscure, literally just some booty shaking and body rolls.

i guess the main issue (according to netizens) is bc Eunchae is underage and is dancing “inappropriately” BUT really it’s just people who are sexualizing it. it won’t be a huge problem if a underage male idol was dancing “inappropriately”, he will be praised as “hot” or “sexy”. like bro made that make sense.

i know many ppl will agree with my statement that it wasn’t inappropriate, and that people just sexualize too many things 🙄

AND honestly for any afro-beat song you have to dance “sexy” ain’t no way ur gonna do a whole difference dance to that type of beat. (even tho it maybe possible)