don’t allow ur insecurities to create ur reality. no one is “too good” for you. Nothing is “too far” and everything you imagined yourself doing as a child is within reach. that’s the secret difference between your adult self and your child self; your child self doesn’t allow insecurities to dictate their day. everything can happen for you if you work for it. anyone can be yours if you allow your true love to shine from your heart. The world is here for the experiencing.

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at least we met

id love for someone to please explain to me how i ended up terrified of any kind of intimacy while craving it constantly all at the same time

Yikes

yo that gif has me dead

Oh this explains a lot.. wow

i love my solitude but i was meant to be a lover

you are under no obligation to remain the same person you were a year ago, a month ago, or even a day ago. you are here to create yourself, continuously.

open and raw communication with your partner may be uncomfortable and feel so ugly and vulnerable but it solves soo many problems in the end

The idea that was sold to us of "love is effortless and you should communicate telepathically with your partner" is false. Love is awkward as hell. It's A LOT of straight up talking and realization of your self - your own needs. It's important to make those needs heard. Do not deny yourself full love

that idea robs us of so much intimacy, the intimacy that comes with honesty and vulnerability and being known.

You’re better off being alone than being with someone who makes you feel alone.

It really freaks me the hell out that some people are just out there not in any pain what so ever. What is that even like? How do you even know you’re real? You look just like me and yet on the inside you’re fine? No random pains or aches or stabbing sensations?

me (an adult): yeah I’m thinking about running away