The LaDS men with a girlfriend that has a lot of anxiety about possibly being cheated on? ๐๐
lads boys with a girlfriend that has anxiety about being cheated on
a/n - aww sweetie i hope this isn't coming from a place of experience because nobody deserves that! we all deserve to find someone who will be undeniably faithful and loving. thank you for your request i hope you enjoy it!
xavier
โ if you need reassurance every day for a month, he'll give it every day for a month without making you feel guilty.
โ his reassurances are incredibly verbal. he tells you exactly how he feels instead of expecting you to "just know."
โ he's the type to randomly say, "i love you," while you're doing completely mundane things because he likes reminding you.
โ he likes making future plans out loud because they're another way of saying, i'm still here
โ "we should go there next winter." "you'll love this restaurant." "let's watch that together tomorrow."
โ he also loves quiet physical affection. holding hands under blankets, resting his forehead against yours but his words do most of the heavy lifting.
โ he thinks hearing "i choose you" should never become rare just because you're already together.
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your voice came out barely above a whisper, "i'm scared you'll cheat on me one day."
the words had been sitting on the tip of your tongue all evening. you hated them. you hated how ridiculous they sounded. but they refused to leave.
xavier looked up from where he was sitting beside you on the couch, immediately giving you his full attention. he waited patiently. never rushing you to fill the silence.
"i know it doesn't make sense," you rushed out. "you've never given me a reason to think that. i just...sometimes i convince myself you'll realize i'm not enough."
you finally dared to look at him. there wasn't even a hint of annoyance on his face. only sadness that you'd been carrying that fear alone.
he reached for your hand, threading his fingers through yours. he was quiet for a moment before smiling softly.
"you know what i did this morning?"
you blinked through the tears in your eyes, "what?"
"i walked past that little bakery you like. they had strawberry pastries. i bought two."
you couldn't help the tiny smile tugging at your lips.
"when i found that movie yesterday, i saved it because i wanted to watch it with you."
another gentle squeeze of your hand. "when i was looking online last night..."
he glanced at you. "i found a house with a porch and a yard. it gets morning sunlight. i thought your plants would like it."
your breath caught but his voice was so calm, so certain.
"i don't spend my days wondering who else might make me happier. i spend them thinking about things i'd like to do with you."
another tear slipped down your cheek. "but what if one dayโ"
"there isn't one."
he moved his free hand to wipe the stray tear that made its way softly down your cheek.
"i love you. i'm faithful to you and i'm staying."
zayne
โ he notices your anxiety long before you ever mention it. he doesn't confront you right away because he wants to make sure he isn't assuming your feelings.
โ when you finally confess you're afraid he'll cheat, he goes very still. not because he's uncomfortableโbut because he refuses to answer carelessly. he chooses every sentence with precision, almost like he's handling something fragile.
โ he never calls your fears irrational. instead, he asks what experiences taught you to expect betrayal.
โ if you need space he gives it but if he notices your hesitation, he asks "would reassurance help right now?"
โ he remembers your answers. in the next few weeks he'll quietly adjust little habits without announcing it. if he's running late, he'll text. if someone flirts with him, he'll naturally make it obvious he's taken.
โ he's never performative about loyalty. it's simply woven into how he lives. reassurance doesn't come naturally to him, but consistency does.
โ even though sometimes he isn't the best at expressing his feeling through words, if you need to hear "i love you" ten times because anxiety is loud today, he'll say it eleven times.
โ the first time you apologize for 'being too much', his expression hardens just a little and he says "needing comfort from your partner is not an inconvenience."
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"can i ask you something?"
zayne looked up from the book resting in his lap. "always."
you gave a weak laugh before looking down at your hands.
"do you ever think you'd...find someone else?"
he closed his book, setting it neatly on the coffee table before turning his full attention toward you.
"what makes you ask that?"
"it's stupid."
"i didn't ask if it was."
you swallowed, "i just...sometimes i think you'll wake up one day and realize someone else is prettier or easier."
his brows pulled together ever so slightly. not in annoyance. in concern.
"you've been thinking that alone?"
your eyes stung, "yeah."
he reached over, carefully taking your hand as though asking permission first.
"i can't promise your anxiety will believe me immediately."
his thumb brushed across your knuckles, "but i can promise that i have never looked for someone else."
"i chose you. i continue choosing you. and if your mind forgets tomorrow..."
a faint smile tugged at his lips, "i'll remind it tomorrow."
rafayel
โ his first reaction is pure disbelief. he's so dramatically offended that for exactly three seconds you think he's upset.
โ then when he realizes you're genuinely scared, his entire demeanor changes immediately.
โ he cups your face before you can apologize. he asks where this fear came from instead of arguing against it. after learning it's rooted in past hurt, he becomes incredibly gentle.
โ he starts casually updating you throughout the day by narrating through voice notes. "look! i saw a cat. it reminded me of you because it ignored me."
โ he'll absolutely start saying things like, "come with me," whenever he goes somewhere, just because he loves having you around.
โ he'll dramatically hold your face in both hands and say, "you know I'm obsessed with you, right?"
โ he becomes shamelessly clingy afterward, not because he's worried you'll leave, but because he wants you to feel how much he enjoys being close to you.
โ if he catches someone flirting with him, he'll immediately find you in the room and throw an arm around your shoulders with the biggest grin, almost like he's saying, mine. see? you're mine.
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"you think i'd cheat?"
you immediately regretted saying anything.
"i'm sorry, forget iโ"
"no." he gently held your wrist before you could stand. "come here."
his voice had completely lost its usual teasing edge. you looked at him cautiously.
he sighed dramatically, "my love..."
he leaned forward until your foreheads touched.
"i get jealous when your attention is on a book for too long."
a tiny laugh escaped you.
"do you honestly think i'd go looking for someone else?"
"i don't know."
the honesty broke his heart. his fingers brushed your cheek.
"whoever convinced you love disappears that easily..." he kissed your forehead. "...was wrong."
then your nose. then each cheek.
"i am so embarrassingly obsessed with you."
you laughed through your tears.
"there it is. there's my favorite smile."
sylus
โ sylus never dismisses fear, even when he thinks it's unfounded. he just isn't used to seeing that from you. he encourages honesty, even when it's uncomfortable. he'd much rather hear an irrational fear than have you silently suffer.
โ he wants to understand the root before addressing the symptoms. he asks thoughtful questions โ what started this? what does cheating mean to you? what would reassure you right now?
โ he listens without interrupting. once he understands, he's incredibly direct. he doesn't make impossible promises. he simply tells you the truth.
โ his confidence is strangely calming. and over time that confidence starts rubbing off on you. you find yourself borrowing his certainty when your own is shaky
โ he treats the anxiety as something the two of you are facing together instead of something you have to fix alone.
โ he isn't overly sentimental, but he's fiercely intentional. if he says, "i am yours," it's because he means every word.
โ if you're having a particularly bad day, he'll quietly cancel less important plans without making you feel guilty, because to him, taking care of his partner isn't an obligationโit's simply where he'd rather be.
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"you've been watching me."
you blinked suddenly feeling exposed, "have i?"
"for three days."
your cheeks flushed from embarassment, "i wasn't...it's not."
he reached over and took your hand, "what happened?"
you hesitated trying to find your voice. "i'm scared you'll cheat."
he was quiet. not because he'd run out of words. because he wanted yours first.
"what made you believe that was possible?"
so you talked. for nearly twenty minutes. he never interrupted.
when you finally finished, he nodded once, "i understand why your mind went there."
he lifted your joined hands, "i disagree with it."
his thumb brushed slowly across your skin.
"i don't divide my attention. if i choose someone..." his eyes met yours, "i choose completely."
then, after a beat, his expression softened just enough to betray the tenderness beneath all that composure.
"so next time your thoughts decide they're smarter than reality..." he brought your hand to his lips. "tell me...we'll argue with them together."
caleb
โ caleb doesn't let conversations like this happen from opposite ends of the room. the second he realizes you're hurting, he's already pulling you into a hug.
โ his love language is touch โ back rubs, hair strokes, forehead kisses, holding your hand while you talk.
โ he doesn't interrupt. doesn't rush to solve it. just lets you cry if you need to.
โ he's incredibly validating. he treats reassurance like teamwork. "okay, what's your brain telling you today? let's hear it."
โ once you've calmed down, he starts making you laugh again. he wants the conversation to end with warmth rather than tears.
โ he has absolutely no shame about comforting you in the silliest ways if it gets you to smile again.
โ if your thoughts are spiraling particularly bad one day, he'll distract you by pulling you into the kitchen to bake cookies at midnight or insisting on building a blanket fort together.
โ he loves saying, "we've got time." as in, we don't have to solve this right nowโyou don't have to rush through your feelings.
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"you've been quiet all night."
you kept your face straight, fighting back a frown. "i'm fine."
he opened one arm and you walked into it without thinking. within seconds you were wrapped against his chest.
"you know," he murmured. "i've learned that 'i'm fine' usually means the opposite."
you laughed weakly, "i'm scared."
his hand slowed on your back, "of what?"
"...that you'll cheat."
he held you tighter. not enough to trap you. just enough that you could feel every steady heartbeat beneath his hoodie.
"oh, sweetheart."
he rested his chin on top of your head.
"i'm so sorry someone taught you that love feels temporary."
his hand rubbed lazy circles across your back.
"you don't have to be scared by yourself anymore."
you stayed like that for nearly an hour. neither of you in any hurry to move.
valko
โ valko is almost confused by the idea that he'd leave you. not offendedโjust genuinely unable to imagine it.
โ in his mind, faithfulness isn't something he actively tries to do. it simply is.
โ to him, you're his mate. that isn't something temporary or casual. he believes choosing a mate is choosing a life.
โ family means everything to him. he loves talking about the family you'll build together somedayโnot as pressure, just because imagining that future with you makes him happy.
โ he reassures through constant affection. passing by you? kiss on the head. sitting together? you're somehow already tucked against his side. walking through the house? he'll hook a finger through one of your belt loops just to steal you away for a hug.
โ he's playful even during serious conversations because making you smile is one of his favorite ways to comfort you.
โ he absolutely calls you ridiculous pet names in the middle of reassurance just to hear you huff. "my little worrier." "sweetheart." "my heart."
โ if you're crying, he'll wipe away your tears with exaggerated seriousness before immediately booping your nose to make you smile.
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"you think i'd leave my mate?"
you shrank a little, "it sounds silly when you say it."
valko sat up on the couch and opened his arms.
"c'mere."
the second you settled against him, he wrapped himself around you like he'd been waiting all day to do it. one kiss landed on your temple. then several more.
"you know what i think?"
"hm?"
"i think you have been thinking too much."
a small smile tugged at your lips. he noticed immediately. he gently nudged your nose with his own.
"i don't look at you and think about someone else."
"i look at you..." he smiled so warmly it almost hurt. "and i wonder what our home will look like. whether our children get your smile."
you stared at him, "you think about that?"
"every day."
he laughed gently and lovingly, "you're my mate. my family. the person i want beside me when i'm eighty and grumpy."
he reached up, brushing away a tear with his thumb.
"so no. i won't leave. that would require leaving part of myself behind."
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