How to become the person you want to be
In order to BE the person you want to be, you have to actually KNOW who you want to be.
It’s hard to be something or even achieve something without a clear vision. The idea is very simple. I’m all about alignment.
Beliefs lead to thoughts, which leads to words, which leads to actions, which leads to accomplishments.
Having a goal for the year, allows you to create monthly, weekly and daily goals that are in alignment with your BIG goal.
Knowing your BIG goal helps you be in movement towards it. So who is this person you envision? The idea is to be specific. You have to spend time with yourself figuring this out. How do you want to show up in the world? How will your THOUGHTS and ACTIONS be in alignment with that goal?
Don’t get so caught up in the idea and in the vision, that you actually aren’t BE-ing. Being the person you want to be is SO SO much more than your actions.
Your whole being has to shift.
Your beliefs about yourself have to shift.
Your thoughts have to shift.
Change happens in the mind before it happens on the physical plane.
You can’t want to be a loving person, perform a few good acts, but believe that people are evil and treat yourself badly, you know? You have to actually BECOME that. It’s a process and it’s a DECISION. It’s a CHOICE. Choosing to be loving means LOVING yourself FIRST. Choosing to be loving means shifting your beliefs and actually believing and knowing you’re lovable and worthy. Eventually, you become lovable and you are a source of love. You begin to really encompass it. It’s about taking RESPONSE-ABILITY. RECOGNIZING YOUR ABILITY TO RESPOND TO A SITUATION IN A WAY THAT REPRESENTS AND ALIGNS WITH YOUR VISION.
I’m very big on changing your mindset before you even BEGIN to take action. If our thoughts are confused, our emotions full of doubt, and our actions contradict our thoughts, we are sending life mixed signals.You have to be in alignment.
So my ultimate advice is—GET CLEAR. Get clear. And make the decision to be this person. You can have the vision, but if you don’t CHOOSE and actually follow through with your vision, the vision is merely a wish. Merely a dream. She can do it.