Everything I Need To Say

I’ve spent most of my life and most of my friendships holding my breath and hoping that when people get close enough they won’t leave, and fearing that it’s a matter of time before they figure me out and go.

“being in your arms was the first time in a long while where i felt at home.”

The first step of breaking the cycle of loving too much is to pour all that nurturing, compassionate energy into yourself. When you form a genuine relationship with yourself . . . you find that the answer, that love, as an archetype, doesn’t exist outside of you. It never has. It’s always been within. You are love. And when you realize and stand fiercely in that truth, you’ll find emotionally unavailable partners aren’t able to give you the love and affection you deserve and you’ll stop being attracted to them.

“Getting attached to someone is realy scary. They can leave anytime, and the pain you feel is almost unbearable.”

“I know I’m scared of commitment but tell me who isn’t, I know, it’s easier being alone”