The Life Of A Mortal

Remember that if a girl thinks you’re “just a friend”, you should not only assume she’s an idiot for passing you up (I mean, you’re a 10!), but insult any guy she does happen to date (I mean, he’s probably an alcoholic jerk, right?). Don’t consider the other possibilities of why she isn’t dating you. Don’t consider the fact that the other guy might actually be more of her type. Don’t consider that maybe the other guy pursued a relationship and made his romantic intentions clear instead of just assuming “Well, I’m friends with a girl so she should know I’m interested”.

Friendships with girls is by no means bad. It's something very good. But as we all know (and possibly deny) we seek connection with people from the other gender as to find a partner. The thing so called friendzone is not actually the girl's fault that much, but is very ridiculous indeed. The picture up above explains it in one way. The other way is that you have to play your cards correctly. If you are always that nice towards people - you are sure to get friendzoned. Instead, you have to actively show the other person you are interested in him/her and stick with it. The problem being, friendship doesn't allow to see the other side of the person (aka datable) so they resort to people who actively show fondness (aka jerks, because jerks don't give a shit and are stubborn as fuck) so this is how things end up. This is NOT how the system is designed to work. And I realise it is not only one person's fault. But please explain me why girls choose total disrespectful assholes, completely opposite of their type and then speak about men as a whole ( All men are jerks! etc)