There's a fundamental difference between "what is love?" and "WHAT IS LOVE"
Through the passage of time the meaning of the first will be lost, but never the second.
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There's a fundamental difference between "what is love?" and "WHAT IS LOVE"
Through the passage of time the meaning of the first will be lost, but never the second.

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What makes life worth living? We spend our lives chasing the pot of gold, but when we get to the end of the rainbow, it's just corn flakes. So, where is the gold?
It's clearly not on the path capitalism tells us to follow. Not a mortgage or a highly lucrative career. We all know that.
The path society tells you to follow is to focus on family and friends. Every movie ever made will tell you that meaningful relationships builds a happy life. But I've spent the last 7 years fostering relationships with people, focusing on healing and happiness, and all I have is corn flakes still. Thousands of dollars in treatment and medical bills, a divorce, a broken-off engagement, 2 sisters I don't talk to anymore, and 3 flaky-ass friends is all I have to show for spending every ounce of my effort and love on family, friends, and healing for the last 7 years. AND I'm broke as hell, barely scraping by at the best of times.
So where's the gold?
"Find joy in the journey", "It's the beauty of the path, not the destination". These seem like wise sayings. Good phrases to live by. And there were good memories made. Memories of joy and love. But at the end of the day, that's all they are. Faded memories. And when the path leads you through cold streams and thorny branches, leaving you battered and bruised and exhausted, those memories fade quickly and are painful to look back on.
It's the big equation everyone comes up with a solution to.
You gotta work your ass off to make good money to live a decent life. Then you gotta work your ass off keeping the people in your life happy and comfortable. And don't forget to eat right and exercise regularly and keep your house clean and fix your car and pay your taxes and go to therapy and get your root canal fixed and buy a new dishwasher and walk the dog. Oh, you're still not happy? You have a beautiful family to come home to (don't forget to cook dinner and do the laundry) and friends you go bowling with every Thursday (did you hear James is going through his second divorce? he needs to get his shit together) and dinner with your parents on Sunday (are you up for a promotion yet?), you're living the dream! What could you possibly be unhappy about? Maybe you need some antidepressants and a self help book. That'll fix you right up. Now slap a smile on and do it all again next week.
Where's the gold?
Mid-Life Crisis. Buy a Lamborghini and take a trip to Fiji. Get a divorce. Find new friends. Move to France. Get a new career. Take up a hobby or three. Go out clubbing. Start drinking. Stop drinking and go to church. Meditate. Do yoga. Watch a funny cat video. Write a book. Lose some weight. Still not happy? Here's some more antidepressants. Go to therapy.
Where's the gold?
Is the gold real? Does it exist? Or are we all just chasing corn flakes?
Everyone has that one friend that texts and 80% of the letters are wrong but because you know them so well, you can read their gibberish.
They'll send you something like "o kyat jad yhe qirat dsy eber" and you're like "Man I'm so sorry to hear that. What happened?" And they're like "nt vst murrena sues 💔" and you're like "oh shit Mittens died??? I'm so sorry bro. Do you wanna grab a drink?"

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(never degraded someone before) you have your mother's cruelty. and your father's cowardice.
*ejaculates*
Are you that lemon-stealing whore?
That would be correct, yes.
You know the feeling right before your arm falls asleep/goes numb where it feels like a million bees are flying around in your arm? And then when you are too comfy to move and your arm goes numb and spicy because you've angered the bees? And then you move off your arm and the bees in your arm get violent and start stinging?
Blood is secretly honey and your nerves are secretly just millions of bees. In this essay I will
I am love’s weakest soldier. I don’t believe in making that shit work. Don’t like their family that they’re super close to? Break up. Don’t like their friends? Break up. Wedding planning drama? Break up or elope. They cheated? IMMEDIATE break up. They’re jealous? Break up. They don’t like your pet? Break up. You hate the squalor of their apartment? You’re not obligated to teach a grown adult how to do basic chores, break up. They keep trying to start arguments? Break up. There is nothing definably wrong with them but you’re not feeling it? Out the door.
I get fighting for your relationship in some of these scenarios if you share assets or are married but if you’re just dating and they’re already making your life worse than it would be if you were single, go be single.
I’ll never care about someone enough to let them make my life purposefully consistently worse. 😌
^^^This. This is what the unhappy couples that will never break up aren't understanding. If your life is worse with them in it, don't be with them. A partner is supposed to be a happy bonus to your life. The frosting on the cupcake.
If the frosting tastes like shit, you scrape it off. If you think you just need to work on the frosting a little more, add some butter or sugar, then do that. But if the frosting has worms in it or it has an entire container of black pepper mixed in, throw it out. Get new frosting. Or enjoy the cupcake just by itself. You don't have to keep eating the nasty frosting.
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This isn't about a city
There is a city with high walls and well trained guards. If you're a merchant that frequently visits the city on business, the guards will first perform routine inspections, but with time they will recognize and welcome you in. Eventually you don't even need to show paperwork and state your intentions, as you are granted VIP status. You bring good business, you've shown yourself to be trustworthy, and the guards know when to expect your arrival.
But if you begin visiting the city less frequently and maybe your trips are not at regular intervals like they used to be, the guards are going to start checking your paperwork again. If you comply, you will be granted access. If your visits become regular again, the inspections will be relaxed and you'll be granted immediate passage once again.
But if you get frustrated with the guards because they're not immediately letting you in after your period of absence, the guards will grow suspicious of your true intentions for visiting the city. Maybe the next time you visit they'll ask to check the contents of your wagon as well as check your papers. It's been several weeks since your last visit, afterall, and you are no longer recognized with VIP status. The guards never know when to expect your arrival, and often you don't bring the same carriage and wares to sell.
And if your visits get more sporadic and infrequent, pretty soon you'll be back to going through the full inspection before passage is allowed. And if you get angry, refusing the inspection, yelling at the guards “You know me! I've been coming here for years! Don't you trust me? This is ridiculous!” They won't let you in at all. They'll deny you entrance and put you on a Restricted List so that next time you plan on coming to the city, you have to pre-file papers to be reviewed before you even start your trip there. And maybe that's too much hassle for you so you stop going to the city, looking for business elsewhere.
But business used to be so good in the city so one day after a few years you show up at the gates, expecting you were removed from the Restricted List due to the passage of time. You state your intentions that you plan on restarting regular frequent business in the city, expecting a warm welcome. But the guards inform you that because of your previous behavior you are still on the Restricted List and must comply with the appropriate process to be allowed to enter the city, and they turn you away. Furious, you begin demanding entrance, citing the many years you did frequent business in the city and how you were granted passage immediately at one point. Screaming at the guards and trying to push past them, you are restrained and imprisoned for the night. In the morning you are released and informed that because of your aggression, you are permanently banned from the city and labeled a Hostile Threat. You are warned that if you attempt to enter the city again, you will be arrested on sight.
It's silly, really, if you had just been understanding of the process and allowed the guards to do their job, you would still be doing business in the city. The security of the city didn't change. Your attitude and conduct is what changed and security simply responded the way they are supposed to. To protect the city.
The guards didn't forget you. Your paperwork wasn't invalid. You weren't smuggling in weapons or assassins. But your resistance to the system that has successfully protected the city for years, your sense of entitlement and disregard for the process that allows the city to have a robust economy for your business to flourish in, is what ultimately led to your banishment and criminal status. The city is a great place to live and do business in BECAUSE of the security measures, not in spite of them.
Neighboring cities with little to no security bring bad business for you, which is why you come to this city to promote and sell your wares. The city will not make exceptions for you because at one point in time you had a good relationship with the city. Relationships must be maintained or they will shrivel. If you had built that relationship back up, your status as a VIP would have been renewed. But because you decided to fight the guards instead, you are no longer welcome.
The city does not hate you. You made yourself a threat and the guards took appropriate action to keep the city safe. You will not be allowed entrance again, even if you apologize. You had every opportunity to respect the city’s boundaries. You chose to become a Hostile Threat. Find a different city to do business in.
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