Every single relationship will get āboringā after youāve been together for ages. Love isnāt a feeling, itās a commitment; to love every day, physically and emotionally. Itās hard afff, itās not always laughs and smiles and fun. People tend to quit when it stops being cute. āOh the spark is gone.ā No, thatās not how it works. You want somebody to never give up on you and love you unconditionally? Do the same. This isnāt Hollywood, this isnāt romantic happy ever after bs. Love someone when you donāt want to, when they are being a fricken asshole. When theyāre being hard to love. Thatās thats the realist shit there is.