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"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
oozey mess
Sweet Seals For You, Always
noise dept.
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open
Monterey Bay Aquarium
Cosmic Funnies
Love Begins
Aqua Utopia｜海の底で記憶を紡ぐ
if i look back, i am lost
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❣ Chile in a Photography ❣
Stranger Things
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Peter Solarz
TVSTRANGERTHINGS
Xuebing Du
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@theell-evatedone
worst part of being an adult is how often youre forced to nag. you Have to be annoying or youre never getting anything done. which is unfortunate considering how common it is to teach kids to never nag and be annoying ever
a professional i am paying money doesnt show up w zero communication and IM the one who has to feel guilty for having to call him and ask whats going on. because when i was a little kid i would get yelled at for nagging. joke world
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"You're just 21" Oh sorry I forgot I was 21 and I can't know anything. Oopsie I'm sorry that I, a 21 year old, spoke over your wise elderly 30 year old self. I'm sorry for thinking I know anything about transmisogyny/racism/ableism, clearly I know nothing about it despite having expeienced it my whole life. I should really be respecting my elders more by not acknowledging transmisogyny or racism or ableism. Ignore the fact that some of the first things I remember being called in my early childhood were faggot, sissy, monkey/ape, [n slur] etc. as I was getting assaulted by soldiers (wise, elderly adults who know more than I do about the world). Oops though I'm not allowed to talk about that because I'm 21. No I know I spent all this time growing up around media that demonized people like me, but someone on twitter said I can't talk about it because some people talked about it a decade ago. I'm just 21. I'm juuuuust 21
This makes me feel like such a boomer, but I hate it how all media has been TikTok-ified and algorithm primed. Songs are shorter, designed for short viral clips rather than a full listening experience. TV shows and movies are sloppier, dragging on and on, assuming you’ll be on your phone and have it only in the background. Even books have been chewed up and spat back out as easily consumable tropes, with bite-sized chapters and mannequins for characters. This late stage capitalism hellscape we’re in has made art into something you snack on rather than savor.
i just think more people should know that rejecting monogamy is not a big to do or something you need to do mountains of research and planning for and not something you need to come out as doing or dedicate a portion of your identity to. i always say things like this and get people in my notes going "AAAGH but the SCHEDULING and COMMITMENT and i don't even KNOW if i'm REALLY poly" but the thing is that you can just choose not to cram your love for others and your understanding of others' love for you into pre-ordained restrictive boxes kind of at any time & very likely be happier for it. yes yes reblog joke about going and cheating on your partner after reading this, very funny you won one free internet etc
I've seen a bunch of "fandom etiquette" posts on my dash today and I'm going to say something that is maybe going to be unpopular but;
The absolutely pervasive mentality that unwanted criticism or critique shouldn't be given and should be ignored is why fans of color don't stay in fan spaces.
And I am not going to mince words here:
A lot of you are racist. A lot of your fan works are racist.
That might have been difficult to hear. And if it was, you should probably reflect on why that was.
"Fandom etiquette" has created a space where fans of color either bite our tongues and eventually leave or say something, get dogged on, and then eventually leave.
So much of "fandom etiquette" seems to be about insulating creatives from Feeling Bad and hostility to any kind of negative feedback is a pretty big contributor to why bigotry festers in these spaces.
#imo the potluck analogy applies- it would be rude to critique someone's icing technique at a potluck bc it wasn't as good as at the bakery #but if they had decorated their cupcakes w hate symbols it wouldn't be rude to tell them that's gross and gtfo #in fact it would be inappropriate to NOT say anything in that situation #or to complain that another guest who did point it out was 'ruining everyone's potluck' #and pointing out racism in fan works is 100% the second thing not the first! (via destructions-daughter)
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Sometimes a guy in a fanfiction has the ability to read someone's gaze with the same level of detail a wine taster can taste the wine
"He glared at him with anger in his eyes, but behind that longing and sorrow over things left unsaid, a subtle but desperate yearning for things to be different, and with just a hint of roasted nuts right at the end."
we've all heard about the male gaze in media, but we've yet to explore the equally important sommelier gaze
the only fun addition to this post
Girl that's literally Perry the platypus and Heinz Doofenshmirtz
wishing all outdoor workers, delivery drivers, people who have to walk to work, bus riders, etc a very Don't die in this heat
AND HOMELESS PEOPLE!!!!!!
the egg and the closet are two different concepts
to be in the closet is to not be "out", not be "known" as what you are. much ink has been spilled about how the closet isn't really a straight line, you can be out to some people and closeted elsewhere, out online but closeted to everyone in real life.
the egg is a state of unknowing. you do not know you are transfeminine. you might be drawn to femininity, you might know this consciously and seek it out or even publicly express femininity, but if you either do not know your own transfemininity or are in deep denial about it, you're in the egg.
knowledge cracks the egg. if you're outright searching for reasons to transition or justifications for your own transgenderness the egg is cracked. if you've admitted to yourself your own transfemininity the egg is cracked. this is usually still a volatile experience, there might be some questioning or retreating back into the shell, some moments feel stronger than others, but you can't uncrack the egg.
yes that pre-op trans girl has a clit. and you must show her.
For those who don't know: this isn't just a silly post.
HRT makes the penis work like a clit. It no longer responds to stimuli as an androgenated penis would.
Treat it like a big clit.
Girls, do yourself the biggest favor of your life since starting HRT: get a good vibrator. The Hitachi wand is literally the best one, none of the others compare, but get what you can afford. A cheap one is better than nothing.
You wanna actually get that big full-body orgasm? A vibrator is how you do it.
Your penis is just a big 'ol clit now. Treat it like one.
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My favorite trope is “janitor in headphones continues cleaning through extreme action”
I’ve been the janitor in headphones and trust me it’s an act we just don’t wanna be involved in the nonsense
I Give Good Head Also I Am Nice
Hanging out with people will make you remember you're the crazy woke friend for like. not wanting to shop at shien
speaking as a transfem who was accused of something that was knowingly and intentionally fully made up complete with doctored evidence that everyone acknowledged as being factually incorrect on the actual post accusing me while spreading it around and treating it as true anyways,
you all were gangstalking my supposed victim while you were using it to incite gangstalking against me over accusations you all knew were bullshit from the start and i was being called a pedo groomer in literally the same sentence where people were admitting that no minors were involved and no grooming happened so it does kind of piss me off to see the claim that transfems are shielded from fuckall. eat glass
dump his ass. move to a walkable city. start hormones. get into fiber crafts. dye your hair weird. grow an herb garden. foster a distrustful cat. take a welding class. invite your friends over for tea and cake. get way too into obscure media. explore a new cuisine. lie to the police. protest in the streets. life has so many possibilities don't it?
make out with a frenemy. buy noise cancelling headphones. wear office inappropriate attire. quit a toxic workplace. improve your apartment. start a dog walking sidegig. get on first name basis with your local librarians. bully politicians at town hall meetings. get an unexpected piercing. cultivate farmer's market connections. trade recipes with a gossipy old neighbor. unionize your apartment complex. move to the countryside. let a friend take you larping. keep a sword on your mantleplace
get a tattoo on your 40th birthday. be tempted to buy a loom. do a charity drag show. sue your landlord. buy a really nice kitchen appliance. volunteer at an anarchist soup kitchen. rediscover a tv show you watched when you were 8. spam your state senators. shop at asian grocery stores. do cosplay. buy trans flags in bulk and mount them along the highway. go viral for unexpected reasons. move in with your best friend. make lemoncello with leftover lemon rinds. run for school board membership. explore pegging.
update: i'm delighted to report this post has been responsible for at least one person dumping his ass
update: three four people
Who cares about that, I wanna see the people who got looms!
I gotta do everything my fucking self around here smh
The tattoo I got on my 40th birthday
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You know for all my issues with the Amazon Digital Circus finale I do think Jax is the perfect illustration of a specific type of trans woman. Like there's a real contingent of closeted tgirls out there who repress so hard that they've fully convinced themselves that they can never be happy and they refuse to accept the possibility of love or acceptance because that's just "cope". If you were to ask these girls to justify their decisions they'd tell you that repressing is the only reasonable option because they'd never pass and their friends and family would reject them and their whole life would fall apart but the great irony is that repressing that hard kinda does make your life fall apart in and of itself. The repression turns into self-loathing and that turns into resentment and that turns you into a miserable human being who's miserable to be around. You hate yourself and you hate everyone around you and you push away anyone who could have loved you or cared for you and then you die never knowing what it would have felt like to live honestly.
I've seen some people say they were annoyed by how much attention Jax got in the finale because they felt like the show wanted you to feel sympathy for Jax but didn't do enough with her character to make her properly sympathetic. I don't feel sympathy for Jax but I see in Jax a mirror held up to a real life tragedy that plays out over and over again. It plays out in the form of all those women on 4chan's /lgbt/ board who called me ugly and disgusting and told me to kill myself and that no one would ever accept me. I do not feel sympathy for any of them, but I feel sad that they are wasting their lives becoming emotional tarpits because they think that's preferable to being an out trans woman. If nothing else, I hope someone recognizes in Jax just how sad and tragic a way to live that is and decides they don't want to live that way anymore.
So the secret police are executing people in broad daylight with alarming regularity, one major political party thinks it's awesome and wants more secret policemen to perform more summary executions, and the other major political party is just sorta pretending nothing is happening. That's about where we're at on the whole "roving bands of secret policemen brutalizing and murdering people" business.
Bad times friend ahead
