The Classy Introvert

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This is my first time starting a tumblr blog I've always wanted to, seeing how aesthetic the blogs on Tumblr are but I never had the chance to.

So this is me in 2025 blogging, here are a few facts about me:

❤️I'm an introvert in real life

❤️I'm funny I promise

❤️ I have adhd so I tend to overshare

❤️My mental health is SHIT

❤️ Fashion obssessed

❤️I'm a uni student (so many assigments😭)

❤️I want to know EVERYTHING: I always like to learn new things like Greek mythology, psychology and true crime

❤️I am a directioner (I LOVE One Direction)

❤️I love cats so much

❤️I'm an aesthetic girly

Maybe it's because I have ADHD idk but it's quite hard for me to maintain friendships, everything seems fine at the start but then when I start to struggle the friendships break

As an introvert with ADHD socializing is hard for me but I made so much effort in my current friendship, yet in a conversation yesterday she basically implied no one understands her and I'm a bad friend.

I'm tired, really tired because I trust consider her my closest friend then I learn she misunderstood me all this time

I'm trying to be a good friend now but what she said stung so much yesterday

Brown girl struggles:

In brown families you don't have a say in anything unless you earn money and you'll always be treated as a child but expected to make mature decisions.

It's basically an intense emotional reaction to real or perceived rejection, criticism, or failure.

And I got to say I feel this very intensely often and it's because I have adhd.

I hate that I let it affect me so much, i notice everything for ex: someone said something in another tone, I already notice and then take it personally and basically hurt myself so much

Like yesterday, I told my friend who couldn't attend classes due to work that there's gonna be a group presentation soon and honestly I forgot to tell the lecturer about her (i genuinely forgot), so when I told her this she sounded very frustrated which is completely understandable and I did my best to make sure she is included in the assignment/presentation (I emailed the lecturer and she agreed)

but my friend hasn't spoken to me at all after this even after I told her that everything is set for her , maybe she needs space and I completely understand but this still affected me so much today

Your girl just enrolled herself in a competition to improve my social anxiety and public speaking so let's see how it goes

I've also began speaking up more in class and participating more, I've gotten better at my French (orally)