Bryan Breeze

I really want to take sometime out of my day to talk about something that has been on my mind. I really need to vent about this. I feel like this blog will mean a lot to people & it clearly does to me. Why are us gays labeled as different or called not normal? Just because some gays act different, talk different, dress different does not make them anymore different then what you are. Were just like a normal human beings. The way some gays dress is not for attention at all. It is what makes them happy. Do you like going to foot locker & getting those shoes. Or playing that game black ops? It is the same thing as a gay guy going to the store to get a new pair of heels. Just because it’s “Normal” for girls to wear heels. I do not understand that at all, but girls can walk around in the shoes guy wear? Makes no sense to me what so ever. What does a guy waking in heels have to do with you at all? Absolutely nothing. I do not understand why some straight guys judge gay guys just because they are being themselves & when they are… there being called names & bringing that person down to make themselves feel better, but what I want you to look at it is think about since kid that you are making fun of something that he or she loves. I just do not understand how some people just have the heart to actually bully someone for dressing up the way they want to.

I want you to know that if you are a guy & you want to wear a dress, heels, make up, anything you want to do, go do it. Do not live your life a lie. Just be yourself & do not let anyone bring you down because it’s only you & your life that matters. Just be you & work it. I feel like gays are being labeled as a book because some people look at us like book covers. I am always asked this daily, “You’re gay right?” if you are your going to hell. Let me tell you something, I was born gay. If you are telling me that I choose to be gay, I do not know why you think that because I did not choose to go to school everyday hearing, FAG, GAY, GAY BOY, FAGGOT all day long. I want you to look at this… every time school got out, & I was walking home to go home, kids would drive by me, throw things at me & call me the faggot for being “different” so if you are telling me I choose to be gay you need to re-think it. My dad wanted to kick me out of the house when I told him I was gay. It was the worst day of my life & I remember it just like it happened yesterday. So you are telling me I choose to be gay so I could not really have a dad in my life? You are telling me everyday I used to go hunting & fishing with him when I was in the closet because I was scared to come out because I knew my dad would not support me, but I really was sick of living my life a lie. I “Bryan Breeze” did not choose to be gay because if I could are you kidding me look at all my hot fag hags I have in my life. I would be straight in an instant. So do not tell me I choose to be gay, because you do not know anything you are just trying to listen to people & hearing the things people say.

I will not change for anyone, but myself. I will be who I am & if you do not like it then that is on you, because nothing will makes me change. I am happy with the way everything has happened in my life. The kids that made fun of me & the even my dad has made me a stronger person & has made me who I am today. So I thank all you.

So to close up this blog. I want you, guys to know that if you are being judged as a person & what you are doing with your life. Do not let anyone bring you down. You can come above it. Life is very hard I am not going to lie, but you just have to grow up & realize that the only thing that matters are yourself & your opinion, In high school at one point in my life I was sick of being bullied & I wanted to show my haters & people that made fun of everyday that I did not care what you thought of me so I put in a 17 inch weave in & showed them haters that I will be

myself no matter what. I looked like a girl & changed in the guys locker room, because I just did not care anymore. You just have to accept that if you are going to be yourself get ready for hate & you have to know that there is people out there that love you. Remember that do not ever feel alone, because there is people out there that love you. You can get over anything in life if you just work hard & over come the tough times. Not everything is going to be perfect, but you just have to work for it & try your best.

So I hope this blogged opened some of your guys eye & I hope that if you are reading this you feel inspired enough to be yourself. If you have any questions, concerns, advice, anything I am here for you.

Thanks again for all the love & Support!

I love each & everyone of you.

Xx

I get this on a daily basis “Bryan how do you stay strong with all this hate you get online?” and also with putting yourself out there to be judged by one another? First and foremost you need to believe in yourself. Not believe in others, unless you’re cheering them onto reaching there goals like you are. You need to be confident with yourself, work hard and reach for your dreams. I am telling you right now if you don’t then you will NOT be able to be strong enough. Those are the keys to over come hate, fear and steps to reach your dreams. Trust me when I say this I have been there when I felt like I was nothing, but I am not alone and you’re defiantly not alone. All you have to do is just Believe, just like how Justin Bieber has said.

I am going to break this down in more detail for you so you understand what I mean to be able to be confident with yourself. It’s not being conceited at all it’s being confident with whatever you do. Don’t doubt yourself because that is wear you create that negative attitude and then you have those words like I can’t come out of your mouth. You can you just don’t want to. That simple… don’t make up excuses because you can’t you can, you do anything you put your mind too, but when you have that negative energy coming out of your body. That is not staying strong. You have to over come it all.

Let me ask you a simple question. Most of the time to stay strong is when someone makes a insult comment about you, better known as the “haters”. Why are you letting someone that is down on themselves because they have to bring down other people, because they wish they were doing what you are doing. Why would you let them control your life? That one life that you were given to do whatever you want, but your letting them control you? Now isn’t that a waste of LIFE? I know for fact that is. I changed my mind set and I told anyone that wants to talk about me in a negative way I love it because just remember any press is good press. Don’t even give them a time a day. Just keep doing you.

So to answer your guys questions on how I stay strong it’s all about getting out of this negative mindset. I have something that will inspire you. IF something is getting very hard and you can’t control, remember this, nothing lasts forever. You know if you have to go to work for such long hours, remember that shift don’t last forever it will come to a end you just have to put your mind at ease and tell yourself I can do this and I can get this done. It don’t last forever and it’s not the end of the world for me.

I live by that everyday, because some days get hard, yes but that don’t mean my life and dreams are over. I will till I am underground will be chasing my dreams until they are reality. I will never give up.

That is the mindset you want.