So why not drop the 31 random things I’ve learned in my 31 years of existence? You may or may not agree with these but I guess it's worth sharing.
1. Your childhood plays a big part of who you are now
2. There’s no enemy within. It’s just our belief system.
3. It’s okay to say NO without feeling guilty
4. Clear communication resolves every misunderstanding
5. Don’t seek validation from anyone. Validation should always come from you.
6. Self-love is not selfish.
7. Always take care of your health. I know “health is wealth” is such a cliché but not taking care of it will restrict you from achieving your goals.
8. Stop wasting your time explaining things to close-minded people. They will never get it.
9. As much as possible, “STAY OUT OF DEBT” – you already know what I mean.
10. Mental Health is as important as your physical health.
11. You don’t always need to explain yourself to everyone
12. We create our own reality. Our thoughts become emotions. Emotions become actions.
13. You don’t have to be friends with everyone. Keep your circle small.
14. It is never too late to start something new.
15. You will not always be people’s cup of tea and that is totally OKAY.
16. Be brave even if you are not, no can tell the difference.
17. Give that LOVE to yourself because you deserve it.
18. Learning is a never-ending process – Keep learning!
19. Financial Intelligence is something that we should always talk about. I wish I knew all about these things when I was in my early 20’s
20. Stop comparing your journey with other people. We have our own pace in life.
21. Sometimes being alone doesn’t mean your lonely.
22. You can’t control people’s reaction but you can always control on how you react to them
23. “Money can’t buy happiness” is an incorrect concept about money. Money is what we need to fulfil our dreams and aspirations. Anyone who says “money can’t buy happiness” needs to transfer their money to my account! 😊
24. Don’t define yourself with the things you possess. Everything we have is just temporary and borrowed. These can be taken away from us anytime.
25. Don’t take risks, instead TAKE CALCULATED RISKS.
26. Create your life plan or someone else will.
27. You do not know what tomorrow may bring so do yourself a favour- always be gentle to yourself and do the things that make you happy as long as you don’t hurt anyone
28. We all connected to each other. The way we meet people is not an accident. They come into our lives either to be a blessing or a lesson.
29. Whatever the work is, do it well – not for the boss but for yourself.
30. Stay present, and continue to be the observer of what is happening inside you – Power of Now, Eckhart Tolle
31. “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; Knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened” – Matthew 7:7-8