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Your future spouse is going to see you as being confusing but real and extremely bratty. Iâm picking up on you petulantly turning your face away from them and back to them with your arms crossed across your chest but being open to revealing whatâs bothering you once they push you enough, and try to romance you a bit xD. One thing that your future spouse is going to think is that you tend to struggle with people and are often more alone because of how real you are, and how much realness you prefer. You arenât a very go with the flow person is what your future spouse will think, theyâll see you to be someone who consciously likes to choose and hence, narrow down possibilities of what could happen especially negatively. However, I keep on getting that theyâll also see you to be indecisive. This is one of my favourite things about doing future spouse and self readings, things tend to be more complex, and contradictory but that is life itself, that is what people are like, yin and yang, none of us are completely black, and white, nothing in life is, everything is a shade of grey even though not fifty xD. Youâre either already or will have grown to become a very loving and nurturing person who is very abundant, and shares that abundance outwardly. Almost like a grandmother who shares sweet treats or bakes a pie for those she loves but youâre also going to be absolutely unwilling to accept anything less. Youâll believe that you deserve to be treasured and treated like a queen, and youâre not going to go about it in a petty manner, youâll have maturity and will deserve to be treated with maturity, consideration, care, love, and gentleness because youâre able to offer it too. In fact, because thatâs just who you are. Youâre going to have a very realistic mindset i.e. that you will care for and love the other person, and thereâs going to be a lot of respect and that you deserve the very same. Softness, comfort, gentleness, care, love and respect are going to be basic things that you will require, and will provide to the other party. Youâll not have this weird fantasy of someone chasing after you even if other people like you or youâre not interested in them and you falling for them because of the way they treat you, instead, when youâre single, youâll seem a bit hard to approach or deal with because youâll know what you want and youâll be the type to consciously choose someone as driven, and passionate as you and someone who can actually handle you because you do have a tendency to be a little haughty at times, and bratty as fuck ofcourse. Theyâll think that you tend to abandon people and situations easily, cutting through confusion, even if it causes you to be alone because you believe that you deserve gentleness, love, consideration, and do not like to have to experience negative emotions and thoughts even if youâre prone to it. Your future spouse is going to see you and the relationship to possess a duality. In fact, âtripalityâ would be a more accurate term to use. Youâre going to be someone whoâs been alone for quite a bit and is more reserved especially emotionally when something will occur socially or at work because that will happen, youâll sometimes feel extremely left out by people, even ridiculed by them, even if youâre troubled, youâre going to try to keep your feelings to yourself and deal with them by yourself, trying to gain clarity.
Thatâs one of the things that theyâll not like about you, a relationship is supposed to be teamwork making dreamwork but youâre going to try to deal with things by yourself, theyâll just really want to be there for you, but theyâll also find it to be really admirable, the way you cut past illusions or without doing so, make the choice that is the most favourable for you. Youâre not going to be one to stay in confusion for too long. Youâre not going to fuck with doubts and people treating you weird, youâll never talk to them again unless you absolutely have to, and even so, youâll keep to yourself and maintain sanity. Theyâll love how high of a regard you hold yourself to and how much you love, and respect yourself and theyâll also feel flattered that you do not get rid of them despite having low tolerance for other people. Youâre both going to be extremely possessive of each other because youâll both be consciously choosing each other and thereâs going to be no one for you besides each other but thereâs going to be a tendency towards paranoia from both parties. Despite valuing comfort and love, youâre going to be the type to stick with them through thick, and thin and will love them even on days when theyâre unable to do much for you, and vice versa which will only cause you both to feel even more passionately and possessively towards one another. Youâre the whole package in every sense of the word or so your future spouse will think. Youâre going to have a tendency to act bratty like I said earlier, sometimes, itâs going to be something more mature i.e. you act mad but you express your emotions to them and make up with them once they try to get you to talk, and sometimes petty petty i.e. they literally cannot win with you because youâre absolutely unwilling to cooperate and yes, sometimes it will be a bit more playful i.e. you simply being a drama queen but at other times, itâs going to be a real issue because youâll be acting the way that youâll be acting out of insecurity and negative emotions, and thoughts that youâre literally being unable to let go of. The good thing is that at least youâll be expressing these issues to them, though not healthily as it will still be something that keeps you connected because youâll not have to deal with these emotions and matters alone, all by yourself, and theyâll be there to ease it for you and reassure you time and time again. Your future spouse is going to find it a bit funny, the way that you decisively cut people out of your life without even having a conversation with them when they treat you weirdly because you know you deserve better and you do not voice it out to them that strongly or even if you do, you let the matter go after a conversation, or two but with them, even if youâre fighting about the same thing for a thousandth time and itâs ridiculous, youâre still unwilling to let go of them, and vice versa. Your relationship is going to be very ride or die in nature according to your future spouse, youâre going to be unwilling to leave each other no matter what even though, thereâs going to be a tendency towards paranoia, fighting and intensity - both the negative, and the positive sort due to possessiveness. Your relationship is going to be one in which thereâs a presence of unconditional love and a bit of blindsidedness to each otherâs faults. In fact, I wouldnât say that itâs blindsidedness. Youâre going to have possessiveness, fears, paranoia, etc. be very present in your relationship out of passion and intense, and overwhelming love. Youâre both going to be unable to imagine a life without each other so itâs like, youâll be very possessive of each other and demanding, and so youâll have fights and act bratty with each other, it doesnât have to be toxic all the time though sometimes, it will be but itâs mostly going to be a bit more childish i.e. something that adds more passion into the relationship and itâs not going to be something that either of you are going to move away from i.e. this thing will be your dynamic, and not something âmake or breakâ you know?
To explain it plainly, when youâll be possessive, youâll be angry and will have a fight but theyâll reassure you, and youâll continue fighting but theyâll hold you with love even if theyâre still running their tongue and theyâll still be expressing their love for you, and telling you that they chose you and will always choose you, and youâre going to end up melting into them and vice versa, and despite it being intense, it will be natural to you and not something insanely toxic, though definitely not healthy, and can be toxic at times. Theyâll think that you both have started wanting and needing each other so much, and thereâs such an intense desire and love that fighting, and expression of angry and negative thoughts, and emotions is just normal, itâs going to be a part of your intimacy, a part of your relationship but the thing is, itâs not going to take from the âloveâ and beautiful parts of your relationship. Your love and comfortable, nurturing, and gentle moments will overpower this negativity even if itâs just a 51 vs. 49 kinda deal. Youâre both going to see ugly sides of each other and love each other anyway. âUnconditionallyâ by Katy Perry keeps on coming through for how theyâll see your relationship. Codependency is not a good thing but itâs not as bad as people make it seem either. The truth is that if we are in personal relationships, to some extent, we will inevitably depend on each other whether we want to or not. The closer we get to see someone, the more we are exposed to the uglier sides of them. Your relationship is going to be (according to them) one in which, they see your insecurities, your uglier sides, your fears, your negative thoughts and emotions, and you when youâre being extremely overwhelmed and in turn overwhelming them too a bit but they love you unconditionally, and are a grounding force for you because they validate your emotions and deal with them even if it is overwhelmingly negative. Thereâs going to be this thing in which, theyâll love you because youâre complex, because youâre passionate, because you experience rightful anger, because youâre real, because of all that makes you you, including the anger and the way you get rid of people. Theyâre going to love you a lot and youâll know it, theyâll put up with your anger even without proper apologies having to be said, and vice versa. Theyâll know just how much you love them because theyâll be the one person who you will be outspoken with or express your anger, fears and ugly sides to even if you feel guilty instead of just cutting them out of your life like you do with everyone else. No matter how tough you may act, youâll be a baby to them. Theyâll possess a lot of love and consideration, and forgiveness will come along with it. Some of you may have had some issue with women or your mother, or emotions and nurturing while growing up or throughout your life but theyâre going to love you so much, theyâll make up for all that you lacked or missed out on. The way theyâll love you is going to be so deep, I apologise if I was unable to express it well. Listen to the song though, thatâs the closest that it can be explained. Thereâs going to be extreme acceptance for both parties and so much love, and consideration causing even the most negative emotions, thoughts and energies to be benevolent within the relationship. Despite how much negativity and toxicity was coming through individually, and in the context of the relationship itself, I keep on getting that the relationship is going to be one of love and all of the negativity, once touched with love is going to only further strengthen it.
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Your future spouse is going to see your relationship as something that is thriving because you both have invested a lot into it. However, what theyâre going to like about you as well as themself and the relationship itself is your inability as well as unwillingness to fall complacent. Both parties in this situation are going to be the type to pause and examine what is, and isnât working out in your relationship and try to do better as individuals, and as partners. Theyâre going to see you as someone whoâs worked hard to become who you are and as being a highly principled person who is present, and true to themself and undergoes moments that are a bit extreme in nature but that even if such things shake you up internally, you do not let them get to you too much externally and yes, your mood might seem visibly off externally but you still donât let such situations, and emotions dictate your actions too much and that even internally, you swallow whatever negativity comes your way in order to further strengthen yourself. One thing that I find to be extremely beautiful is the faith that theyâll possess in your marriage, theyâre going to see your relationship as something that is deeply grounded and reliable. Theyâre going to want to provide the best for you and theyâll know that you hold the same sentiment too. Let me just get this out of the way, thereâs always been a lot of villainisation of women who are highly independent and know what they want. If youâre someone who is highly principled, responsible, ethical and a provider in whatever way you can be so your standards are high, and while they may seem unrealistic to others, theyâre very realistic to you because you naturally are that way, you shouldnât have to lower your standards for yourself or others especially someone you are supposedly going to form an intimate relationship with. Iâm getting that you donât want to have to train a partner or anything. You want a partner whoâs naturally so inclined towards self improvement that theyâd make a good person in general and a fit partner for you, and another thing is that even if you were to lower your standards, youâd not be able to be well matched with anything lesser than this because the way you are, itâs almost as if youâd end up emasculating the other person. If you think about it carefully, youâre everything that a dream man is supposed to be and possibly even more so only someone whoâs deeply grounded in their masculinity, and character can be with someone like you because only then would there be a match. We are looking at this from your future spouseâs perspective so please keep in mind that theyâre going to see whatever Iâm writing. Theyâre going to think that youâre someone who is highly grounded and knows what they want, and stubborn and passionate, and yes, you will have a bit of a tendency towards directness in speech too but theyâll think that you have a solid character and are highly principled, and youâre going to be someone whoâs constantly improving themself and theyâll love you for all that you are, and everything that you do and especially everything that you require within a partner for basic resonance without categorising you as being too much or having unrealistic standards. You are going to be loved for being passionate, outspoken, having high standards, holding yourself to them and maintaining them, and all your wisdom and maturity, and groundedness and seriousness without being made to feel too much. Theyâll love you for your qualities rather than despite them. With someone like you, itâs important that you have a partner whoâs always on an upward trajectory so that they can keep up with you or so your future spouse will think but overall, theyâll see your relationship to be very passionate and grounded.
Theyâll have so much faith in you and your relationship that theyâre going to know not to let your relationship fall apart when things come about because theyâll have to hear it from you, theyâll really value your side of the story and I strongly get that itâs going to mean a lot to you. Youâre someone who tends to experience extremes in life in terms of opinions and the thing is, youâre so focused on maintaining your own character, and integrity that you donât care to or even when you try to, youâre often not heard out and people often try to or outnumber you naturally because you also seem like someone who can hold their own so people often do not even try to support you or theyâre not able to do so as much as you would like. In many ways, youâre highly misunderstood despite having a very grounded character and so your future spouse is going to be unwilling as well as naturally unable to do that to you. Itâs going to be great to have someone who naturally has so much faith in your character. Another thing is that birds of the same feather flock together and youâre attracted to what youâre naturally in alignment with, and in this case, theyâre going to want to become a better person, a better man (if you belong to the majority of my audience which is full of straight women but take it as it resonates) so theyâre going to feel really blessed to have ended up with someone like you who makes them better everyday, more of a man or woman and inspires them to maintain a certain standard in their life, and character. Theyâre going to see the both of you as a stabilising force in each otherâs lives and also as having insane loyalty towards each other, and understanding of each other. Both of you deal with people jumping to conclusions about you or not supporting you when crisis occurs and partially, itâs because you both seem perfectly capable of dealing with things by yourself but having someone who is there for them without them having to ask and someone who they give the same to is going to be such a blessing to them. Especially when it comes to connections and socialisation, when things fall apart, both of you have had to let go of friends because they lacked the backbone to support you in any way at all at some point or various points in your life and in fact, many times, due to how threatened people tend to feel by both of you, âfriendsâ have turned against you and supposedly randomly, and there was a lack of call out from the rest of your friends so things ended and yes, both of you tend to handle such situations really well when they come about but when with each other, thereâs going to be someone there with you during such moments and theyâll greatly appreciate you for that, and will want to support you and be your strength too. Theyâre going to see you as being a very present and positive person because youâve built yourself, your mindset and your life with so much effort, and hard work that youâre unwilling to let anything pull you out of it and theyâre going to be the same way so whenever something occurs in either of your lives, the other person is going to be there for them while highlighting the positives of the situation, reassuring that it will be over soon because there is nothing that lasts permanently after all and that includes pain, and sorrow as well and thereâs going to be composure as well as healthy experience, and expression of negative emotions within your marriage is what theyâll think. Youâre both going to be tough people externally. I just heard âyou lose when you lose your composureâ, youâre going to be the type to not show youâre struggling or give into anger, or negative emotions socially and publicly, the thing is that due to your own containment and the way you guys have a big energy, it will be obvious when youâre low but youâll not be expressing it by acting out of control.
When you get home though, you might have a breakdown or you may not sometimes and vice versa but the other person is going to be an active listener regardless, and extremely present. If theyâre hurting, youâre not just going to up and go about your routine, and activities, youâll stay there, wait for them to talk if they want to and will offer them water, and will hold onto them affectionately or just stay there, trying to offer support and the thing is, despite how firm and strong theyâll be to the entire world, youâll bring out that soft side of them that will express what is hurting them and what theyâre struggling to move past but even so, theyâre still going to voice it out wisely i.e. âI know that Iâll get over it soon and plus just the way a muscle needs to be torn to be built stronger, the brain and spirit does too. I just need to feed myself positive thoughts and lessons during this time so that I can come out stronger, and more wise.â Youâre both going to have a similarity of character in this respect. Youâre going to have a very respectful and respectable character but will also be very affectionate, and childlike in your persona but also mature. Someone playful and fun loving but wise, and affectionate and childlike but mature, and grounded. When youâll undergo such moments, youâll come home and have a breakdown, and theyâll literally wipe your tears off your face and will be unwilling to let you deal with things on your own. Ofcourse, if they have work, theyâll have to get back to it soon but theyâre going to see you as a priority that causes them to leave everything aside just for your well-being. Theyâre going to feel very protective and almost paternal towards you, and will honestly want to keep you safe from such experiences but obviously thatâs not possible so theyâll be there for you but one thing that you can expect from them is extreme loyalty and to stand up for you to others, and that includes getting mad for you if thereâs flakiness in your environment. Theyâre going to think that your relationship makes them more responsible and dutiful but also more childish because they end up having an attitude of âIâll handle it laterâ regarding work, and routines if it means being there for you emotionally or spending more time having fun with you (including sexually unless youâre asexual). Theyâre often going to end up having to rush things or work late because of how busy they were with you earlier but theyâll not regret it one bit despite the stress and regret when theyâre having to overwork. Well, they will regret it but since they enjoyed their time with you, theyâll also not? Theyâll value how ambitious, principled, purehearted and loving you are, all the qualities that tend to make you âtoo muchâ to others will be treasured by them. Theyâll see you to be the whole package and so much more. I love this for you.
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Your future spouse is going to see your relationship as something that makes them feel deeply and passionately, and in ways that they cannot really contain. There are many cards that point towards honesty, guilt and justice being served. In many ways, theyâre going to feel like you bring out the worst in them because while usually, they may be more controlled, with you, they might end up expressing anger more strongly without much control so there might be guilt about that but theyâll be willing to take accountability for their own actions and youâll also be the same way. Iâm picking up on something very specific, during the initial stages of your relationship, theyâre going to be more of the soft and understanding sort within the relationship, and will be highly controlled but in many ways, theyâll lack emotional intelligence and will end up upsetting you, and you being as passionate as you are and also having them test your temper will end up going down on them, and itâs not exactly going to be healthy because youâll not have the healthiest relationship with your own anger and will not understand the direction, purpose, and reason for it causing you to feel guilty for it. Over time, theyâll grow a lot of anger towards you while youâll grow a lot of softness towards them and so some sort of dynamic that youâll have grown used to will be broken. Youâll have a major soft spot for them because theyâll present themself to you as this very understanding, emotional and soft person but theyâll get mad at you over time because of the way you express your anger to them, and will end up changing the dynamic by not acting the way they used to anymore. The energy is very much giving âthey just changedâ or âthey were very cruel at the end of the relationship, itâs like a switch had flippedâ vibes. Honestly, for some of you, you might meet this person while youâre still fairly young or when your reasoning skills arenât that good yet because Iâm almost getting a feeling of you not understanding your own feelings, theyâll feel the same way too so you wonât understand your anger towards them and vice versa. I think what will have been happening is that just like everyone, theyâll be trying to put their best foot forward with you in the relationship, presenting their best side but at some point, theyâll end up revealing their âtrue sideâ to you, one thatâs angry and honestly, slightly cruel. Honestly, I wouldnât be surprised if your connection has a temporary separation. Youâre going to be a very fair person so youâll be really hard on yourself as youâll think that theyâre just mad at you for the way you treated them, because of your own anger but youâll also be mad at them, angry for being so cruel to you and acting like a different person. We are looking at this from their perspective so theyâll see your relationship as one that has many resentments and a lot of anger, and thereâs going to be this trajectory in which initially, youâll feel really guilty even when youâre mad at them and theyâll be mad at you, and will think that it was rightful, the way they acted even if they feel guilty at times but over time, youâll realise that the way they acted was not it and despite your own faults, you didnât deserve to be so hard on yourself while overlooking how egoistic they were acting. âThe way I loved youâ by Taylor Swift is the vibe that Iâm getting here for your connection. Over time, youâll both mature significantly since when you first met each other and that familiarity that you had with each other will fade as youâll have become strangers but the more that the memories of the past blur, the more that theyâll see how measly of a person they used to be. Youâll both move on from the past and theyâll think that itâs only fair that you have decided to move on but somehow, youâll end up back together, and when you do, things will have changed but also not. The thing is, theyâll have acted as though they do not care about you when the connection ended.
Very much the type to have claimed that they never loved you, that they donât and never will, and so youâll have moved on because of how they started acting like a whole different person and yes, it may have taken you time, and you may have been in denial because you knew what you felt and you felt like they werenât being honest with you. You may have even wanted to make up to them at some point assuming that theyâre angry at you and hurt by you but there was nothing you could do about it so you will have moved past it but the emotions, and anger, neither of you will have provided any sort of closure or healthy communication to each other, the messiness, youâll have grown out of it and left it behind is all especially you. Youâll have grown to become a highly fair and reasonable person who considers different points, and actions and proof in order to make decisions even regarding connections without much sentimentality at all. You will not let your emotions blind you and will want to see things, and people as they are even if you do not like what you see. Youâll deeply value honesty and fairness to yourself because youâll have always tried to provide the same to others but this trait of yours will have caused you to be scorned because others will not have been as thoughtful of you. When youâll get back together, youâre going to have become a more mature version of yourself but despite that, the issues that you guys had left behind and moved on from will still be there, and youâll have no choice but to deal with them. Youâre going to have built a life for yourself and will focus on maintaining it while remaining well adorned (whatever that means to you - makeup, skincare, clothes, accessories) so while you will be prioritising them, youâll have a lot going for you so the truth is that, the way that youâll have grown to be, even if they were to leave your life, youâd be fine, because youâd occupy that space with something like another goal, activity, hobby, etc. or at least thatâs how theyâll perceive you. Theyâre going to perceive your relationship as one in which both parties have grown up significantly and matured as well as have let go of past issues. There will have been confessions, apologies and a lot of honesty about everything, and youâll have moved over things with fairness and honesty. You guys still will have some issues with anger, ego and emotions but at the end of the day, youâll prioritise each other, and fight for your relationship. I started hearing that song by Akon in my head. âNobody wanna see us together but it donât matter, no cause Iâve got you babe. Nobody wanna see us together but it donât matter, no cause we gonâ fight. Promise we gonâ fight, believe we gonâ fight, fight for our right to love yeah. Nobody wanna see us together but it donât matter, no.â You guys will fight with each other too but youâll also fight for the relationship. Theyâre going to see the relationship as something that required immense maturity and work, and as having had moments of childishness and immaturity but everything will weigh heavily on them as theyâll try to do, and be everything for you. Thatâs what theyâll appreciate about you as well, thatâs what theyâll love about you. Youâre highly passionate and you take commitments seriously, and when you do, youâre willing to do for them. You do not view romance and love as just the fun parts or the yearning, or the feelings of attraction, excitement, and it is something that you have always taken seriously. For you, due to how seriously you take commitments, if youâve ever entered a âcasualâ connection or just tried with someone who you werenât deeply in love with and sure about, you have or have a tendency to feel suffocated. You cannot stay in such connections. You crave passion and you crave duty, you want to feel so passionately for someone that it weighs on you, you want to love someone so much that you are overwhelmed and it is very subconscious on your part.
You may not even realise that this is how you operate, and this is what youâre looking for but thatâs how theyâll see you. Also, remember that I mentioned a temporary separation earlier? You might meet them at a time when your passionate, serious and also fighting nature will be too much for them but during the same time, theyâll end up developing an appetite and craving for it. Theyâll realise this over time that other people cannot quite love them like you because they do not possess passion, courage, dutifulness and seriousness like you do, and yes, it will come at the small cost of your extreme temper and them themself losing their mind but when I tell you that theyâd not trade what you have for anything or anyone, Iâm not even kidding. Youâll know each other inside out because anger is something that youâre not very comfortable with expressing or even experiencing, you tend to feel really guilty but even so, youâre going to end up expressing that side of yourself to them and theyâll end up showing you really ugly sides of themself too, theyâll show you emotionally immature, uncaring sides of them, theyâll hurt you because of their own issues, theyâll pretty much cause a wound in your inner child honestly because youâll hold such a soft spot for them, youâll love them just as you would a child, youâll have viewed them as this very pure thing that deserves utmost gentleness and care, and that image will break but despite all of this, theyâll not want anyone but you. Youâll both work through all of these issues in order to be with each other. Youâll fight with each other but youâll also fight for each other. Theyâll not be proud of their earlier actions so theyâll want to do right by you. Honestly, if youâre straight, theyâll very much feel like they havenât been or arenât man enough for you. Theyâll feel like they donât deserve you but thatâs whatâs going to push them to try to become better. Theyâll see you as someone who tried to do right by them even as they were hurting you because you really really cared about them and were a very pure hearted individual. Theyâll know that youâre someone who tends to keep your emotions clutched more tightly but even so, youâll have tried to express your emotions as well as remorse to them but theyâll have egotistically believed that itâs only fair to not give you a second chance so over time, youâll grow sick of trying. However, even though youâll choose to be fair to yourself and cut all ties, and attachment to them in order to move forward, when youâre together, theyâll see you as someone to protect and be there for because of your purity of heart, genuine concern, empathy, and especially desire to be fair in situations. Theyâre going to adore you. Youâre going to be very serious and will have moments when youâll fight with them but youâre going to be one hell of a partner to be with. First of all, youâre going to be yourself very unapologetically. Your directness will sometimes greatly offend people but with you, in many ways, what they see is what theyâll get and also who you are. Whether they can digest it or not is their problem. Youâre also going to be very fair to yourself and honest, and will have high standards and strong boundaries so itâs very much going to be âone strike and youâre outâ with you. Youâre going to be the type to get over the past very fast and literally will not have much sentimentality about it even if youâre a very nostalgic person i.e. once someone does you wrong, youâll be honest with yourself about the situation and the past wonât matter to you anymore even if youâre immensely grateful for certain things from that time. You are also going to be one of those people who will maintain boundaries with other people and will make sure that certain things are reserved for your relationship, and your partner and only them.
To add onto it, due to how you take everything seriously, youâre going to be very firm in standing up for them as well and will not allow anyone, and I mean anyone at all to disrespect your partner. Youâre going to be someone who will preach what you think honestly even if the other person does not agree with you and youâre going to be a preacher who talks about what you think is right or wrong so you very much will correct people but they might not like it causing you to have to learn how to be occupied and have things going for you so rejection is just a part of life, and not something that bothers you but youâre going to be the whole package for them and while, because of how serious, firm, passionate, sensitive, pure hearted, honest, fair, real and direct you are, and how much you preach fairness and goodness, you may be insufferable, and too much for some, theyâll love you for all these qualities instead of despite it. Theyâll find your realness, seriousness, virtues, values, morals, dutifulness, passion, honesty, EVERYTHING to be incredibly refreshing. Theyâll look at and for you in any room that theyâre in, and will enjoy conversations with you because one thing about you is that despite your seriousness, youâre not a dull person. First of all, youâre going to be a really curious person who genuinely enjoys learning and youâll really enjoy conversations, and one other thing about you is that youâll be into correcting yourself and at some point, youâre going to learn how to listen to people attentively or at least them because youâre going to want to be heard so youâll know just how much it could mean to the other person so conversations with you will flow very easily and theyâll get to learn a lot from you as well as, theyâll find that they only become more, and more curious about you as more time goes by despite how real and honest you are about who you are, and how you present yourself just as you are because much like other humans, you possess complexities within yourself and unlike them you accept, embrace, experience and express it. Theyâre going to overindulge in their relationship with you. You guys are going to be the type to get so drunk at night because âyou only live onceâ but theyâve got work the next morning or if you donât drink, go on a trip on Sunday when one of you has something important to submit on Monday. Especially sex is going to be of indulgent nature. Theyâre not going to be able to get enough of you even though youâll spend a lot of time together and theyâll touch you a lot, and have a lot of fun with you, theyâll still want more and more, and more of you. Theyâll become almost clingy and needy, and yes, even that will annoy you at times but itâs going to be an adorable dynamic because the âyouâ thatâs so used to living your own life and busy maintaining it will still love them, and spend a lot of time with them and enjoy it despite having a lot on your own plate. Youâre going to be the very passionate sort so youâll live wholeheartedly causing you to be just as indulgent as them and I keep on hearing that âcloseâ will never be close enough for them, and that hours spent with you will still never be enough for them because theyâll just want more and more, and more and more but theyâll still have to understand that you are your own person, and need your own space and time causing them to have to keep their distance from you but theyâll still watch you from a distance. Theyâll be yearning for you within the relationship when theyâre giving you your space. This is so adorable. Iâm picking up on you scolding them for following you around or touching you too much, or still wanting and trying to be with you even though youâve been seeing only their face for the past two days, and them stretching their upper body from the living room to see what youâre doing in the kitchen or getting up and walking past the bedroom to catch a mere glimpse of you.
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