This is where the operations take place.

It makes me super uncomfortable (especially when guys do this) when you’re talking to someone about the person they are dating/engaged to/have a crush on etc. and you’re both admiring the person, and they make a sexual comment about them, and nudge at you a bit.  I had this realization recently, when I went to a party, and a guy, who had previously told me about his blossoming relationship with a very sweet girl. She walked by us, and we both looked at her, and I got a decent look at her hair, face, and figure. She is stunning.. absolutely beautiful, and her personality is just golden. I looked at him and went “Oh, she’s so beautiful..~” And he responds with “That ass though..” To which.. I felt.. so uncomfortable, and said again “She’s so beautiful..~” 

and he went “Fuckin hour glass figure.” 

♎: The problems you have when you are grey asexual, and get your urges, is that you get them at very inconvenient times.