My close friends usually don't question me being as freaky as I am whilst I'm aroace, zero sexual or romantic attraction whatsoever. I am romance adverse but sex favorable. I find sex stuff funny tbh and would probably try it just for the fuck of it, doesn't mean I'm attracted to people in a sexual sense. Now that doesn't mean people don't question it. Like bruvs, me being one freaky mofo has nothing to do with my sexual attraction. It doesn't erase that I feel no sexual attraction. If an asexual is downright repulsed by anything sexual, that's valid. If an asexual enjoys sexual things, that's valid. If an asexual doesn't mind sexual things, that's valid. If an asexual is in anything in-between or outside of those, that's valid. Unfortunately it is true, asexual people can never win because of stereotypes and the focus on sex society seems to have.