Just giving not taking

Nearly all of the money from my Patreon is donated to charities chosen by my members rather than lining my own pocket, so feel free to reach out and say hello in confidence.

My experience in helping people explore and embrace their feminine and submissive sides is something many have found genuinely beneficial, supportive, and empowering. Whether you are curious, uncertain, or already on your journey, you will always be treated with respect and discretion.

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One of the major reasons people are becoming verbally paralysed when it comes to approaching someone like myself is the influx of would-be scroungers flooding DM's offering everything and delivering nothing once you’ve signed on the dotted line.

Many of you will already have read the testimonials from people who either support what I do or have met me in person. I regularly spend 2–3 days a week chatting in both group and individual sessions. There is a reason I have one of the largest followings and have remained established for many years.

You will never find me in your messages unless you contact me first, or unless I genuinely have advice worth giving. The way a true Mistress operates is usually through word of mouth, and if she is worth her salt, she will already be inundated with requests. There is no need to chase people when your reputation speaks for itself.

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Obey - Daily Discipline

Brand game just finished creating Obey - Daily Discipline will be availble in Sissy School Tier on Patreon Today and the tiers above, it has taken me quite some time to code, and over the next few months I will be adding more to this, if you love playing the obiedience app but hate paying the fee, then this will be for you.

I will be working on integrating chat and image uploads along with intergrating my community chat. I am afraid there are so only so many hours in the days that I have free to work on these, inbetween creating everything else, working and chatting so progress has been slow. Especially as I am in the midst of creating two other games

My grindr style Meat4you based on my sissymap data and my RPG style submissive, cd, sissy challenge game. Plus I still have to finish my Bodystyling app from before Christmas.

I never have enough hours, with working full time, chatting and creating other content.

Ask yourself, what does your Mistress provide for you? If its nothing more than a drain on your wallet, then you would be better off with me.

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I’ve already started making some exciting enhancements to my new game. From later this week, templates will become a feature allowing you to have multiple paths to play through, covering themes such as BDSM, submission, sissy, crossdressing, fetish, and more to come.

Each template provides 7 days of structured tasks: 2 in the morning, 1 in the afternoon, and 1 in the evening. These are designed to be shared and worked through together within my Discord community.

There’ll be something different every day to keep you on your toes nothing generic or low-effort, all carefully thought out and designed to keep things engaging.

Content Protection Update: I’ve implemented a new feature to ensure that all templates (tasks) are safe from theft or unauthorized reuse. If someone tries to copy or steal the content whether from the page or through the clipboard you will be met with a poisoned clipboard message saying 'protected content,' and the text will be garbled or replaced.

This system is only bypassed by Patreon members, ensuring that the content remains exclusive to those supporting the community.

So rest assured, your tasks will stay within the safe circle of members, keeping everything secure and intact.

Hmmm I wonder if I could convince people to join me in forming a living rainbow. I think itd be fun

I do not own the image used in the caption. If you own or are in it and want it taken down then message me I will remove it.

The Cost of a Click

Every day, so many people share their images online or send them through their phones without a second thought. It’s easy, quick a moment’s impulse. But that one click can carry a weight they never imagined.

I’ve seen the damage when those pictures fall into the wrong hands. Sometimes, it’s blackmail someone threatening to expose your private self for control or money. Other times, it’s employers stumbling across images and questioning your motives or professionalism, casting shadows on your career. Worst of all, partners who see these photos and suddenly doubt trust, love, or commitment.

I’ve watched relationships crumble, torn apart by a single image shared without caution. What seemed like an innocent act became a bridge to pain, betrayal, and loss.

Whilst I know that AI images are not for everyone, and I don’t intend to use them in my creations all the time, being able to create on my own system when I choose makes life a lot easier and less time consuming for me.

That’s why I choose a different path. I protect my privacy, share only what I’m ready to own, and remind myself and others that some things are worth guarding fiercely. Because once it’s out there, it’s never truly gone.

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The Cost of a Click

Every day, so many people share their images online or send them through their phones without a second thought. It’s easy, quick a moment’s impulse. But that one click can carry a weight they never imagined.

I’ve seen the damage when those pictures fall into the wrong hands. Sometimes, it’s blackmail someone threatening to expose your private self for control or money. Other times, it’s employers stumbling across images and questioning your motives or professionalism, casting shadows on your career. Worst of all, partners who see these photos and suddenly doubt trust, love, or commitment.

I’ve watched relationships crumble, torn apart by a single image shared without caution. What seemed like an innocent act became a bridge to pain, betrayal, and loss.

Whilst I know that AI images are not for everyone, and I don’t intend to use them in my creations all the time, being able to create on my own system when I choose makes life a lot easier and less time consuming for me.

That’s why I choose a different path. I protect my privacy, share only what I’m ready to own, and remind myself and others that some things are worth guarding fiercely. Because once it’s out there, it’s never truly gone.

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Fearful of change?

Afraid of the unknown without someone to guide you toward your true path and potential? You have probably been betrayed by people you once trusted, leaving you guarded and uncertain about who to believe.

I create these posts to place myself in your path not to burden you with demands for tributes, money, or empty promises that I cannot keep. My rules are simple. The lessons I teach and the games we play are all designed to help you become more fulfilled, confident, and happy within yourself.

Whether you are looking to embrace your sissy or cross-dressing lifestyle, exploring your identity as an aspiring trans woman, or wishing to venture deeper into submission, I have the experience and knowledge to guide you further down that path.

I know how to make your heart skip a beat and leave your brow sweating with anticipation

Be your true self

One of the hardest parts of gender exploration and transition is the silent war so many people fight within themselves. Whether someone identifies as a sissy, a cross-dresser, gender fluid, or aspires to fully transition, self-doubt can become a constant companion. So many spend years questioning their feelings, hiding parts of themselves, or believing they are somehow “wrong” for wanting to express who they truly are.

What many people outside these experiences do not understand is that this journey is not simply about clothes, makeup, hormones, or trying to “pass.” At its core, it is about identity, vulnerability, and the painful process of learning to accept yourself in a world that often teaches you to feel ashamed for being different.

Social media has created an illusion that transition is glamorous and effortless for those who appear feminine or who “pass” well. Beautiful photos and confident smiles are often all people see. But behind many of those images are years of fear, loneliness, rejection, dysphoria, financial struggle, and emotional exhaustion that rarely get spoken about openly.

The truth is, transition is not a road covered in roses. For many, it feels more like climbing a steep mountain barefoot carrying the weight of other people’s expectations while fighting your own insecurities every step of the way. There are moments of joy and self-discovery, but also moments where you question everything about yourself.

And perhaps the most important lesson is this: your journey should never be about becoming somebody else. It should never be about chasing impossible standards created by strangers online. True growth comes from embracing your own truth, your own pace, and your own version of happiness.

Not everyone’s path will look the same, and that is okay. Some people transition socially, some medically, some privately, and some simply learn to express hidden parts of themselves without changing their entire lives. None of those experiences are less valid.

The goal is not perfection.

The goal is peace within yourself.

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The rabbit hole - tick tock

You may be questioning your choices right now, wondering what the hell you’re doing. You’re standing on the edge of a rabbit hole. From afar, you’ve already peered inside, and little by little those feelings have started creeping over you.

On your journey to me, you may have been taken advantage of by unscrupulous pests who made you question yourself. But you only get one life, so you might as well fill it with as many adventures as possible. And what better place to start than by exploring yourself especially with an honest and respected guide to take you on that journey?

I create content that inspires, resonates, and builds confidence. Alongside that, I offer experiences where I can build you up or tear you down purely for my pleasure and yours.

Every day, I write new assignments, along with punishments for failure. You won’t find the same recycled nonsense you see elsewhere. With more than 3,000 assignments to keep you occupied, plus regular tasks shared through chat and within my community, there’s always something new waiting for you.

Safe. Private. Unforgettable, that is what it is to be owned by me.

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So if you pay attention to me you might have noticed I havent posted in about a week. Well... I was on vacation for my birthday during the end of May. But I am back now, and just in time for Pride, expect ALOT of rainbows.

I do not own the image used in the caption. If you own or are in it and want it taken down then message me I will remove it.

Just giving not taking

Nearly all of the money from my Patreon is donated to charities chosen by my members rather than lining my own pocket, so feel free to reach out and say hello in confidence.

My experience in helping people explore and embrace their feminine and submissive sides is something many have found genuinely beneficial, supportive, and empowering. Whether you are curious, uncertain, or already on your journey, you will always be treated with respect and discretion.

--

One of the major reasons people are becoming verbally paralysed when it comes to approaching someone like myself is the influx of would-be scroungers flooding DM's offering everything and delivering nothing once you’ve signed on the dotted line.

Many of you will already have read the testimonials from people who either support what I do or have met me in person. I regularly spend 2–3 days a week chatting in both group and individual sessions. There is a reason I have one of the largest followings and have remained established for many years.

You will never find me in your messages unless you contact me first, or unless I genuinely have advice worth giving. The way a true Mistress operates is usually through word of mouth, and if she is worth her salt, she will already be inundated with requests. There is no need to chase people when your reputation speaks for itself.

🅣🅢🅐🅑🅑🅔🅨🅒🅗🅐🅢🅔

On My Knees

She knelt before him, heart pounding with a mixture of fear and desire. Dressed in delicate silk and trembling in submission, she wondered what he would do if she offered herself like this a perfect sissy gurl, crossdresser, or trans woman vulnerable and eager. His eyes darkened with appetite as he stepped closer, and in that charged silence, she surrendered to the unknown ready for whatever he chose to claim.

Most of my new material is on Patreon along with a new task game from monday only availble in tiers (sissy school) and up. Very much like the Obedience app but free, tasks throught the day 7 days a week, adding new functions to it.

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A Night Among Sisters

That night was everything I’d ever dreamed of and more. Dressed in silk and lace, i stepped into a room filled with others like me girls who understood the secret language of satin and heels, of painted nails and whispered laughter. We twirled beneath soft lights, sharing stories of hidden desires and quiet struggles, our smiles blooming like flowers in spring. For the first time, i wasn’t alone. Here, i could play, explore, and be utterly free surrounded by sisters who celebrated every inch of my femininity. In their warmth, I found courage, joy, and the promise that this was only the beginning of my journey.

Sorry the (i) sticks on my keyboard, whilst not an overall fan of ai images I have automatic and forge installed on my pc, so from time time I make captions using them, like most I prefer the real thing.

Most new stuff will now go on patreon.

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Be your true self

One of the hardest parts of gender exploration and transition is the silent war so many people fight within themselves. Whether someone identifies as a sissy, a cross-dresser, gender fluid, or aspires to fully transition, self-doubt can become a constant companion. So many spend years questioning their feelings, hiding parts of themselves, or believing they are somehow “wrong” for wanting to express who they truly are.

What many people outside these experiences do not understand is that this journey is not simply about clothes, makeup, hormones, or trying to “pass.” At its core, it is about identity, vulnerability, and the painful process of learning to accept yourself in a world that often teaches you to feel ashamed for being different.

Social media has created an illusion that transition is glamorous and effortless for those who appear feminine or who “pass” well. Beautiful photos and confident smiles are often all people see. But behind many of those images are years of fear, loneliness, rejection, dysphoria, financial struggle, and emotional exhaustion that rarely get spoken about openly.

The truth is, transition is not a road covered in roses. For many, it feels more like climbing a steep mountain barefoot carrying the weight of other people’s expectations while fighting your own insecurities every step of the way. There are moments of joy and self-discovery, but also moments where you question everything about yourself.

And perhaps the most important lesson is this: your journey should never be about becoming somebody else. It should never be about chasing impossible standards created by strangers online. True growth comes from embracing your own truth, your own pace, and your own version of happiness.

Not everyone’s path will look the same, and that is okay. Some people transition socially, some medically, some privately, and some simply learn to express hidden parts of themselves without changing their entire lives. None of those experiences are less valid.

The goal is not perfection. The goal is peace within yourself.

🅣🅢🅐🅑🅑🅔🅨🅒🅗🅐🅢🅔

Changes are afoot

With taking time to create content for the community, especially the games, it’s had an impact on how much time I’ve been able to spend with my community. As of today, my games will become a secondary focus, and spending time with those who support what I do will become my primary focus.

So wake up and realise your potential: On discord regular again.

Most weeks, I try to dedicate 2–3 days to chatting, both in group settings and in individual play sessions. At times, this can be difficult due to work and other outside commitments.

A few people will moan and complain, wanting more of my time without actually recognising what they are already getting. Very few Mistresses, let alone therapists, will spend this amount of time with you. If you’re in doubt, take a look around for yourself.

Unlike most of the flakes on here who are desperate for your money, I work full-time, pay my mortgage, and cover my own bills. Every penny received through Patreon is donated to charities chosen by my members.

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Join Sissy school or subby school WWW.PATREON.COM/TSABBEYCHASE

There is a burning question

What does your Mistress provide you with? I will hazzard a guess, its not very much at all, so why are you there?

If you are a Sissy, Crossdresser or Sub surely you will want to be with someone who drive you to become better at eveything you do, someone who will spend time with you regardless of tributes, findom or asking for money.

I only ask people to support my Patreon to help with the time and effort that goes into the creation of the content I provide, which by the way, get given to charites chosen by my members.

Coming this June and later in year

I'm SO excited to share the biggest update yet to the Sissy, Crossdressing & Aspiring Trans Clothing "Styler"Perfect Fit! This has been a labor of love, and I think you're going to absolutely adore the new features.

Gone are the days of guessing! The new weighted scoring system analyzes your measurements and finds your perfect fit

Brand-Specific Size Adjustments

Every brand fits differently - now you'll know exactly what to expect:

ASOS - True to size

Boohoo - Runs slightly small (size up!)

H&M- Runs slightly large

Zara - Runs small - definitely size up

Shein - Runs small - check size charts

M&S - True to UK sizing

...and more!

Each brand link now shows sizing notes so you know what to expect before you shop!

No AI used in the coding of this App

Waiting at the moment to get it listed on the playstore and ios, where you will be able to buy the app or patreon and kickstarter members will have free access.

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There is a burning question

What does your Mistress provide you with? I will hazzard a guess, its not very much at all, so why are you there?

If you are a Sissy, Crossdresser or Sub surely you will want to be with someone who drive you to become better at eveything you do, someone who will spend time with you regardless of tributes, findom or asking for money.

I only ask people to support my Patreon to help with the time and effort that goes into the creation of the content I provide, which by the way, get given to charites chosen by my members.

Coming this June and later in year

I'm SO excited to share the biggest update yet to the Sissy, Crossdressing & Aspiring Trans Clothing "Styler"Perfect Fit! This has been a labor of love, and I think you're going to absolutely adore the new features.

Gone are the days of guessing! The new weighted scoring system analyzes your measurements and finds your perfect fit

Brand-Specific Size Adjustments

Every brand fits differently - now you'll know exactly what to expect:

ASOS - True to size

Boohoo - Runs slightly small (size up!)

H&M- Runs slightly large

Zara - Runs small - definitely size up

Shein - Runs small - check size charts

M&S - True to UK sizing

...and more!

Each brand link now shows sizing notes so you know what to expect before you shop!

No AI used in the coding of this App

Waiting at the moment to get it listed on the playstore and ios, where you will be able to buy the app or patreon and kickstarter members will have free access.

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Think tinder but for Sissy's, crossdressers, subs and everything inbetween, you want to make new friends, find someone to dressup and go out with, be a little more intimate with, or just explore a little more.

Then "Meatu" will be the must have app 100% LGBTQ+ friendly, safe, secure and private, still in the build and testing stages, I have used the data model from my popular sissymap to get me started so theres a good few thousand members already assigned, and I will be enroling more closer to the date of release.

This will also be availble on Playstore and ios at the moment it is in holding for testing. Patreon members Sissy Premium and above will get free access others will have to buy the app and subscribe!

Everyone moans about having a Mistress, but I do more for the community than any other in the form of creating fresh new resources and content and you will identify with, so support what I do and become part of my community.

Not availble yet.

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Like what you see and have read Follow | Support |Join Sissy Subby Feminization school WWW.PATREON.COM/TSABBEYCHASE

Like what I create? RELOG IT