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What's funny is the game encourages you to build Nice Nature as a debuffer, which I guess means the other umas are so freaked out by how Normal™ she is that they can't focus on the race.

happy tdov heres a comic i drew ages ago about being genderfluid

seeing shit like this as a still ugly adult woman is so discouraging. no actually im not an entirely different category outside of "woman" bc i was born with this face and dont like wearing makeup. every woman is just as special as you and me and we are all still women. you are worsening the societal pressure on not conventionally attractive women to either transition, identify as something not-woman-y as to justify their exitence or crumble and conform.

I feel both more attractive and like a pig with lipstick on when I'm performing femininity. Around other women I feel like a hulking beast even when performing femininity and also when I'm just existing in loose "masculine"clothing. I relate so so much to 2/3ds of this comic and then it just lets me down. Conventionally unattractive body dysmorphic/dysphoric women are still female in the end and the conclusion that "since I don't fit in with sexist gender stereotypes I'm not a woman" is disappointing af

just. dont ever talk about any experience of sexist oppression having anything to do with a person's assigned sex at birth. i promise you that whatever you're going through """""""as an afab""""""""""""" is something that trans women routinely experience as well, and that for them it's worsened by transmisogyny. YES this includes reproductive health access dont even fucking start with me. have you ever even heard of a women's health clinic providing trans women with reproductive banking, or any options that would make it possible for them to become mothers at all? no? okay. every single sexist experience under the sun is one that impacts trans women except in their case they are completely erased from mainstream feminist conversations about the issue at all. none of this is afab specific and you dont just sound like a terf when you say that it is, you in actual fact are promoting transmisogyny. instead of issuing such exclusionary blanket statements you can just have some amount of humility and curiosity on the matter and listen to trans women

No. Gender has one purpose: socialize men to be dominant and women to be subordinate. Occasionally gay men get shoved into a third role and even more rarely lesbians get shoved into a different one. Everything else is make believe while the intent of gender remains. It should be abolished, not decorated. If everyone identified as nonbinary tomorrow, you'd notice the same half of the population is still oppressed by the other half.