TendYourMind🧠

I’ve been showing up for myself and I’m loving the feeling. I’m starting to feel more in tune with myself and soul.

I feel at peace and a sense of tranquility. Here’s to working on myself and showing up for my self. 🥂

I’ve just finished reading the Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz and learned many valuable principles that I’d like to share with everyone so we can foster a new way of living by shifting our mindsets. Let’s shift our mindsets from living in fear to living in love with YOURSELF and the world and everything around you ✨💖

Be Impeccable With Your Word 💁🏽‍♀️

Don’t use words to harm yourself or others

No gossip or talking down about people

No negative self talk

Only speak truthfully, kindly, and clearly with intention & integrity

Words are powerful 🔋💥They shape confidence, relationships, identity.

2. Don’t Take Anything Personally 🙅🏽‍♀️

What others say and do is about them, not you

Praise doesn’t define you; criticism doesn’t destroy you

Stop absorbing other people’s projections

Taking things personally keeps you emotionally reactive. Letting go gives you freedom and peace ✌️ ☮️

3.Don’t Make Assumptions 🙅🏽‍♀️

Stop guessing what others think, want, or mean

Ask questions instead of filling in the blanks

Don’t assume silence = rejection

Assumptions create misunderstandings and unnecessary conflict.

4.Always Do Your Best ✨

Show up without self punishment

Don’t overdo it to prove worth

Let go of perfectionism

When you do your best, there’s no regret, guilt, or judgment , only growth 🌱

Remember: Love, Truth, & Awareness replaces shame & fear

So if there’s anything you can take from this is, Change the way you speak, stop personalizing, ask instead of assuming, and give yourself & others grace and watch your whole life shift 🍃

So excited for 2026 🎉

2025 was a year of

reflection

growth

love

and peace ☮️

I’ve learned more about myself this year (weaknesses & strengths)

I’ve learned my love languages

I’ve learned what I want & need from friends & relationships 💕

I’ve grown in my career ✨☄️

Im in a new relationship and feel loved 🥰

I’ve moved on from toxic friendships

I’ve made a higher income 💸

I’ve gotten closer to Jesus 🙏🏽❤️

I’ve found peace in my home 🏠

Happy Anniversary to Tend Your Mind blog 😇

For this post, I really want to share with Tumblr my strong belief in manifestation.

I’ve always been a strong believer in the law of attraction ever since reading The Secret.

The Law of Attraction is the idea that our thoughts and intentions determine what we attract ✨

While Manifestation is the power of belief in effectively thinking/visualizing a goal into reality.

Everything I am today and have is certainly because of my strong values, principles, and actions that have lead me to reach goals and a positive state of happiness. But I could not have done any of it with out the belief of manifestation and the law of attraction.

I truly set the intention of what I want and my heart most desires.

Then I think it, visualize it, and wish it to existence.

I know , some might say, manifestation is like “magical thinking” sure it’s something like that but I firmly believe that if you’re a strong believer of manifesting goals and acting upon them then you will most certainly accomplish your goals. ✨

Manifesting something into reality only becomes real if you set your intention straight, really believe in it, and act upon it with a positive attitude.

Hopefully for this new year, 2025, we can manifest and attract what our hearts most desire 💫

Think it, speak it, and do it into existence 💞

You are beautiful soul 🔥💖

Thank you my friend!! You are so kind ♥️