Hi. I hope it does not sound so dumb from me to ask, but, was there noticeable grief from Hamilton after Washington's passing in 1799?
Hi, and no, not at all! And to be honest, I myself donāt have that deep of a knowledge on this topic, but Iāll try my best to answer as much as I can- though some of this(or all) may already be familiar to you.
As far as I know, Hamiltonās noticeable grief over Washingtonās passing can be seen in his letters to Charles Cotesworth Pinckney (1), Martha Washington (2), and Tobias Lear (3).Ā
āI can be at no loss to anticipate what have been your feelings. I need not tell you what are mine. Perhaps no friend of his has more cause to lament, on personal account, than my self. The public misfortune is one which all the friends of our Government will view in the same light. I will not dwell on the subject. My Imagination is gloomy my heart sad.ā
-Alexander Hamilton to Charles Cotesworth Pinckney, [22] December 1799 (x)
āI did not thing it proper, Madam, to intrude amidst the first effusions of your grief. But I can no longer restrain my sensibility from conveying to you an imperfect expression of my affectionate sympathy in the sorrows you experience. No one, better than myself, knows the greatness of your loss, or how much your excellent heart is formed to feel it in all its extent. Satisfied that you cannot receive consolation, I will attempt to offer none. Resignation to the will of Heaven, which the practice of your life ensures, can alone alleviate the sufferings of so heart-rending an affliction.
There can be few, who equally with me participate in the loss you deplore. In expressing this sentiment, I may without impropriety allude to the numerous and distinguished marks of confidence and friendship, of which you have yourself been a Witness; but I cannot say in how many ways the continuance of that confidence and friendship was necessary to me in future relations.
Vain, however, are regrets. From a calamity, which is common to a mourning nation, who can expect to be exempt? Perhaps it is even a privilege to have a claim to a larger portion of it than others.ā
-Alexander Hamilton to Martha Washington, 12 January 1800 (x)
āThe very painful event which it announces had, previously to the receipt of it, filled my heart with bitterness. Perhaps no man in this community has equal cause with myself to deplore the loss. I have been much indebted to the kindness of the General, and he was an Aegis very essential to me. But regrets are unavailing. For great misfortunes it is the business of reason to seek consolation. The friends of General Washington have very noble ones. If virtue can secure happiness in another world he is happy. In this the Seal is now put upon his Glory. It is no longer in jeopardy from the fickleness of fortune.ā
-Alexander Hamilton to Tobias Lear, 2 January 1800 (x)
In my opinion, Tobias Learās reply to Hamilton is also quite interesting and revealing in this context, as he was the person most involved in handling Washington and Hamiltonās correspondence.
āNo one living, besides yourself, knows so well as I do, the loss whichĀ youĀ have sustained by the Generalās death. And I know, at the same time, that no one, under these circumstances, could find a greater resource in himself than you can.ā
-Tobias Lear to Alexander Hamilton, 16 January 1800 (x)