Why not use technology's eyes?
I miss my friends. Yes, I do.
Do you? Yes, I know you do.
With this fast paced and changing life most of us are getting distances in our relationships. We are getting far and far from our friends with whom we used to have a lot of fun. Those memories being washed away and we are becoming more and more materialistic. We want money, we may care a bit about those who are with us but forget everyone else.
One of the reason could be technology that instead of bringing it closer it is making us far away. It is making us more and more busy that we are glued to our computers, iPads, televisions and just not having time to go and meet our friends and relatives. Well, I kind of agree to it. But then there is a glitch here. I do not completely agree to it because apart from increasing the distance, technology has tried its best to eliminate this distance as well. You can be in touch with your so very distant pals and relatives which you used to meet once a year may be and that only by travelling thousands of miles. And how technology is doing that? Webcam.
This small eye, on your laptop or desktop is actually a miraculous thing.
This one thing makes all the emotions alive which we somehow miss when we communicate with our loved ones via emails or phones.Â
The other night I was online and chatting with a very old friend of mine. We hardly talk now but she came online and turned on her webcam and we chatted for like 1 whole hour. She had become mom recently and I met her baby boy. He was so very cute and literally felt like holding him. The webcam not only made me close to her but brought me in that similar heart to heart connection we had when we used to be living nearby.
In another similar case, another friend who is doing her Ph. D. from a far away state pinged me on chat. I was surprised to see her and felt like I had completely forgotten her. And she had a webcam available sign and I started the video chat. She showed me her hostel room, the dirty one with clothes hanging everywhere, rather an alive room. And yet again, the webcam did its miracle and we were alive again.
Webcam is an instrument wrong people use to find girls, watch them and may be seduce them to a bit that they start showing off. But that's rare and a separate dimension. But regular people who rely on chat only despite of having a webcam, I would say are lagging behind and are creating distance in relationships themselves.
When technology has given us a tool to actually minimize the distance and connect with your loved ones, why not use it? You make a new friend, after casual chats, why not go on webcam and see each other. It helps you relate more. No?
Why I wrote all this? Well, I have asked some more of my friends to come on cam but they are like, no.. I am shy.. It is not good to be on webcam? Duh!? If you do wrong on cam, then it is wrong. Just showing up is not wrong! If it was wrong why would you talk to your family members on cam? Family is ok but friends are a part too. If not in real, virtual world friendship aint hard too. Instead a good subsititute to real world friendship. You can be more in touch.Â
People say, security? Yes, its a big concern, but is it not a concern with real life friends? Do you know the person you are being friends with is a genuine guy and is exactly what he is saying? In that case, I would rather second the thought that you are more safe online than with real friends. If for that matter girls become friends with boys online, and if they do not turn out as good guys you didn't lose anything. Did you? But if the real life guy came out as a wrong guy you may lose a lot.
I am not saying make online friends only. But with current friends, which you know are good, you should have a little more life in the relationship and webcam is one good source of it.Â
Think about it and please leave comments..!