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I’m guessing you are refering to this article by fempositive? 

Here is a modified list for wlw based on my thouts and experiences!

1. You don’t have to shave unless you want to. If you want to shave your genitals but not go full brazillian, try leaving hair on the mons pubis and upward. Just shaving the lips can make oral sex easier. Same goes for women with penises, not to mention that for some shaving parts or your entire genital area can relieve dysphoria.

2. Use conditioner as shaving cream. Works for the whole body, even the crotch area and it gets a closer shave than shaving cream.

3. Get reguarly tested for STIs/STDs. There’s a myth that women who sleep with women can’t get them but that’s untrue. Some infections like chlamydia have a harder tie trasmitting but some, like herpes and genital warts and crabs spread as easily as for any other gender/sex arrangement.

4. You can’t get rid of stretch marks. They’re basically scars and will fade a lil with time but will always be with you. Learn to love your body as is - most women have them and we don’t mind them on our partners!

5. the original advice here is sound: razors markeded towards men are cheaper so if you want to shave, use one of those

6. partially still sound advice. Peeing after sex can help prevent UTIs, but not STDs as she claims. at least not all of them. for example chlamydia spreads mucus membrane to mucus membrane or sexual fluid to mucus membrane, so while mouth/tongue-to-vulva sex is considdered the safest type of unprotected sex, a siscor/tribbing position could let it spread. Use dental dams if you want to be as safe as possible.

7. Keep dental dams, condoms (can be turned into dams or used by women with penises), plastic gloves, and lube available when you go out. This is the time where it’s a positive that women are expected to carry large purses.

8. Acne’s not the end of the world and in my experience I and my wlw friends hardly notice it. If it hurts, treat it with some Ultrabalm from lush (literally works on everything!) but otherwise leave it be. If it becomes a problem seek medical advice.

9. It’s preferable to remove any lip products before going down on a vulva. If you intend to get really freaky wipe off your nose and chin too. The chemicals in make up can be nasty to your mucus membranes.

10. If you absolutely have to wear makeup when going down on someone, use a dental dam

11. If you want to keep your nails long but still want to be able to finger ya lady, wear powder-free single use gloves and put some cotton on the back of your nails - it will take the edge off! for an even smoother feel, acrylic nails thicken the nail and make it less scratchy.

12. As I mentioned earlier, wlw usually don’t find the stuff sraight men think is attractive as attractive on women. When deciding how to look think about how you feel comfortable and go with that. I wear skinny jeans and boots to the club and nothing can stop me.

13. Don’t add stuff to your vagina. Like at all. It has a natural cleaning mechanism and if you disrupt the pH it is likely you’ll develop a yeast infection. Do pleas clean your vulva tho, but just with warm water. If you have a penis, same goes - only warm water on the glans. Soap can be used wherever there is ordinary skin.

14. Baths are great but don’t soak too long or too often if you add a lot of bath bombs or salts or bubbles. It might dry out or irritate your vulva/glans penis.

15. Don’t over exfoliate! Do it maybe once a month max! And when exfoliating your face, use a softer exfoliator as the skin there is more sensitive. Don’t exfoliate your genitals please.

16. Unless your partner got a foot fetish they’re probably not gonna care how dry your feet are. Just wash them with soap and moisturize them as you would the rest of your body.

17. If you find out a lady you’re flirting with is straight, don’t continue to pursue her - remember how that feels when straight men do it to you.

18. regardless if you are the femmiest femme or the butchiest butch or anything else - you are woman enough. We are taught from society that our womanhood is hingent on our sexual uses for men, and that can hit hard when dating and sleeping with women. We might question ourselves and our self worth, but you are enough. You are woman enough - especially trans women!

19. ALWAYS. GET. CONCENT. BEFORE. YOU. DO. ANYTHING.

20. Who cares about blackheads! Most of the things we even calle blackheads aren’t, they’re the natural state of your pores and it will just hurt your face trying to “mend” them!

Pay attention to EVERYTHING, all the textures and materials. You’ll want to stick with high quality woods, marbles, fabrics, and metals. Match them all per room if you can.

Kitchen: plateware, glassware (need tons of decanters and wine glasses), trays, fruits, teas, liquors, ice cream maker, blender, utensils, fun ice trays (if your fridge doesn’t have an automatic ice dispenser), comfortable but stunning rugs, cocktail mixer. Focus should be straight lines here—find the curves in interesting plateware and glassware.

Living room: card games, checkers or chess, coasters, plants, chaises and daybeds, instruments, books, art pieces, record player/gramophone, large area rug, aquarium, lamps, planetarium lights, ashtray (if you smoke), candles of all shapes and sizes, ambiance lighting, bar cart, dramatic curtains, throw pillows and blankets (fur, leather, or velvet). Keep the lines in this room curved.

Bedroom: decanter with two glasses filled with water (to drink at night), ambiance lighting, dramatic curtains, art pieces, couch or chaise if big enough, bar cart (for weed as well if you smoke), quality sheets, unique comforter, wonderful backboard, beauty area with its own seating, plants, large area rug, speaker or record player, trays and open shelving for little decorations, water feature. Play with furs, leathers, silks, and velvets. Lines in this room should definitely be a mixture between straight and curved.

I’m guessing you are refering to this article by fempositive? 

Here is a modified list for wlw based on my thouts and experiences!

1. You don’t have to shave unless you want to. If you want to shave your genitals but not go full brazillian, try leaving hair on the mons pubis and upward. Just shaving the lips can make oral sex easier. Same goes for women with penises, not to mention that for some shaving parts or your entire genital area can relieve dysphoria.

2. Use conditioner as shaving cream. Works for the whole body, even the crotch area and it gets a closer shave than shaving cream.

3. Get reguarly tested for STIs/STDs. There’s a myth that women who sleep with women can’t get them but that’s untrue. Some infections like chlamydia have a harder tie trasmitting but some, like herpes and genital warts and crabs spread as easily as for any other gender/sex arrangement.

4. You can’t get rid of stretch marks. They’re basically scars and will fade a lil with time but will always be with you. Learn to love your body as is - most women have them and we don’t mind them on our partners!

5. the original advice here is sound: razors markeded towards men are cheaper so if you want to shave, use one of those

6. partially still sound advice. Peeing after sex can help prevent UTIs, but not STDs as she claims. at least not all of them. for example chlamydia spreads mucus membrane to mucus membrane or sexual fluid to mucus membrane, so while mouth/tongue-to-vulva sex is considdered the safest type of unprotected sex, a siscor/tribbing position could let it spread. Use dental dams if you want to be as safe as possible.

7. Keep dental dams, condoms (can be turned into dams or used by women with penises), plastic gloves, and lube available when you go out. This is the time where it’s a positive that women are expected to carry large purses.

8. Acne’s not the end of the world and in my experience I and my wlw friends hardly notice it. If it hurts, treat it with some Ultrabalm from lush (literally works on everything!) but otherwise leave it be. If it becomes a problem seek medical advice.

9. It’s preferable to remove any lip products before going down on a vulva. If you intend to get really freaky wipe off your nose and chin too. The chemicals in make up can be nasty to your mucus membranes.

10. If you absolutely have to wear makeup when going down on someone, use a dental dam

11. If you want to keep your nails long but still want to be able to finger ya lady, wear powder-free single use gloves and put some cotton on the back of your nails - it will take the edge off! for an even smoother feel, acrylic nails thicken the nail and make it less scratchy.

12. As I mentioned earlier, wlw usually don’t find the stuff sraight men think is attractive as attractive on women. When deciding how to look think about how you feel comfortable and go with that. I wear skinny jeans and boots to the club and nothing can stop me.

13. Don’t add stuff to your vagina. Like at all. It has a natural cleaning mechanism and if you disrupt the pH it is likely you’ll develop a yeast infection. Do pleas clean your vulva tho, but just with warm water. If you have a penis, same goes - only warm water on the glans. Soap can be used wherever there is ordinary skin.

14. Baths are great but don’t soak too long or too often if you add a lot of bath bombs or salts or bubbles. It might dry out or irritate your vulva/glans penis.

15. Don’t over exfoliate! Do it maybe once a month max! And when exfoliating your face, use a softer exfoliator as the skin there is more sensitive. Don’t exfoliate your genitals please.

16. Unless your partner got a foot fetish they’re probably not gonna care how dry your feet are. Just wash them with soap and moisturize them as you would the rest of your body.

17. If you find out a lady you’re flirting with is straight, don’t continue to pursue her - remember how that feels when straight men do it to you.

18. regardless if you are the femmiest femme or the butchiest butch or anything else - you are woman enough. We are taught from society that our womanhood is hingent on our sexual uses for men, and that can hit hard when dating and sleeping with women. We might question ourselves and our self worth, but you are enough. You are woman enough - especially trans women!

19. ALWAYS. GET. CONCENT. BEFORE. YOU. DO. ANYTHING.

20. Who cares about blackheads! Most of the things we even calle blackheads aren’t, they’re the natural state of your pores and it will just hurt your face trying to “mend” them!