tingly

hi mutuals im moving to a new acc and abandoning this one, i jus followed u all! dont wanna mention the @ here but it has a brown and blue theme hopefully u can find it. dm if u cant!!

One thing that really sucks about getting more confident in yourself and your identity is that a lot of things you used to be able to just ignore are suddenly a way bigger deal. Small dick jokes aren't funny. Virgin/sexless jokes aren't funny. Jokes hinging on "incorrect" gender presentation or sex characteristics aren't funny! Offhanded blanket comments about men or women or sex or romance are so much more infuriating now. People use AFAB/AMAB to imply things about bodies and I want to lose my shit. Being more of myself is fucking awesome but man, it really reveals how little of myself is truly acceptable to anyone.

Not derailing at all, excellent addition! This is very much in the same vein. It's like... people can be/want to be accepting, but still have blind spots that they don't think about. There's a lot of jokes based on attitudes that are offensive as hell in some way but so culturally ingrained that people don't think deeply about them, and they inadvertently end up hurting people when they use them. Sometimes they genuinely don't mean to, but it still sucks all the same. (It's usually a faux pas to call it out, too, so it can be awkward and difficult to communicate that what they said was hurtful. And because those sorts of comments are so normalized, people are primed to be dismissive when you do and say that well of course they weren't referring to you, people like you are an exception to this joke.)

I want the USA to become a myth. I want future generations to roll thier eyes at the very concept of it—to laugh at the idea that a society so nakedly built on the foundations of cruelty and greed could ever have existed at all.

sometimes i think love triangles should be resolved by polyamory but badly like everyone’s still mad

I have nothing against trans girl headcanon stuff where people are like "this character would dress and present exactly the same as they did pretransition" but its always applied to characters it absolutely would not apply to

"if jesse pinkman transitioned she'd still dress the same and stuff she'd be a masc lesbian" jesse pinkman is extremely self destructive, infatuated with self image, prone to becoming attached to older men, has had zero healthy conduits for expressing femininity, and has an obscene amount of drug money to drop on plastic surgery and tiny black bodycon dresses she would not be fucking masc she would end up on mugshawtys 6 months into her transition

something has to be done about mormons this cannot continue

It’s literally just a religion like any other. Im sick of people acting like this about my culture

you gotta get outta there

As another LDS person (or, a mormon), please elaborate on what you're talking about. There are reasons for things that I can politely explain if given the information you have.

You gotta get outta there