Taking a Night Drive

Linnea Sterte

Our system is broken.  It is cruel.  It is dehumanizing, degrading, and it’s vile nature is so, so unnecessary.

We need universal healthcare today in America.  We needed it 40 years ago.  It’s cheaper, it’s simpler, it’s more efficient, it’s more effective and it is so, so, so much less cruel than what we have.

Additional sources/references:

Universal Healthcare Cost in America would be cheaper by trillions of dollars

The US has worse life expectancies than socialized healthcare countries

We have worse generalized healthcare results

We have the most expensive care

Our system is so cruel and unique that doctors from other countries literally can’t believe what happens here

I can’t tell you where or how to activate to help solve this.  There are politicians, groups, and activists pushing for this in so many ways.  I can tell you when, though.

He insists on punishments only. He refuses the application of a safe word indicating that he has never allowed a safe word before with his previous subs. He demands submission. Then he calls me unfit to be a submissive because I asked why he isn’t taking the time to learn me, put safety protocols in place or ease into the relationship so we can trust each other and then dive deeper. He demands consistency and discipline from me and exercises none himself.

Am I going insane here? When did obedience come before trust? How is submission not earned but demanded? What did I do wrong? How does that make me not submissive material?

@instructor144, @submissive-seeking, @thetriskeliondiaries, @the-faculty and others help me understand, please.

But, yes, I can help you understand.

This is not a man who understands the Power Exchange in the slightest.

He is not safe.

He is at the very least domineering, but more likely a lying narcissist.

He blames his failures on you by attempting to shame and name call.

“…unfit to be a submissive …” is the fake dom version of 16 year old boy saying “If you loved me, you would…”

Here’s some handy memes to add to your collection.

The first one is the answer about safewords.

The second answers to his completely obvious inauthentic bullshit.

The third answers your question about obedience (submission) and trust.

The fourth is what it is your looking for in a fully formed, functional Dominant. It’s not the kinky fuckery.

Oh and one last meme. This one’s directed to him.