Enslaved Adventure

You know how sad it makes me, right? You know the brief high isn’t worth the come down. That the temporary rush can’t compare to the build up. I’m always disappointed after. That I didn’t go longer, that I heard “Yes” instead of “No” to my question, which I know sounded like I wanted a positive answer to but I didn’t really! I love how my pussy leaks, how my clit throbs and all I can think of is you, or me, or anyone touching it. Why would I want an end to that? So soft, wet, warm and all for you, why spoil all that effort? Sitting here squirming looking for any sort of friction and finding none. Desperately hoping you’ll softly tease my lips, my clit, let me lick you in thanks for your longed for attention and come across my face.

You won’t let me cum, will you? You know how sad it makes me. I much prefer humping your hand, while you stare at me with lust filled eyes, knowing you’re going to take your hand away soon and leave me gasping. Slap my ass, my pussy, leaving trails of my wetness all over me. Gently tickling my most sensitive parts with clever fingers. Making me beg for an orgasm we both know I don’t want.

Or “Please deny me” - the most erotic words a desperate sub can say.

You have 15 minutes to write out - in detail - your most deeply held fantasies. You must edge 5 times before you begin writing, and have been fully hard for at least 30 minutes.

You will kneel at a desk when you start writing your fantasies, you are cuffed to the table, so there will be no touching. You will have a big metal ring hanging loosely on your hard cock when you start.

The writing of your fantasies alone must keep you hard for the full 15 minutes. If the ring falls off at any time before you complete the 15 minute task, you have failed. You will be locked up in your chastity cage for a number of days equal to the number of minutes you completed before the ring hit the floor: so, the further onto your fantasies you made it, the longer you’ll have to wait, thinking about them, before you can get hard again.

Now, if you make it to the end, you will have written your most intimate images and fantasies to survive. Your Mistress will now get to enjoy reading them at her leisure. Winning means she will grant one of them, of her choosing.

Do you think you can write for 15 minutes staying fully hard without one or two nuggets of fantasies which cause you some degree of fear?

Think she might pick up on those?

I absolutely love being a hotwife. One of the best parts for me is driving my husband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. For the purpose of this entry I’m going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relationship, huband for the hotwife’s primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boyfriend), and lover for the other sex partner who’s not the husband.

Here are some techniques I regularly use that I’ve found hotwives and cuckoldresses can use to make their encounters extra fun for their husbands and for themselves.

When Husband is Watching You with Another Man

Eye Contact* - Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contact with him. Eye contact says, “Look at me!” and makes it impossible for either of you to ignore or trivialize what’s going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, depending on your style and the message you’re trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock eyes with my husband while I’m blowing my lover.

Smile* - Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, “Look how much fun I’m having!” and “Everything is OK.” I love to smile at him when I’m riding my lover cowgirl-style.

Say Something* - You don’t have to jabber away, but it’s fun to say things now and then. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husband’s watching. I also like to interact with him, asking, “How are you liking the show?” or “Don’t you wish you were doing this?” I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and how much fun he’s having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are all great things to do, too. It’s also cute to call you husband by terms of endearment like honey, baby, etc. when you’re being fucked by another man.

Dress Up* - High heel shoes, lingerie, nicely done nails, and perfume all say, “I’m putting effort into looking fucking hot for my lover!” You husband will be aroused by your appearance and jealous of the effort to look good for another guy.

When Husband is Listening from Another Room

Go Nuts* - Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encourage your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door and to your husband’s ears, driving him wild with desire and jealousy.

Emerge, then Vanish* - Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where your husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your husband. Then, go back to the bedroom. Close the door. Lock it.

Make a Movie* - Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV in the room where he’s sitting so he can watch live feed! He’ll be scratching at the door in no time.

When Husband is Not Around

Call Him* - It’s fun to call him and put the phone on speaker phone while you’re getting railed. Then, husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is let your other guy call from his phone instead. It’s more humiliating.

Texts* - Like above, but text dirty things. What you’re doing, feeling, etc. Have your other guy send husband dirty pics of what you’re doing.

Get Caught* - I love having my husband walk in on me when he’s not expecting anything. Just make sure that you know he’d be OK with this, and that your lover is also OK with this. Some people don’t like surprises.

Leave Evidence* - Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in his absence.

You may ask yourself, do I have to spank my guy or tie him up to have sex with him? The answer is a resounding, “NO!” You don’t have to do anything. However, if you don’t do anything, how will he know you are in charge?

Simply put, being in charge means that you make the decisions. You know what you want, and you are not afraid to say it. Whether we are talking about buying a new car or choosing a movie to watch, you know what you like. Maybe it isn’t his favorite color, or he hates this actor or that subject, but who cares? The decision is yours to make. If you want to ask for his opinion, there is nothing wrong with that, as long you realize that you are not obligated to do so, nor are you obligated to go with his desires.

Do you have to engage in tease and denial? Do you have to include corporal punishment? Do you have to ask him when he wants to have sex? Or if he wants to be on top? The answer to all these questions is, again, “NO!”

Just because you are in a female led relationship doesn’t mean that you have to do anything special, other than, make up your own mind. If you have to ask him about it, then you are not being in charge. Don’t ask him, tell him. Tell him what YOU want and expect him to do it.

“But, Mistress Ivey? You keep telling us that we have to keep him sexually aroused as much of the time as possible. Are you saying we don’t have to do that?”

Yes. Yes I am. But I am also telling you that keeping him aroused so that he will always want to please you is the best way I know of to keep him doing his best for you. He loves you. He wants to please you. If you enjoy the attention he gives you, then why not reward him for it? That reward may not, and should not, necessarily include an orgasm. That might cause you more problems that is solves. But sexually teasing him… That will keep him doing all those things you enjoy…

Men love orgasms. That is why they have sex as often as they can. But what happens if you deny them an orgasm because you don’t think their behavior warrants one? Their behavior improves. So, no, you don’t have to keep him sexually excited or frustrated, but it helps to keep him compliant. If you can make it a game, you will be able to enjoy it as much as he does. And it will help you to feel more like you are in control, because you will be…

The ultimate control is when you know you control his sexual appetite. That is, when you have made him sexually aroused enough to do almost anything you want so that you will please him, then you will feel more in charge than you probably ever have. By making sex fun for the both of you, you release your inner Goddess and let out the woman he really wants, the one you want to be…

We made our way to the bedroom and ultimately on to the bed. Four people on a bed with the guys on either side and us girls together in the middle. The two of us started making out and touching one another.  I was super turned on when she put her fingers in my pussy. She slid them in and out of me with ease.  The boys came in and claimed their bride by holding us and gently taking off our underwear. My husband laid me back and was kissing me while he played with my pussy. He started asking me if I wanted our friend to fuck me and how much he wanted to see him do that.  My normal response is “I don’t know”.  This is because I worry too much, lol.  He kept suggesting and I kept being too shy to admit I wanted to feel that monster dick inside me. Then I felt hands spread my legs apart and i opened my eyes to see our friend naked above me with his huge cock in his hands. I had her on one side and my husband on the other “encouraging” me. I finally decided to just let it happen.  I had fantasized about it for a long time, ever since I got a glimpse of it months ago.  I had never felt something so big in my hands or ever in my mouth before.  Now I was going to feel him inside me.  I was flushed red as they each pulled a leg back and he put the head of his cock on my pussy lips and pushed the giant head inside me.

Ok let me tell you, I was really wet and he could barely fit that thing inside me. I must have looked like I was in pain, because they asked me if I was okay. Slow, I just wanted him to go slow. I’ve played with big toys and I know sometimes my body just needs to adjust to them. This was different.  It was so warm and soft by comparison.  His cock was super hard but it felt amazing. He was so gentle as he pushed into me, pulled back and then pushed in again.  It was like he was teasing me but any more of him and I might split in half. My husband was relaxing me when the wife started slowly rubbing my clit. It all felt so amazing. I had to see it. I wanted to watch that big, beautiful cock going inside me. I got up on my elbows so I could see what was making me feel so full. All that did was turn me on even more. I had never been stretched like this before. I didn’t know real cocks came in this size.

He was half his length inside me as I felt my orgasm building.  I mean this is ridiculous, I was about have an orgasm within maybe the first 4-5 minutes of sex.  That just doesn’t happen. Or maybe it does. It started to build and everyone knew it.  He didn’t change his tempo and just kept fucking me slowly as she rubbed me clit. My breathing quickened and I started rocking back and forth on his cock and then … my orgasm hit, I clenched down so hard I stopped breathing.  I closed my eyes and everything seemed to disappear. No sound, no lights.  My pussy opened more for him and he started sliding his whole cock inside me which made the orgasm intensify even more. I could never take my toys this deep inside but his cock found a way. There was a point where I wanted it to stop because I literally didn’t think I could handle the intensity, but there was no stopping now. I came over and over as I felt every inch of him pushing in and out of me. I don’t know how long my orgasm was, but it was exhausting.  I tried to focus my eyes and regain some level of composure. His cock was still inside me but he stopped moving and I started to come around. This was literally the most intense orgasm(s) I had ever had…and we had just started.  

Many Sites on the Internet talk about Ruining a Male Orgasm but Don’t actually Discuss the More Effective/Efficient Enslaving Femdom Art Discussed Here - What Most Ladies Are Much More Interested in I Find, is Routine & Habitual “Edging” (Subjugation) of Their Males Psychologically. That’s Playing with Him, Fondling Him, and Masturbating/Stimulating Him - Right to the “Edge” of Orgasm but NOT Actually Letting Him Cum.

Along with Daily Teasing (Physical & Visual), the Trick in the Beginning While Training His Psyche, is Caging Him. Almost Every day that My Male is wearing the penis cage I’ll remove it and Edge Him, at Least Once, if not Twice … After taking a few short breaks & giving him time to rest and recover I Will Then Stat Up All Over Again. Usually a Sleepy Long Cuddling Session Every Morning (often not Real Edging but Just Holding & Feeling His Rock Solid Hardness Rhythmically Pulse & Throb in my Hand, Before we get out of Bed) and then something a lot more Intense and Deliberate in the evening (which might be One Edge or Many in a Row!)  Stroke - Edge - DENY - Repeat…

I always use our morning uncagings and hugging as an excuse/opportunity for him to shower and take it with him to wash it. He knows if I catch him playing with himself while in the shower the penis cage will stay on for a Month or More, So He Doesn’t Dare Do It. I’ve Trained Him Very Well, I Have to Say.

And oh yeah, Never Let Your Male go Pee in the Morning, Until it’s Time For Him to get up and Shower. You See, If He Has to Pee - He'll Helplessly & Quite Naturally, Grow Extra Rock Hard in Your Hand while Your Cuddling & Holding Him in the Morning.

The Real Art with “Edging” (And It Is Most Definitely an Art); is to Learn Exactly How to get Him as Close as Possible to an Explosion without Actually Allowing Him to Erupt !!! If you pay Close Attention while you Fondle & Play, You’ll Learn Precisely the Clear Warning Signs of an Imminent Ejaculation. There’s Nothing Quite Like “Edging” For Subliminally Building a Guys Libido & Desire. Not Only Will He Cherish You More Thanks to Neurochemistry, But within a Short Timeframe His Vulnerable / Exploitable Mind Will Be Totally Under Your Feminine Control …

Here are some powerful training tips:

Make Him “Always” Tell You - Exactly - How Close He is !!! Kind of obvious, but Insist that he Tells you When to Slow Down & When to Stop. Especially in the Beginning While You’re Learning How To Read His Body Language. Keep talking to Him, Ask Him How it Feels, What is Best. You’ll soon get the FEEL of it {LOL} & He’ll Love You Even More For It…

Feel for his body & muscles tensing - Him holding his Breath, Arching his Back or Even Tensing, All Are Signs he’s getting Very Close. Learn to read & understand the Signs and don’t worry if you go over, you’re Learning! Just Be Sure It’s a Libido Building (Subjugating) “Ruined” Orgasm…

Move from strong to soft strokes, from his vein filled shaft up to His Tip - Constantly - “Change It Up” - Take your Time and Make Sure You Get Him Ultra Rock Hard for Maximum Dopamine production in his Vulnerable Brain. I Personally Like Lots of lube / oil and fast but not too tight of strokes, and then as he gets closer & closer, move to an looser grip and then focus on his Hyper-Sensitive head and frenulem (the strip underneath the head at the top where Guys are most sensitive). Also Take Breaks Frequently - It’s Better to Stop One second too Early Than One Second Too Late !!!  Stroke - - Edge - - DENY - - Repeat…

Make it Ultimately HIS Fault if He Erupts. So Again, if he Does Explode, Make Sure You Properly “Ruin it” ; Stop All Rubbing / Stimulation as Soon as he Starts Climax. OR if he’s tied down, you turn it into a post orgasm torture, After the Ruined Orgasm, Where you use his slippery cum as lube to keep rubbing his hypersensitive Joystick - Scolding Him By Saying, ‘You’re so Naughty, I Didn’t Give You Permission To Cum !!!’

When You DO Want to Enjoy His Pent Up Explosions, Make that Part of the Tease Too. When You’re Planning to Make Him Climax & Erupt, This is a great Time to Also Practice your "Edging" Techniques… Use it as an Opportunity to See Just How Crazy You can Make Him, where you’re not worrying about Accidently Taking Him Over the Edge.

Oh and you can add a Wonderfully Sadistic element with this line, ‘If you can hold on for Just five minutes More My Love, I won’t Ruin It when you Do Cum, Okay Baby?’

A Very Effective Mind Fuck & Programming Tool.

His cock is much bigger than yours. To be honest, I prefer it to yours.

I get hornier for him than I do for you.

I plan to start going to him when I need sex.

He’s all I think about some days.

I’m sorry that you don’t like me being gone so much, but I’m not stopping.

This was your idea. You got what you wanted. Deal with it. 

He can fuck me any time he wants.

I’m sorry if you want me to stay, but I’m going over to his place again tonight.

I love you, but he satisfies me.

I’m sorry I didn’t come home last night. He wanted me to stay over.

He has stopped using condoms. I’m good with that.

He doesn’t want me to fuck you at all this week. I told him I felt the same way.

I’m going to spend the night with him whether you like it or not.

I’m still your wife, but this is his pussy. 

(Before sex in front of hubby) Watch how he fucks me. This is how I like it.

(During sex) I love his cock much better than yours!

(During sex) This is the best fuck I’ve ever had. 

(During sex) Watch and learn from him.

(During sex) He’s already lasted ten times longer than you do.

(During sex) I would do anything he says right now.

(After sex) That was the best I ever had.

(After sex) I don’t think my pussy has ever felt this good.