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The 4 pillars of FLR
I call them my four Dāsā¦
Domesticate
Establishing a successful 24/7 female led relationship is a lot of hard work on both parties and on many levels. First of all you both have to agree that this lifestyle is what you want and worth the effort. Once you head down the FLR-road, there might be no turning back. Chances are that you yourself will appreciate the lifestyle more and more as you move along. Your husband/partner on the other hand may begin to dislike it once he realizes his entire life is changing and that it isnāt just a hot fantasy he can wank off to any more. In a female led relationship the hubby needs to be doing the majority of the housework and accepting this is a major challenge for most men.
The process of getting your hubby to accept his new role and take on the household chores is what I refer to as āDomesticationā. It is important for the power exchange in the relationship. The domestication of your man is important for you to be able to feel āin chargeā and for him to feel submissive. Itās what makes the dynamic in a female led relationship work.
Denial
In order to get the attention you need from your husband/partner as you domesticate him, you deny him what he loves most of all, his climax. I use a chastity device for this purpose but it doesnāt have to be a device as long as your hubby is 100% committed and understands the importance of you owning his orgasms. In the beginning you use his orgasms as rewards. You train him with orgasms the same way a dolphin-trainer will slip a fish to a dolphin for doing itās jump. For example; after doing the appointed household chores to your liking, you tell him he has been a really good boy and as a reward he will be allowed to fuck you. You get the idea. Women have been using sex as rewards for thousands of years. The difference here is that he will know that it is a reward and that youāll be doing it continuously with him wanting it to be this way.
As your FLR evolves youāll want to make it harder and harder for him to get his rewards until you find a cyclus that suits your relationship. In time, if you succeed, this will become easier and you wonāt have to reward him this way with the same frequency. Heāll learn to appreciate that the true reward is the lifestyle itself.
PS! Taking away his orgasms doesnāt mean that you have to limit your own. Feel free to have sex, masturbate or use your husband in any way you want as often as you like as long as you donāt allow him to climax. From my experience, involving my husband in my pleasure just enhances the effect of the denial. When youāve had your pleasure and youāre completely satisfied, make sure you talk to him about why he canāt cum and which chores he has to finish to get his reward. When heās extremely horny, be positive and talk about how you appreciate his efforts with the chores. This makes the conditioning of his mind go a lot faster.
Discipline
The same way you use orgasms as rewards you should also use discipline and punish him when his performance isnāt good enough. You can punish him in a lot of different ways. From simply prolonging the period without orgasm to a harsh bare bottom caning. I am not a sadist and I donāt take any pleasure from disciplining my husband. I do it because I know he needs it. Itās his wish not mine. My husband tells me he needs discipline from time to time in order re-enforce the power exchange between us. The punishments I administer also helps him correct his behaviour and the fear of them helps him to intensify his efforts to please me.
In a lot of the articles, stories, and blog entries you read from Dominatrixes online, you get the impression that bad boys need discipline and spanking is the only way to do that. I donāt agree. I use a variety of methods other than spanking. Very few of them involves hitting.
For instance, the one he hates the most is when I simply ignore him. Absolutely no violence is involved. My husband hates being ignored and it never takes long for him to figure out why heās being ignored and to correct his behaviour. Itās very effective. I also quite often use what I call āsuffer in silenceā. I use it because itās very effective, extremely easy for me to administer, it doesnāt make any sound (we have kids), and it lasts more than 30 minutes which actually gives him a lot of time to think about why heās being punished. Itās kind of like a harsh spanking and corner time combined. When I administer āsuffer in silenceā I order him to go to our bedroom and āundress and cuff upā. I follow him upstairs and lock him spreadeagle on his back on our bed before removing his chastitycage. While doing so I make sure he knows why he is being disciplined. This is important. Then I finish up by rubbing a generous ammount of BenGay onto his cock and balls. If Iām especially angry or disappointed in him I slip some into his anus as well. Then I leave the room, close the door behind me and go downstairs for some quiet time with the newspaper or the kids. The effect lasts 30-40 minutes after which I release him and we cuddle up for some aftercare while he tells me what he has learned and how he is going to improve himself and his efforts.
When it comes to discipline, use your imagination and discuss the alternatives with your spouse. He needs to know what might happen and fear it. Keep in mind that it doesnāt have to be spanking.
Domination
Through Domestication, Denial and Discipline you will be the head of your household.
Give it time. My husband and I started on this wonderful journey over 15 years ago and our relationship is still evolving. Itās very often one step forward and two steps back but as long as youāre both committed to the task the results will come.
In a successful modern 24/7 female led relationship youāll find very few spiked corsets, whips and thigh high boots. Usually there is just a strong, confident woman with an urge to be in charge and a confident husband longing to be submissive, both sharing the courage to challenge the old fashioned patriarchal society. They live this way because female led relationships simply works betterā¦
āAn obedient husband is a happy husband!ā
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Learning to tease...
Many times teasing your partner can become difficult. The problem is coming up with imaginative ways to tease him so that things donāt become āstaleā or āroutineā. Well, I have good news. There is a website that is jam-packed with teases that you can use āas-isā or modify for your own special needs.
Milovana is a website dedicated to web teasing. They have literally hundreds of webteases. Most are designed for men, though there are a few for women. However, all the teases are designed for solo use. That means that the reader is supposed to masturbate as directed in the tease. Some of the teases involve pain of kind or another, and many require you to have certain ātoysā during the tease. Almost all of them are excellent example of tease and denial.
So how does this help you? I would suggest that you read several of the tease and denial teases and see how you could adapt them to your own situation. In other words, how you can use them with your partner. Perhaps you want to become the person guiding the tease and order your partner to do the things the tease call for. Or⦠You can become a part of the tease by doing the things listed in the tease to your partner instead of making him do them to himself. Your participation would greatly increase the pleasure you both obtain from the tease.
If you are really into tease and denial, you should be able to find many of the webteases useful. For example, you want your partner to remain in chastity (orgasm free) for a month. Try this: once a week, remove his chastity device and perform one of the teases from Milovana to tease and deny him an orgasm. By the end of the month, he will be more than willing to do whatever you want in order to get that orgasm. It wonāt be long before you are coming up with tease and denial scenes of your own.
So give Milovana a try and see what ideas you can come up with. You might even break a webtease up into several parts and have him perform a portion of it each day (or night, as the case may be). Anyway, it will be entertaining and there is a great deal of potential for some real excitementā¦
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From vanilla to chastity
If you are interested in male chastity, then thereās probably already something going on in the relationship where male chastity would be a natural enhancement. To push him further towards the chastity lifestyle you could follow a programme like this :
He wears the device for most of an erotic session. In return, you wear stockings.
He wears the device for all of an erotic session but gets to jerk off at the end. In return, you wear stockings and he gets to use sex toys on you.
He wears the device for all of an erotic session and overnight. In return, you wear stockings and let him watch you masturbate.
He wears the device all week, for the entire erotic session and overnight. In return, you wear stockings and perform any sexual act on yourself that he asks you to.
He wears the device all week, for the entire erotic session and overnight. However, the rules now change. He has to earn erotic activity with additional days of lock up, for example, one day per orgasm you have.
The main thing is to offer him wild erotic experiences, but at the price of wearing the chastity device. After a while, thereās a chance he will think this is a fair tradeā¦
What are the rules of the game āsupervised masturbationā? Are there any penalties?
Yes, of course! Free your mind and think of some rules, you make them... the penalties as well... As long as SHE is in charge

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