#youngism

[Plain Text: This-is-[blank] blogs NOT to follow]

And who to follow instead. 😉

@/this-is-transgynephobia is racist (other blogs here) and @/thisis-transgynephobia thinks appropriating kin culture is okay so instead follow @this-is-antitransfeminity or @this-is-varsexism-transphobia.

Lily was also very involved in intersex matters so for intersex blogs, follow @this-is-intersexism, @this-is-internoirism, or @thisis-intersexism.

Would also like to give a special shoutout @v-hypospadias, @intersexcat-tboy, @this-is-trans-solidarity, @intersex-joy, and @tboy-cock for non this-is-[insert bad thing here] blogs

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@/this-is-transandrophobia is an an anti-endo pluralphobe (and so, by extension, ableist).

@/this-is-transmisandry is also paramisic (and so, by extension, sanist) having reblogged this "call out post" onto soul's blog and then later on went to say that soul was antiship/antific. Let it be clear that "I don't think anybody should read/write/draw this because it disgusts me" is an authoritarian viewpoint and inherently harmful.

Instead follow @this-is-varsexism-transphobia, @this-is-anti-masculinity, or @androqueer-struggles.

Would also like to add that @this-is-pluralphobia is endo friendly and would also like to give special attention to @this-is-plural-joy, @plural-culture-is, and @this-is-plural-pride.

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@/this-is-ageism is paramisic (and so, by extension, saneist) and when they were told so by Kris, the mod of the ageism blog didn't even reply and only edited their post after quite a few people corrected them, this is also their second time being blatantly paramisic and only editing after receiving backlash. However, the mod eventually addressed many anons asking if they were paramisic and they said that they wouldn't say they were. However, they then received a paramisic anon and despite being told both in the comments and in their ask box that anon was being paramisic and to please call that out, nothing was done or said.

This makes me think that this is not an accident, interact with caution.

I also recommend reading this post, this post, aaaaand this post by @thisisparamisia.

Instead though, follow @this-is-youngism and @this-is-adultism. I'd also like to give @this-is-parental-abuse an honorary mention.

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@/thisis-paraphilicsocialostracization originally made an anti endo statement in their "stances post" found here. When hymn were called out in the comments for it's ableism, they originally made an apology post - stating that hymn shouldn't have spoken on plural matters as a singlet without proper research. The apology post and the comments calling it out have since been deleted. Unfortunately there is no evidence that was able to be snagged (to my knowledge), so it is a he said/she said situation - interact with caution.

Instead follow @thisisparamisia. Would also like to give @fleurpositivity, @atypicalattractions, and @necrofoxfang a special spotlight, they all have great posts on paraphilias.

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@/thisis-kinphobia is run by the same person who runs then transmisandry blog, who is paramisic and saneist. Being against ANY paraphilia is ableist. To be against ANY disability is ableist. (I am aware that not all paraphilias are disorders). You can be against AAMAP relationships without being anti-para.

Instead follow @this-is-kinmisia, @this-is-factomisia, @thisisfictomisia, @this-is-alterhumisia, or @thisis-transspecimisia.

Special shout out to @this-is-alterhuman-joy, @alterhuman-culture-is, and @wolf-culture-is.

This list is subject to change. If you find another this-is-[blank] blog that is problematic, please feel free to send it in along with whatever proof you may have and I will add it to the list.

Obligatory Disclaimer!

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I do not support or condone the harassment or bullying of these individuals. I do not encourage going into their askbox to ask them passive aggressive asks like "why are you a bigot?" or "sigh, so sad that your racist/pluralphobic/paramisic/kinmisic" or anything of the sort. These people having bigoted and harmful takes does not give you permission to be harmful and bigoted back. Report and block, do not harass.

This account is still under construction, so posts likely will take a day or so until I start posting them.

Note (2nd of June, 2026): Still on semi hiatus: I was able to fix the IRL issue from march, but will need time to figure out things regarding this account. In the meantime, please read this post.

Related Topics: @this-is-ageism (general ageism) & @this-is-adultism (ageism targeting kids, teens / young people for not being like adults).

Youngism often also overlaps with other issues, like @this-is-ableism & @this-is-saneism, as disabled young adults often are invalidated due to their disabilities & mental health.

(other accounts that sparked inspiration, as well as accounts focusing on positivity, will be listed under the cut. If anyone wishes to be removed, please let me know. )

Housekeeping Notes:

Please avoid discriminatory language towards other groups faced with discrimination, mistreatment etc.

This account is not here to start arguments or discourse, and I'd appreciate discussions being kept civil

please include trigger warnings & content warnings as needed in your submissions, better be safe than sorry

if possible, please include alt text / image descriptions for screenshots

Im an adult now and i know nothing, my mother kept me under her thumb and refused to teach me and i hate it, she still refuses to teach me and she calls me her "baby" constantly as if im not a grown adult, even if i was younger a teen hell even a tween, i would like to know how i do taxes, how i sign up/ deal with disabillity income things

The only thing i remember her actualy teaching me was how to pay my phone bill with a prepaid card 😭

YOUR KIDS NEED TO KNOW THINGS IF THEYRE ASKING ABOUT IT THEY PROBABLY ACTUALY WANT TO FUCKING KNOW ABOUT IT

Just teach your kids!!

They are STUCK with you!!

Im away from her now but yikes i feel so very stunted :-(

I hope i made scense i have alot of feelings about this

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This is adultism, youngism, ableism, infantilization and a common abuse tactic to keep victims dependent on their abusers

There is in fact a difference!

Ageism includes the discrimination of young adults, as well as senior citizens.

Adultism only focuses on children.

I'm not sure if this "counts" as adultism because the victim is themselves an adult but it feels like it is as they are being subjected to adultist attitudes and behaviour:

i know a young adult who has almost everyone around them constantly "treating them like a child" because they're a young adult/"look young/innocent/cute"/etc. they're constantly treated with the kind of condescending over-smothering that adults sometimes treat children with and are repeatedly gaslit (or attempted to be gaslit) into thinking they are naive or dumb or "childish" or immature etc. just for wanting to do perfecty normal adult (and usually stuff that's also perfectly normal even for kids) things and be independent and make their own decisions. it makes me really sad that this happens and looks so much like how i see kids get treated as well, always being told they don't know anything and need protecting from their own autonomy because they're just so small and cute or whatever the hell.

it's just so dumb when adults act like adultism isn't oppressive and a problem even when other adults can go through this and it's so obviously absurd. like if people can see that what happens to this person i know is crazy, why can't they realize it's just as crazy subjecting a child or youth to it??? and even then people act like it's not crazy and totally normal to treat an adult like that just based on the argument that they "seem like a kid" to people. it's just so blatantly evil

The fact that a lot of people are unable to recognize that someone can be less experienced than themselves without equating that person to a child is ridiculous.

The fact that so many people have this idea ingrained in them that you have to live to a certain age to be considered a "real adult" is ridiculous

An 18 year old on a legal level has pretty much all the same rights, voting power, and general ability to consent (body modification, marriage, sex, medical care, legally binding contracts contracts), etc as a 45 year old, stop infantilizing them!

Youngism is being expected to get over your familial abuse the moment you turn 18 because "you're an adult now." and suddenly it's not their responsibility to make reparations for all the shit they put you through, because You're An Adult Now! Yippee!! Haha you silly little adult why do you still care about those silly little things we put you through? You're not a baby anymore! Stop acting like a baby wah wah! We're not going to try so hard anymore because as far as we're concerned — no longer our responsibility!! Fly free! Leave the nest!! Not enough money? Disabled? Oh well, guess it's still my house my rules 😘 You're just so ungrateful for all I've done for you... Also did you know you were really fucking annoying your entire childhood, and we hated you? Because you were 🥰 but you're so responsible and mature now and you're going to act like an adult now, aren't you? We like you so much better when you act like none of that happened, and you like it when we like you, don't you? You won't bring up that pointless shit no one remembers, right? You'll stop bothering us with it, hm? We're family, aren't we? You'll still help us out, won't you? You love us, don't you? Oh you don't know what to do? Well, you've always known how to figure it out by yourself, so just do that my darling child! Oh, you didn't know how to do that? I'm so disappointed in you. How could you be so irresponsible? I expect this from mum, not you.