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Yes, everyone have a love story, few may accept it few may not but it doesn't alter the fact. The feeling  in beginning seems so pleasant, sweet .No matter how mean you are, no matter how cunning you are, no matter till how cool you are showing yourself, when someone ignites this chemical reaction in your mind your all cunningness goes off and  now you are completely in control of this unknown, unwanted but willing feeling.  Unknown because you don’t know what actually you want, when your love is not around, you wanted a glimpse of her but when you see her , you try to hide yourself from her, only god knows what actually you want at that point. It’s unwanted because sometimes you feel you had made your world very tinny, your world is only she and her belongings. What’s her likes, dislikes, her Birthday, who is close to her, at what time and where you can get a glimpse of her etc etc. And now it’s willing because let it be how painful it can be, you like the feeling, you love the feeling and you love to live with that pleasant pain. Till here everything is almost same for all, but things start changing after this, few get their love of life and chapter ends. Such stories can be described just in one line-“Najare mili,dil dhadka,shadi huyi  kahani khatam” .May be good or bad depends but certainly they can’t be described as love or lover, as the guy who tasted alcohol once or twice can’t be said Alchohalic (Not discussing alcoholics are good or bad).  Here one thing need to be noted Love is not that girl or boy, love is that feeling which was triggered in you when she was  on your mind, as it triggers when she was on your mind now she is the trigger of that ‘love feeling’ and now her thought on your mind will keep that ‘Love feeling’ ignited.

 Love is always been compared with war, here too you don’t remember those wars between neighbors which was started in the morning with small fight and ends till night with happy ending. These are also war but these aren’t even referred as war, instead referred as quarrel.  Similar that one line love (Najare mili ……shadi) can’t be referred as love. Love is that where ignition of that feeling remains ignited in you, if love is been considered as war and you are the one whose ignition is still on don’t feel you are failed in love, dude you are the real warrior, you are General Jagjeet Singh of 1971 indo-pak war, consider yourself as a warrior, a soldier not that quarreling neighbor. Feel proud as that our war heroes feel, but as in war some soldiers martyr while others survived, here too some become Dev Babu of ‘Devdas’ and give up, while others become Gatsby of ‘The Great Gatsby ’ who made himself most influential man in the town just to get her back. Choice is yours, wanted to be Gatsby or Dev Babu.

So the bottom line is,’ you! Who is feeling unsuccessful in love’, take feel of worrier buddy and be Gatsby.