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Hello! I asked the cards your question and the first pull was the Knight of Cups, 5 of Swords and Judgement.

Knight of Cups means he handles it all with tact and grace, he’s diplomatic and his awareness of others and his emotional connection to them makes it easier to deal with. 5 of Swords, on the other hand, shows him still feeling kind of conflicted and defeated by it, with a sense of loss. Judgement points to him then going through a lot of self-reflection and self-evaluation where he might think about his own work and what he can learn and improve for the next job.

The second pull was Justice, 8 of Coins and 2 of Cups. Justice means he sees is all with a moderated view, he believes they get what they deserve, it’s fair and they are getting the praise they worked for, it’s a result of their work. 8 of Coins shows him then feeling like he needs to keep doing his own work diligently and patiently and stay focused so can reach the results he wants. 2 of Cups is about harmony and mutual support in a work environment. It would not affect his work partnership with them, he would feel happy for them because it’s a partnership after all and it’s also joyful for him.

^ Thank you @ateliefloresdaprimavera for inspiring that

If this sounds weird, hear me out. I may be a bit cynical when it comes to people, but i truly believe no one is perfect (duh) and certainly no one is as nice as Pedro to everyone. Its just not possible, people are moody creatures, and cant like every single person at any given time. Life is too hectic. While to most fans this ‘everyone speaks so highly of him’ thing is ‘awww honey boo boo 🥹🥹’, to me is like 🤔 that much of a narcissist huh. Hes the same with everyone, and everyone is different so i dont see how that works. I reckon he doesnt do it for others, he does it for himself because he needs to be liked and all that jazz you know very well about. Thats why no one sticks around other than ‘friends/staff’ he keeps as a satellite because hes terrified to be alone (that says a lot about someone). It could literally be anyone who would be willing to go after him with not much commitment on his end. His standards on people are quite low imo. Now im not here to diagnose pedro’s issues for which the man needs therapy, and a lot of it, but yeah just wondering. Thank you and sorry if this is not appropriate for the cards.

Hello! I asked the cards your question and the first pull was the 7 of Coins, The Lovers and The Tower.

7 of Coins means it’s a lot about time and investment and a growing connection, with long term results. The Lovers represents harmonious friendships or partnerships, while The Tower points to things crumbling, falling apart, sudden and radical changes or shakeups. It looks like time is what makes a difference. When he invests in the friendship/relationship, you will see the great connection you can build, but you will also see whatever has to fall apart falling apart. The harmonious part is not fake, though.

The second pull was the Page of Wands, 2 of Cups and Ace of Swords. Page of Wands is the energetic, enthusiastic boy ready to start new things, to experiment the new. 2 of Cups followed by Ace of Swords makes me think that if you love that spontaneous and fiery energy you love it right because it’s all quite clear. He’s probably able to communicate and be honest and not let things in the shadows or unclear.

I did ask for a card to sum it up and it was the 4 of Swords. This card is about feeling exhausted, in need of resting and solitude in order to recharge or recover. This could mean that it all has to do with being close or taking time to develop the relationship.

Idealizing people, specifically in relationships, exaggerates reality. In 500 Days of Summer, Tom struggles with idealizing Summer from the moment he met her. The issue is, she doesn’t believe in marriage and relationships, however, he still pursues a relationship with her. As an audience, we see through Tom’s perspective, which may seem harmless, but we see the true mental pain and ignorance that comes with idealization. Whether it be his expectations vs realities, the unconscious pedestal he puts Summer on, or the complete disregard for her boundaries, all he sees is perfection with no flaws. He lets her completely control his mental state which ultimately dictates their current relationship state, this can lead to manipulation and mental disorder for both people.  

The movie 500 Days of Summer illustrates how idealizing romantic partnerships can cause a distorted version of reality and toxic dysfunction in relationships. The film exposes the true harm behind idealization on relationships through Tom’s limerence for Summer causing false perceptions of her, Summer’s personal boundary of not wanting a relationship being unconsciously broken by his lust and the pressure he puts on Summer to be ready for a label so she meets his personal expectations.