I feel for this man 100%. As a woman, we all have different situations to why we have/had abortions ā a rape, we canāt afford the child but there are options of putting it up for adoption(which most women donāt enjoy doing), or even medical reasons. Men who communicate with you telling you that theyāre willing to take care of you and the child or just take care of the child altogether; Men like him are extremely rare. There are women who do go to the clinic without even telling their men, but what women forget to recognize is youāre also damaging your body when you continuously do abortions. I donāt support abortions depending on the circumstance, but if youāre going to the clinic just to abort the child so your man doesnāt know that youāre pregnant because you were either being unfaithful or youāre not ready; I truly feel like the man has the right to know and have some kind of say like him! It isnāt fair if youāre dealing with a man and heās the kind of guy who actually wants kids. Abortions are a sensitive topic but I feel like it needs to be addressed! I understand if you and your man didnāt plan it accordingly. Donāt act like you werenāt having sex with no protection and being more careful. Be mindful. Be more aware. Be open about your needs & wants.
