#whumpist

okay attempt two at posting this

ways of making a whumpee scared of non-con without outright nc or threats

carewhumper vibes. the obvious tws apply

manhandling. throw them onto the bed and straddle their hips, keeping their hands pinned on either side of their head. alternatively, bend them over a table or a bed, keeping them there with a hand tangled in their hair or on the back of their neck.

alternatively, keeping them pressed against your chest or guiding them with fingers tangled in their hair or digging into their hip, just slightly under their waistband

classic shows of submission. tie them up and have them kneel - especially if it's between your whumpers spread legs. give their hair a pet every once in a while if they're good.

pet names: baby, pet, pretty boy, pup, princess. etc.

strip them. personally i prefer keeping my whumpees in their underwear and maybe a carewhumpers tshirt, but even so the act of stripping them is a great place for some physical and psychological whump - ESPECIALLY when the whumpee has only just been kidnapped/captured and does not yet know what to expect

have them undress in front of you for the first time before making them bend over the bed. watch their hands shake and their eyes fill with tears, feel them tense underneath you, frozen with fear. and then you simply just handcuff them or even just walk out of the room, leaving them to question when the n/c will start - only it won't. their fear is all you wanted, after all

gruff/significantly larger or older caretaker bathing a younger whumpee who doesn't feel safe around them yet - whumpee flinching away but too weak to fight as they are gently stripped and placed in the bath, being cleaned /everywhere/ in a way that makes them flush with shame even if there's no intention behind the touches

whumpee being gently but firmly forced into a humiliating position, maybe forced to stand still for an /inspection/ filled with clinical yet invasive touches

using objects w sexual connotations (ball gags, blindfolds, certain whips and types of restraints) in non-sexual situations

this works especially well for a newer whumpee - strip them, blindfold and ball gag them before thing them to a mattress, legs spread. then let them wake up on their own, slowly, watch the fear kick in as they come to their own conclusions about what's going to happen to them

some more explicit stuff below the cut

a friendly reminder that surgery scars, even ones that are healed and years old, are felt anytime you stretch that part of your body.

have scars on your chest or back? you feel them when you reach up to turn the light off before bed. scars on your knees? you feel them anytime you bend your leg too far.

it doesn't hurt, at least not in my case, (it feels somewhat like if you put a finger inside your mouth and pull the skin of your cheek out - a gentle pull, but no pain) but i've never seen this detail written into whump or recovery fics and when i do, it always adds so much more realism into the story.

Hello fellow whump writers and enjoyers I bring to you: The Effed Up Movie Archive, that has weird and obscure movies that are, as the title suggests, effed up.

As expected, major tw for most - if not all - of the movies you'll find on there, but the tagging/categorising system actually seems to be very decent and topics can be avoided quite easily from what I can tell. (I'm also certain you could find porn/fetish stuff on there, but to my knowledge I've already removed the minors from this acc so I'm reccing the website anyway).

Screenshots of the categories have been included below so you can see if this is your thing before clicking on the site. Some movies fit into multiple categories, and you can see all the relevant categories/tws in the description once you click on the movie itself.

Give me whump characters with existing disabilities

Flare ups caused by the stress and pain whumpee has to endure

Whumpee not having access to medications or mobility aids

Whumpers who do have access. They show up to whumpee's cell/room for a "day of fun" (torture) with one of their wrists in a compression brace (how does that change their torture plans? Does whumpee eye the brace with confusion, or maybe envy? Does it give them a little flicker of hope, thinking it's a weakness they could exploit?)

Whumper who spends the day, maybe the whole week, in bed with a migraine or a flare up. All the while neglecting whumpees basic needs, since whumper can barely take care of themselves at the moment (does whumpee think it's a punishment, or a tactic to make them more dependent/less defiant?)

How does the non-disabled one (if there is one) respond?

Does whumpee hide it until the last possible moment, fearing their vulnerabilities will be exploited? (Bonus: whumpee crying out in pain when whumpee lightly presses on a random, visibly fine part of their skin that's actually a fibro pressure point)

Does whumper hide it? Do they confidently use mobility aids (even when they don't need to, just to taunt whumpee with the medical help)?

"Oh my god whumpee, I had the worst migraine last night. Can't think of anything worse" while whumpee is literally in excruciating pain

Carewhumper who's empathetic to whumpees disabilities, and provides them with the right meds. Cue whumpees existential crisis because "maybe it isn't so bad"

Caretaker uses a cane, and at first whumpee thinks they went through something similar, and can't help feeling betrayed when they find out otherwise

So, firstly a quick disclaimer that everyone experiences disabilities differently, even if they have the same diagnosis, and severity levels can differ drastically.

This guideline is based off my own personal experiences, and I am not a medical professional.

If anyone would like to hear more about how a specific disability might impact their character, I'll answer as best you can or help you find the information elsewhere.

This is still a work in progress, and the rest of the series on writing disabled characters can be found on my page via my pinned post.

It's a bit long, so below the cut :)

maybe they're rebels or soldiers

maybe they're in an unsafe domestic situation

maybe they're a living weapon whumpee

either way, give them a go bag with everything they need to survive, and then take it away from them.

important documents, some clothing, spare cash, maybe a childhood teddy bear or important photo. give them that comfort, of knowing that they can escape at any time, and then for whatever reason take it away from them

maybe they don't have time to grab it, or maybe whumper finds it and takes it away.

leave your character unmoored, untethered to their past with no documents to even prove they're alive

continuing my recent tendency to write about disability in whump, i bring to you: whumpees with cfs (chronic fatigue syndrome), because so many people underestimate the severity of this disease.

as always, this series is based in personal experience. my source? dog i AM the source

whumpee's wounds healing more slowly than whumper's past victims

sleeping even when adrenaline is coursing through your veins. you hate it, you can't stop it, you need to be on alert-

alternatively, forcing yourself to be awake, watching the door even as your vision starts to go in and out. you know that if you tried to stand it would feel like each of your limbs were weighted down, like your bones had turned to lead

whumpee who gets sick while in captivity, and develops cfs (an autoimmune disorder) as a result. having to deal with it for the rest of their captivity but also for the rest of their life, a constant reminder of their trauma

cfs that doesn't get better after captivity (and why should it?). whumpee who has to sleep 10-18 hours a day even though every time they close their eyes all they see are memories of their captivity. their dreams are no better.

living weapon whumpee or any type of 'forced labourer' being punished for moving so slowly

whumper who uses sleep deprivation as a form of torture, and whumpee who, horribly, sleeps through the lights and sounds

alternatively, whumper threatens to leave whumpee drugged and unconsious (creepy/intimate whumper, lab/medical whump, you decide) and whumpee hates it but they can't deny that a dreamless sleep would be worth it. and maybe they'll have enough energy after, maybe-

breaking down in tears to caretaker (after or during the whump, your choice) about how they're just so tired, they can't control it, they can't-

whumpee who, despite the cfs, struggles to sleep during captivity, only snatching a few hours a night if they're lucky. having to deal with the confusion, the brain fog, the emotional distress that comes with staying awake when you have cfs

whumper who keeps whumpee awake on purpose, only to be confused when whumpee starts crying so hard they throw up because of how their body won't stop betraying them, of how they feel physically ill anytime they're awake for too long