when are you getting married?
As we’re getting older, we often get these kind of questions “when are you getting married?” or “do you have boyfriend/girlfriend?”. I personally get those Qs a lot. Especially from my grandma or aunts. LOL. But honestly, I never felt stress or annoyed with those Qs. Since I was a kid, I always dreamt of getting married to a Caucasians. So whenever they asked me those Qs, I will jokingly replied something like this “I’m waiting for a Caucasians fell from the sky”. Hehehe... And they were like “Along, please be serious.” Hahaha. When I started working, I didn't have time to go back to my grandma’s house. So they didn't get the chance to ask me those Qs anymore. Luckily for me, my parents are not the type who keep asking me those kind of Qs. Maybe that’s the reason why I don't get annoyed or stress easily whenever people asked me those Qs. That’s why I don't understand those people who easily get stress or annoyed with those Qs and they replied in a sarcastic manners. For me it is very rude of them to be sarcastic to the elders. I think the elders were asking with good intention so why do they have to reply sarcastically? You get what I mean? They even make a joke or parody on internet how they replied to those Qs. What if their grandmas or aunts read or see those kind of joke? I think the best way is just to answer honestly and asking for their prayer/du’a. InshaAllah we will get rewarded and blessed by Allah in any way for not being rude to the elders.
