I don’t post on here a lot, mainly just reblogging.
However, I have come to my tumblr peers in great need!
I am a very calm person who enjoys taking the high road on things. I don’t have time for drama.
My current boyfriend and I have been together since September and talking since JUNE. We’ve hit it off and are very happy.
Why do I need help you ask?
We were all friends when the broke up (I had know my boyfriend longer that I’d know her) and she’s very drama oriented.
Now that I am with her ex, I receive a lot of backlash from her and her friends, but as previously stated, I enjoy the high road.
I recently noticed that she unfriended me on Facebook (AGAIN) for the 1,000th Time.
I reached out to her to make sure it wasn’t over something I had no knowledge of. (People like to keep the pot stirred.)
We talked and she explained that she just needed to distance herself.
I wished her luck, told her I was here if she needed to talk, and understood completely, exhibiting no signs of being upset (because I wasn’t.) This happened last night.
So she messaged a good friend of my boyfriend’s today and said that her (the ex) and I got into a fight and that it was because she unfriended me. She said I got “butthurt”.
Now, that was further from the truth so I sent screenshots of the whole conversation just to more or less show that I wasn’t angry or upset.
So the friend tells her she saw the screenshots and she doesn’t see where I was mad and the ex goes into a rant about how her and my boyfriend had been broken up for a year (but they broke up last May) and he’s still meddling in her life.
My question to you, my friends, is what do I do? How should I react? This is also not the first time she (the ex) has done something of this nature or given someone false/exaggerated information.
How do I stop this so I can move on with my life?
I have a happy relationship. I just want the drama filled ex out of my life.